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| Breeze Member  One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 |  Posted - Mar 18 2012 : 10:25PMOkay, I am new to the whole Daddy/girl thing and I am interested in watching some films regarding this subject. Does anybody have some good suggestions? Here's my reason as to why: I recently started seeing a girl who is way into this role play, she is a lot younger than I am and it is kinda weird, at first I thought it was kind of cool that she opened up to me and told me she wants to call me Daddy, but as time has gone on, I am thinking she is way into this and she actually treats me like her father 24/7. She wants to be a good girl and make her Daddy happy, being both my cum dumpster and good little girl who does the dishes and other household chores to make her Daddy happy. In return I treat her like a daughter in an incestuous way, but she isn't my daughter and our sex isn't incestuous. When I say I treat her like my daughter, I ask her how school is going, buy her stuff like a father would, but not like a sugar daddy, I check her oil on her car, cuddle with her like she is "Daddy's little girl," I've done like a total 360 on my philosophy with dating, as I used to be into older women but now I am into younger women. I kinda like the Daddy role, but the girl is a total nympho and I can't keep up with her for real, she wants to fuck day and night. Topic Moved by - Jonny Jay on Mar 20 2012  [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 9:22AM Wow, she's good. There is tons of info out there. You're going to want to look for Dominant/submissive relationships that have to do with Daddy Doms and Baby Girls. Even just Googling that will give you info. And of course on Fetlife there are tons of discussions groups for both Daddy's and their subs, which ever title they go by....baby girl, brat, littles ect ect.  [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 12:20AM Weird is all I can say at this point, but I like weird. Or do you think all 40 year old guys like weird? [Link] |
| Cody McLarge Senior Member 2668 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 12:23AM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 12:48AM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 1:17AM A D/s relationship doesn't have to be about being taken advantage of. But just based on what you've said so far, if anything, she's topping you from the bottom. AND if she's treating you like a Daddy 24/7 this means it's probably more than just role playing for her. I think what would benifit you more than watching films would be a good forum or discussion group for Daddy Doms and their Babygirls. It would give you a little more information about the dynamics of such a relationship. Then you would be able to set boundaries and goals for both of you. You may not think it's D/s but it certainly sounds like a Dominant/Submissive thing to me and you need to do some research. Trust me on this. [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 1:25AM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 5:08PM For example, a submissive who enjoys being spanked might do something deliberately to get his/her Dominant to spank him/her. Until the Dom catches on, they might think they are punishing the sub when really, they are being topped from the bottom. Do some Google searches Breeze, before you both get in over your head. And then have some long discussions. As a Daddy, it's your duty. [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 2:25AM Yup, definitely time to do some research, thanks again SexShopGirl. [Link] |
| properM Member 80 Posts 3/10 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 8:43AM Edited by - properM on 3/29/2012 4:15:40 PM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 9:08AM [Link] |
| Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 5:47PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 9:34PM Well thanks again SexShopGirl for the breadcrumbs, not sure if I am ready for this but the info I have read has been interesting. [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 9:53PM Girls on these websites get like 400 emails a day, for real from what I've been told, maybe I am exaggerating a bit. So my question to you SexShopGrl is..... How do people normally select each other for this kind of thing? My curiosity is peaked! [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 24 2012 : 12:19AM Whatever happens between consenting adults is normal. However, in my experience dating sites are not all that great for finding info on these types of relationships. That's why I mentioned Fetlife earlier. Because they have discussion groups there and it's more like Fcebook. You can join for free, make your profile and join groups specifically for Daddies(or anything else you take an interest in). You can pretty much put as much into your profile as you want to either say exactly what you're looking for or who you don't want to hear from. Some people post pics that are pretty vanilia and others post pretty explicit stuff. There IS a certain etiquette when approaching a possible Dom or sub and even on Fet you get these people that think they are in the know. Truth is they are totally clueless so it's important to read profiles and write a good one for yourself I kept getting tons of messages from people asking me to top or bottom, sub or Domme them and I wrote this in my profile..... "Just for the record (because apparently it needs to be said), I am not into D/s in any way shape or form. I'm am not a domme, mistress, ma'am, mommy, sub, lil, babygirl, your pet, slave, top, bottom or any other D/s title you might try to think up. Furthermore, I have very good reasons which are none of your business why I am none of those things. If you think for one moment you can convince me or cajole me into changing, you're barking up the wrong damn tree. And this tree throws apples. I do not want to hear it so, do not bother asking. If you cannot deal with that, drop the collar and step away from the profile now!" Now none of that is entirely true. But I made it clear because I already have a mentor I work with who is trying to help me learn more about what I like, why I like it and how to achieve those goals. And it was just too damn much having men AND women constantly bugging me about THIER shit. I had one guy that kept calling me "pet" and it was really creepy. Another woman was telling me how to peg my husband even though he has no interest in it. It was rediculous and totally getting in the way of what I'm trying to accomplish. I've even seen some subs and slaves put on their profiles, "Do not contact me without permission from my Dom/Daddy/Master." Now, in RL setting a Dom/me would NEVER approach another Dom/me's sub without said Dom/me's permission. BUt it being the internet, people get balsy. It's one of the reasons I often call bullshit when I hear people going on about how it's so much easier for the women. It's not easier for us to find partners. You talk about women wanting Sugar Daddies but I've seen men behave the same way with the excuse of "It's nothing personal, these are just my preferences." When in reality, he's an arrogant asshole that thinks his cock or his flogger is made of gold. We call people who behave this way as Twue Doms or Twue Subs. Regardless, they are ALL annoying to those of us who might actually be trying to get their freak on. Once you get into different groups, you watch for events. I belong to a group called Dayton Kinksters for example. Through that group I attend what are called Munches. A munch is a group gathering at a local resturaunt, bar, ect where kinksters can meet, talk, hang out and there is no pressure to "hook up." You're basically there to learn about the BDSM community(and D/s is part of that community). It's good because then you make contacts and you have people you know you can talk to about your kinks. For you, it would mean meeting other Daddies and other Doms who will understand some of the issues you and your girl will eventually have. If you're looking for a dungeon party munches are a great place to make contacts for that as well. I have a friend that is into some of the same kinks I'm into. Munches are nice because I know if he's there, most times we'll sit near each other so we can bullshit. But I never have to explain to him what being spanked is like for me. He already knows. And I know if I ever want to spank or be spanked I coupld possibly have a play partner I'm already familiar with. In the old days (before internet lol) it wasn't much different. People would place ads in papers or on bullentin boards in the local sex shops. And in a sense because of the nature of the lifestyle it still has an alomost underground feel. People gaurd their identities for many reasons. You watch each others backs against users and abusers. But one thing I've found, the people who truly embrace it and live it are all about education and sharing their knowledge. I'm taking a little break right now from Fet but because I lead some groups, I do check in. So if you're interested you can look me up there. My user name is SexShopJulie. Anyone who wants to friend me just let me know you're from ADT and I'll add you. [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 28 2012 : 5:34PM I've seen movies/tube videos with this fetish, but naturally these are more geared toward the man's/daddy's desires. However, usually reverse fetishes DO fit together quite nicely, so looking at those videos might at least give you some ideas to initiate that she hadn't thought of but that would naturally make her hot. Anyway, keep us updated. [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 30 2012 : 1:38AM It will be a most interesting journey for sure. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 30 2012 : 8:53PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Apr 3 2012 : 12:09AM Frankly, I have been running from ANY kind of relationship for the past 3 years aside from "casual" or "no strings attached." And when a partner wanted anything more, I was out the door as I stated to them I didn't want anything more from the get go. Maybe she topped me from the bottom when it came to the Daddy/girl thing, but I am rolling with it and liking it. Taking control back. I am more than likely more scared by the word "Relationship" than Daddy/girl if that makes sense. Thanks again for the links! [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Apr 4 2012 : 1:46AM High protocol is way too ritualistic for me. I'd get into too much trouble to enjoy it. [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24910 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Apr 4 2012 : 1:55AM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Apr 4 2012 : 12:36PM Inside every nice girl lives a kinky bitch. Edited by - sexshopgrl on 4/4/2012 12:36:39 PM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24910 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Apr 5 2012 : 1:52AM [Link] |
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