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MikeOxhard
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3/07
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 5:32AM
OK, you watch porn, and you like jerking off to the hot girls. But what if your daughter or sister wanted to work in porn, how would you feel? Are you a hypocrite? Would you feel uncomfortable. Would you object? I wouldn't mind, but I would make sure to show her a few movies, so she could get an idea of what goes on, and if she still wanted to do it, I'd be cool with it.
Dither
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 6:16AM
I have a sister, no kids. Now, I wouldn't even consider condemning her or anything like that, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit it would feel pretty awkward. It would be...just strange, I think.
Edit: Misread, sorry; thought it was if I found out she was working in porn. If she was considering only, I'd ask her if she's really thought it through, but if she was determined enough I'd still support her.
Edited by - Dither on 6/23/2007 6:20:12 AM
BigMatt
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 2:22PM
It would depend on her personality. If she was reliable, strong, independent, mature etc I would have much less problem with it than if not. I would be worried out of my mind if I knew she could get into emotional trouble over it.
Edit: But to make it clear, I would advice her not to, regardless.

Edited by - BigMatt on 6/23/2007 3:27:54 PM

LCF All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 2:46PM
Actually I don't know I surely will try to convince her non to do that, but if she's determined and goes on with his choice and did it even against me , I'm pretty sure I will back up her I don't think to put other new problems on her is a wise idea I'm pretty sure she could use a family by her side.
EDIT I also will stop to watch porn , I'm not sure I'll be comfortable knowing that the girl on screen could be her right in the moment I'm seeing a porn scene.

Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 6/23/2007 2:50:09 PM

Ryan1481
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210 Posts
1/07
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 3:57PM
Very good question. Luckily, I'm an only child and single. However, if one day I had a daughter and she was determined to go into porn, I wouldn't disown her or anything like that. I'd be lying if I were to say that I wouldn't be worried about her, the type of people she'd be working with, etc. But then, she would be an adult and should be able to make decisions for herself. So, I certainly wouldn't LIKE it but on the other hand, there'd be nothing I could do about it, short of disowning her, which I would not do.
There would probably be certain types of sex films that I would truly not like her to be in e.g. GGG, 666, etc. While it's great jerk-off material, I personally find it amazing that these girls can take all the shit that they do. Ok, some of them are just natural sex nymphos but the majority cannot enjoy it beyond knowing that their pay-check is waiting for them at the other end.


 
Uncle Fester
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6/07
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 6:54PM
I think everyone is full of it. If your daughter or sister came home and said she just did a Good Source of Iron or Gokkun DVD or 10 Man Cum Slam you would not be understanding at all. YOu'd be devestated and throw her out so quickly that it wouldn't be funny. It all goes back to the whole notion, that a guy is a stud and a woman is a slut if she has an interest in sex outside of a committed relationship. It's no different than posters on this site whining about their favorite star having the gall not to do some of the thug black guy types currently starring in the industry. I've read complaints that girls such as Harmony, (I think it was her, I could be wrong) having an attitude problem because she doesn't do I/R. IMHO, most everyone on this site would drop a deuce if "their" little princess brought home one of the thug types currently out their. And before everyone, tears me a new one, please remember, rich atheletes such as Tiger Woods don't count. I'm talking thug types such as your average NBA/Hip Hop Snoop Dogg type.
LCF All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 7:00PM
The question is not: Daddy I did a Baker's Dozen
but: Daddy (or bro) I'd like to do some porn
a big difference , you said will throw her out of the window I'm pretty sure I will not , I'm not saying I'll be happy though at least I think I didn't paid her college to come to that
ma meeshka
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4/06
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 11:45PM
i like porn as a concept. what it represents and what it could be. the reality of it is quite harsh and i wouldn't want the people i care about to be exploited by that. and i mean exploitation in a more complex sense than simply selling your body on camera.
Mike Quasar
Zero Tolerance

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7/01
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 12:04AM
If my daughter tells me that she wants to enter the industry I will jump in front of a train.
Yes, I am a hypocrite.
realtip
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6/04
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 12:59AM
Why just daughter or sister? Sorry, but the question just comes off a bit sexist and patriarchical to me. Would/should the reaction be any different if it were your son or your brother?
I have no sisters. But I do have a brother, and I wouldn't want him deciding to do porn either. Personally, I think my reaction would be one of disapproval if any member of my family, regardless of sex, decided to do porn.
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 1:19AM
I don't have a daughter.
I do have a sister.
Why should I care? It's her life. Even if I thought it was a mistake, it's her mistake to make. I don't think my sister would tell me. I'd probably find out by seeing her in something. I probably wouldn't freak out like most people would. I'd just make a note of her porn name and a point of either avoiding her movies in the future or skipping her scenes. Everybody has sex. Some people make money doing it. It's not as if I think my sister shouldn't fuck.
LCF All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 2:15AM
Actually a father or a brother should give advices to their daughters or sisters , when you make a choice like that it'll be for life it'll bounce at every time of your life , it'll block many choices if you want some different job, besides even if you can get easy money your career won't last for long
and unless she'll become a major star even the money she might earn won't be that much and she must think if that money is worth all the troubles it might bring
Personal relations might be difficult , very few people will understand that this is a job and nothing more , she cannot be sure if any man she might meet wants she because he loves her or wants the pornstar and especially a threeway hole to use and abuse of. She might even become unable to have regular relations
I'm not even mentioning all risks of infections or drugs addiction.
If someone tries to make her chamge idea no one can blame him
Yet she might be adamant in her decision to do porn , in that case it would be wise to give her any backup she need , she must know she can safely escape somewhere if needed , being harsh and rude with her will only put her deeply into industry with the only interested help of some managers or
or some exploiter or ,if she's lucky, a friendly collegue
who gives her advices can be hardly considered an hypocrit
Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 6/24/2007 2:17:24 AM
Infidel
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12/05
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 2:16AM
would not care really,if they do they better do cool porn
deepudicks
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2/07
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 11:24AM
No Bro, U ain't a hypocrite...You have the balls to spell out the truth...And i don my hat for U.When it comes to other peoples sisters,wives, daughter or even mothers people can go hoarse shouting from rooftops of they wud do this or they wud do that...But when it comes to their own blood they get constipated into silence.
Those are the real hypocrites..You ain't no coward and I respect you for that...Show me one person who has the gall to stand up and get counted claiming his balls ached as he frigged off evertime he saw his sister get creamed n greased by Peter North or cud not stop himself from cumming while seeing his daughter get dp by those long dong pussy hungry stars...Not one wud be standing for the roll call...That is hypocrisy...Not what you wud do!!!!Atleast you have a streak of honesty and self respect within your soul.
Christopher256
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146 Posts
8/05
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 12:50PM
Well I wouldn't have a problem with the concept of her doing it, I'd be more worried about the exploitation. The fact is a small percentage of women that start into porn actually stay in it and make a living off of it. And something many people don't like to talk about but is absolutely a fact is how women in all kinds of sex industries have a higher propensity to get into drugs. On the other hand it's the only class of profession out there in which women get paid more than men. If it was clear she was never going to get much farther than low wage jobs than maybe it's a risk worth taking, but if she has prospects to be something greater than I would try to do everything to change her mind. However I wouldn't disown her for it in any case.
 
francios
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1802 Posts
2/05
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 4:38PM
Each person needs to live their own lives.
If she is bringing home friend to share I would be much happier with her decision.
RandomPrecision
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3/06
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 8:14PM
No. The person who obstructs the path of another is at least partially responsible for wherever that person ends up when they swerve. Do you really need that on your conscience? People make their choices...for better or worse, as they say.
nietzsche
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8/03
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 8:24PM
Do they do anal?
cobalt60
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2/03
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 8:55PM
Does she swallow?
cobalt60
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2/03
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 8:55PM
My real answer is "what Mike Quasar said".
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 9:01PM
Trains look good with some color to them.
cobalt60
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 9:14PM
I meant I would throw Mike Quasar in front of a train.
gladtobeblazed
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5/07
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 10:15PM
If it was one of my sisters or if I had a daughter who asked me that I'd tell them to join the Marines. I'd rather see them shot dead in Iraq than tarnish our family name.
Edited by - gladtobeblazed on 6/24/2007 10:16:36 PM
croy
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Discovry
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3/04
Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 10:37PM
No sisters or kids.
I'd make sure they understood what the buisness was about - it isn't all Jenna Jameson with millions.
Oh, and freebies. I'd try to get as many free movies as I could.
Savoy All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 11:14PM
I don't have a sister or a daughter, but I do have a younger brother.
If he told me he was trying to work in porn - I would not want to hear it. "Please don't talk to me about this."
I love him. He's my sweet baby brother and the thought of him and sex makes me incredibly uncomfortable. And even if I set in with lots of advice, he wouldn't listen anyway. He's stubborn. So basically, we would never talk about it.
Hypocrital? I suppose. There's little risk in consuming porn (most porn anyway), but a lot of risk in performing in porn. I'll stay on my side of the fence and would prefer if my family members did too.
 
cobalt60
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Posted - Jun 25 2007 : 1:31PM
I'll be your second if you'd like to fall on your sword someday.
ragingbull
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5/07
Posted - Jun 25 2007 : 11:23PM
I really wouldn't my sister or mom in porn, not that i have anything against porn star in fact i suppor them it just would be too akward to know all the dirty shit being done to a girl i am so emotionaly tied to.
Arto Del Funko
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42 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 26 2007 : 10:12AM
everything Random said.
Rumpled Foreskin
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310 Posts
5/05
Posted - Jun 27 2007 : 3:52PM
No, I don't think so.
I think my first reaction would be "you did WHAT!?"
And the second would be, "so...this is what you want to do?"
And the third would be "No, I won't lend you airfare to get to L.A."
Johnothan Pedak
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Catastrophe
1594 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 28 2007 : 12:12AM
One things for sure, if my sister jumped into porn, I'd stop watching. Awkward.
Ryan1481
Member

210 Posts
1/07
Posted - Jun 28 2007 : 3:14AM
Somehow, if my daughter or sister (not that I have any) were getting into the porn industry, there would certainly be companies I would rather they went to, if they were adamant about it. For example, I would rather they worked with a director like John Stagliano as opposed to being in degrading and humiliating titles ala "Ich Schwimm in Pisse & Sperma" or "Sperma Brutal", for example. I do love watching those films, though! Yes, I know I'm a hypocrite!
imak
Adult Film Legend

3345 Posts
2/04
Posted - Jun 28 2007 : 3:20AM
not really, my dad was a garbage man who couldn't read
that doesnt mean he was a hypocrite to want more for me
any parent wants better for their kids



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