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2bollocks
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Posted - Mar 4 2015 : 5:22PM
^There's no reasoning with a psychopath bro.
Boogie With Stu
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Posted - Mar 4 2015 : 5:33PM
You don't get to WN&N very often, do you?
joachim
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Posted - Mar 4 2015 : 6:53PM
This is all well and good, but women should still be proactive in their own defense, I think. The alternative presents a somewhat hopeless aspect, if you ask me.
StarGrek
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Posted - Mar 4 2015 : 9:14PM
^^^^
I like the way you are thinking Fahrenheit because you understand that there is a problem and you are trying to think of a solution. Sexual education is one way. I am with you a thousand percent. There is no better place to learn how to enjoy the pleasures of sex from the sex industry itself. The woman's body is a garden of Eden, full of juicy fruits and flowers. And not only this, her expressions, her grace, her movements, her voice, her words, her moaning, the very way she thinks. Everything on her is celebrating sensuality and there is no better achievement for a man to make her offer him her body willingly, to let him consume all her fruits and extend his treatments with responsive expressions. But the man have to learn to play the game. To learn her buttons. He has to learn the language, her body language. But every woman has different codes and buttons so he has to learn his female partner specific body language. To know when to be gentle or intensive, tender or hard, playful or decisive, careful or persistent. The moment when the man sees a woman only as a meat hole and nothing more than that then there is a serious problem for both of them.
All these sexy creatures we are admiring in our screen are women living next door, walking near you, writing and posing in social networks. Talk to them, flirt with them, seduce them. All the fun it is in the game. After all... we are hunters. It is time to create lovers not rapists.
 
StarGrek
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Posted - Mar 4 2015 : 11:20PM
Sighs ...
My dearest missporn. You are a fascinating personality. I bet you should be a lawyer because if you are not you are definitely sound like. The question is who and what you are defending? In any case I think you are falling into a trap. You cannot sympathize a rape victim and at the same time state that raping is a fantasy! It doesn't make sense. Is at least politically incorrect, no matter what you really think about it deep inside you.
I am not implying anything because I am afraid I will be sued [:P)] But, I know that there are a lot of viewers that are turned on reading this raping incident. In fact, the more dramatic and humiliating any raping report they read, the more contempt they feel. Let's not try to hide behind our fingers. As human beings we are not perfect. Our mind works in mysterious ways. There are many extreme perversions out there and people with many confused feelings in their souls. Still, no matter which are our perversions we have to be responsible to the adult community. We have to take a stand. We cannot chew our words and by any mean we should not give the wrong impressions. There are many lightheaded idiots out there who can misunderstand our statements and might create unfortunate incidents based on these. So keep in mind that maybe Cytherea or other pornstars will read this thread one day.
missporn wrote:
According to an analysis of relevant studies published last year in The Journal of Sex Research, an analysis that defines rape as involving “the use of physical force, threat of force, or incapacitation through, for example, sleep or intoxication, to coerce a woman into sexual activity against her will,” between one-third and more than one-half of women have entertained such fantasies, often during intercourse, with at least 1 in 10 women fantasizing about sexual assault at least once per month in a pleasurable way.
I think that you are interpreting the article in the wrong way or at least have a very naive or romantic perception of what real raping is. The fantasy involves the person who fantasizes to feel pleasure in a completely narrow, idealistic and controlled environment without further negative implications or consequences. For example: I fantasize a day when a woman with the appearance of I dunno… Kim Kardashian come to me and force me to have passionate sex with her. That is a fantasy. But the fantasy does not include that I will get something like chlamydia or gonorrhea from the physical contact. And when instead of Kim comes a horny gorilla beat me up and make me wake up in a clinic with a big pain in my ass, that is not a fantasy that is a rape. There is a big difference between these two.
The rapers by definition are not the people you want. They aren't always look like male Gods or have bodies like trained athletes. They are not passionate lovers or experienced male porn stars. They don't care about your pleasure or your feelings in general. If you are lucky you will not end up in a hospital or worst dead in a nearby dumpster. If you are lucky you will be free of serious STD and your reproduction organs will remain intact. If you are lucky you will remain psychologically and sexually sane and you will manage to bury the incident and continue with your life. If you are lucky and you talk to your relation he will understand you and he will not dump you for a dozen wrong reasons.
Again. Raping is not a sexual fantasy. The phrase "I want to be raped" is fundamentally contradictive. You cannot want something that is against your will. This is an oxymoron. The very moment the element of “will” is added into the equation from the side of a rape victim, the words rape and victim lose immediately their meaning. This is where the advocates of rapists stay in order to absolve their clients from the accusations.
PS. btw I totally agree with that article but not in the same sense you do. I have lived some special moments during my relations that totally justify the article. In fact, I am sure that some of them you will find quite interesting. If you want (and still don't hate me) I will be happy to share them with you
misspornUSA
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Posted - Mar 5 2015 : 12:06AM
I am not sure what you mean in your first sentence, but as to the latter I have no interest at all in being pc.
I agree with you that there are many messed up people out there (the subject of your second paragraph). Nonetheless, you haven't proven that these messed up people watch rape-fetish porn and then decide to become rapists.
Of course I recognize that a rape fantasy is not based on what actually occurs during a real life rape. More to the point, the pornstars in a rape-fetish scene are not experiencing a real life rape either. The pornstar in such a scene will not be beat up by a "horny gorilla," etc. I know of no good reason to ban these scenes and apparently neither do you.
Exactly true, so why in your past comments did you link fake rape in porn to real life rape? One is a a fantasy acted out while the other is something else entirely.
If you're saying that these people aren't fantasizing about real rape, of course they're not. Similarly, the "rape" depicted in some porn is not real rape and you have not any established any sort of a casual link between those kinds of scenes and real life rape. At most you've demonstrated why minors should not watch porn.
"Between one-third and more than one-half of women have entertained such fantasies." I agree with what I quoted as written. As I said, I am fully aware that these people are not fantasizing about rape as it actually occurs in the real world.
I don't dislike you in any way. We just happen to disagree.
Rosco Fuji
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Posted - Mar 5 2015 : 10:45AM
I don't surf the forum beyond the top topics. What am I missing?
Boogie With Stu
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Posted - Mar 5 2015 : 11:27AM
^ A smorgasbord of prison rape fantasies, all authored by the guy with whom you were going back and forth. All of them very detailed, most of them involving "AIDS infested cocks". Then there's the occasional talk of forced sterilization on a portion of society, as well.
Part of me envies you, really.
Beerfan99
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Posted - Mar 30 2015 : 8:27PM
Thanks to a lot of fans and supporters out there,You Caring.com had a goal of $10,000.The last time I checked it was over $21,000,to help support her and get her back on her feet.
Curtom
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Posted - Aug 30 2015 : 11:46AM
^ See the previous comments on this. Sounds like garden variety anti-feminist tripe and a really neat way of not taking mainstream media to task while also blaming women. Mainstream media routinely ignores sex worker safety, while feminist outlets and activists are among the only places that do address it. Yes, I too have problems with SWERFs, but I'm not throwing the entire movement (who are inclusive of sex workers and have been diligently fighting for sex workers rights) under the bus. How disappointing.
FlacFan
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Posted - Sep 28 2015 : 12:58AM
Was out of the loop as it were and just discovered this when posting a Birthday greeting in Cytherea's Thread.
This whole family, especially the kids, will need quite a bit of therapy.
I am not going to delve into the feminist/porn debate, because there isn't a right answer for everyone in that debate. People for some reason seem to think that what someone does in the privacy of there own home directly impacts them, even though they wouldn't know about it if they were not told by an outside source. It matters not to them who I am fucking as long as they are of age and as long as neither of us are hurting anyone who does not want to be hurt. And yes, there are people who get off on pain. I am not sure when it started, but at some point, a differing point of view was no longer an opinion, but an attack on one's person, healthy civil debate seems to be disappearing rapidly and if you are of another mind, you are not to be associated with. I see many parallels to Germany in the 20's and 30's, it's a bit disturbing.
It is an interesting debate.
I hear that more laws and more rights need to be in place, but that really isn't so. The laws are already in place but the courts system is so broken that it cannot function properly. Mandatory minimums, in my opinion, were partially a reaction to that. Somewhere along the way things shifted, It was understood when I was small that you lost your rights to everything but food and water when you committed a crime. There is virtually zero accountability anymore if you have enough cash, the flip side to that is that some people regardless of income see that and even though they can't possibly get away with it, think they can because others have.
I really can't see things getting better before they get much much worse unless there's an awakening of basic compassion and loss of greed. I am not holding my breath, there are a lot of unpleasant people with a distorted view of normal, including me. The difference is most of us don't take ours outside with us.
Silicone Is Evil, Razors Aren't Much Better
Edited for punctuation
Edited by - FlacFan on 9/28/2015 1:00:35 AM
hammerle11
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Posted - Sep 28 2015 : 11:13AM
I was not aware this happened until I stumbled across this topic today. My heart goes out to Cytherea and her family. What a terrible and horrific experience. I hope the perps are prosecuted to the fullest extent. I have been a fan of Cyth ever since I found her on a few Naughty America videos years ago.
Stay strong Cyth. Know that your fans support you and want nothing else than your full recovery and personal safety.
Kink Williams All-Star Supporter
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FlacFan
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Posted - Oct 14 2015 : 7:27AM
^
I'm actually not. Had it been in a public place, then maybe so. Seeing as how they are probably gang connected, it's unlikely they roll over on fearless leader.
Silicone Is Evil, Razors Aren't Much Better
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