So, for the times my wife and I have partaken of anal sex, I will pull out just before I climax, assuming of course that she would not want me to cum inside her ass. Now in the porn business there are plenty of internal cum scenes during anal sex and I wanted to find out who here includes this is their normal sex lives and what the risks might be. Let me know what you think! :)
That's a good question Matt47. When my girlfriend gives me anal I always wear a condom because she fears cum in the ass might give her an bacterial infection. Of course I don't mind wearing one, but it's interesting to see someone with a similar question.
None of my partners have experienced any problems when I came in their ass.
The rectum is a self cleaning orifice. You know that as long as she is healthy, her bowel contents will clean out every 24 hours. Compare that to ejaculating during viginal sex - unless she has her period soon or performs a douche you can't say the same. (Note: from what I have read, douching isn't a recommended health practise anyway).
From what I understand, the only thing you have to watch is that the lining of the rectum is more prone to small tears if care isn't taken, hence unprotected anal sex can be dangerous because there is a high risk of viral transmission.
Given you are in a monogamous realtionship, there shouldn't be any reason not to cum in her ass - assuming she is fine with it of course
The ass is a dirty place. The guy is more likely to get a urinary infection from having unprotected anal sex. And the tears in the anus can get infected. So you should be careful. Cum itself should be free of bacteria and viruses in a healthy man..
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Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 1:23AM
Definitely cum in the ass. My wife doesn't mind. We are monogamous and disease free. I've also found that the colon is usually clean, not dirty. Of course, we've never tried while she's been sick and assuming her normal daily bowel movement is "behind" her.
Only once have I pulled out to find "mud on my turtle"
Thanks very much for the replies everyone! It's good to hear what works for others in this situation. Now all I have to do is somehow bring this during anal sex and see if my wife wants me to just leave it in... :)
Cum in her asshole, she will love the feeling and you will too. It's safe to do cause you're both desease free. I use to cum in my girlfrind ass all the time, she even begged me to cause it took her to a new level of extacy.
My gf is not too keen on me cumming in her ass or her pussy. She 'allows' me occasionally but she doesn't like it running out her pussy or having to go and shit it out her ass afterwards (she says she feels like it is about to leak out at any moment but actually getting it all out is another matter)
The only reason I prefer anal sex is because my girlfriend will allow me to cum in her ass. She would never let me cum in her pussy. Hell, even though she's on the pill she's close to making me wear 2 condoms just incase one of them breaks.
Thanks very much for your thoughts, Tammi Lynn, nice to have you here! My question back to you would be, is this mentioned before the anal sex even begins? Do you and your partner decide early that when you get to the anal sex, the cumming will be inside, not out? I just don't know if there is an appropriate time to mention this. Has a guy asked for this and you said no?
Usually it isn't. My cum policy (for lack of a catchy phrase) is for all sex...oral, vaginal or anal. Most of the guys are pretty easy to detect when they're about to cum and I usually just ask them. Very few times have the guys not listened to me and only once has any of those guys been with me again.
Usually if a woman's secure enough in herself she can just say what she wants and it's up to the guy to respect her enough to do it.
My girl loves to feel me explode in her ass. Her preference is to go balls deep and hold it there while I explode so she can feel the warmth of my load and the pulsating of my cock then pound her for a minute or so before pulling out.
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Posted - Jan 7 2016 : 2:12AM
Teen girls nowadays do a lot more than when I was that age. Probably because of the easy access to porn and the ability to learn what is out there and what is possible. Their boyfriends and such learn about all these things at such a young age and get them into it. They can grow a much more open mind in their teenage years vs my day when all the guys would know about where playboy mags or some VHS in their dad's closet that had normal vaginal sex and stomach cumshots..... and all they would ask you for was to show your titties :) There wasn't a whole lot of hair grabbing, get on your knees and ass to mouth and all that jazz that young men are asking for today. The advent of easy access to porn on the internet changed my sexuality completely (mid to late 90's). You see some truly horrifying things of course, but you also see a lot of things and you pursue them in the real world. Nothing like the past when all you had were skin mags and some VHS titles with simple sexual scenarios. I am sure if I was 18 now, I would have had that experience much earlier in life. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 1/7/2016 2:18:06 AM
The last girl I gave anal to told me it gives her the shits. (my words not hers, she's too much of a lady to talk like that). I think it depends on what your ultimate goal is, does she want it on her titties? In her mouth? On her face or belly? If no and she doesn't want the sticky load all over the linens then leave it in place and make a deposit. Or when you're about to cum grind in deep and thrust and mix it around and ask her if she can feel it coming out, talk dirty to her like that.
Since there's been discussion on this relatively recently. When we have anal sex, which isn't often, I always cum in her ass. It's simply the best feeling I can consistently have during sex. She's going to wind up going to the toilet afterwards anyway and she doesn't make anal sex worse for her.
1/ Choose the best girl that connects your feelings. 2/ Use a condom and fuck in the pussy. If she is a virgin and only is ok for anal, just foreplay and give a little oil/moisturizer treat there :) 3/ When you cum in the condom, take it, flip it inside out and wear on the finger and use cum as the lube to gape her ass with the fingers 4/ Somehow, those warm cum is a great lube :p 5/ Keep finger gaping until you get erected again 6/ Fuck that ass with no condoms and give the cumshot finally near the rim 7/ Wash yourselves well without just laying there and sleeping after sex.
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Posted - Mar 19 2017 : 10:08PM
If you are going to bareback the girl , why use a condom in the first place? Pregnancy? You do know that your cumshot near the rim drips down on the pussy...lol Basically you are about as safe as the pull-out method so you might as well not bother with a rubber at all. You obviously don't care about STis anyway :)