I thought i would introduce myself again with a new picture. I don't think I look like a crack whore!!!! The producers from Howard Stern Show has asked Jewel and me to be on the show what do you think? I just want to make peace and get it all out in the open. It really hurts to hear my daughter is saying bad things about me. I have always supported her throughout her career and I love her with all my heart. Kind Regards, De'Bella
De'bella you look wonderful! I hope nothing but the best for you, larry, and jewel. Anyone who has come across you or your husband knows what class acts you really are.
I will not be going on the show with my mom nor will I ever have anything to do with her again she's dead to me. I was fine with her doing porn up until she started throwing it in my face and talking to me about her scenes that is not right and it's something she should of kept to herself and then I would of been more caring but riding my coat tails makes her look plain stupid and she doesn't realize is people aren't laughing with her but at her. Get a clue and stop using my name bitch to get attetion. Poor excuse of a mother I wish she were dead.
I really hope you and your mom work out you relationship... I cannot imagine that one's profession should get in the way of family. I have met you numerous times before and you are a sweet person...
Both of you should work things out, outside of this forum... And while i do think that stern would be a good place to reunite, it is definitely not a good place to work things out. Keep us updated on your status....
its funny jewel hates to see her mother a married women lost to porn but she forgets that de bella watch her young daughter get into the porn industry and she as probably seen more of her daughter than most mothers.
jewel is married like a few times maybe the mistakes she sees her mother make are the mistakes she has made. if it's not right for her mother a married women to get into porn was it easy for her mother to watch jewel get into the business. the fact that jewel calls her mother a crack whore is bad even if see is breaking her marriage vows she should not turn her back on her mother.
why de bella wants to start in porn for maybe purely sexual reasons is not really are business but i think that there is no need for her to become a porn star or get into swinging. there are so many possibilities with sex that getting bored and needing new partners would take a very long time. there are thousands of books you cant really say that you have tried every thing.
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Posted - Oct 21 2006 : 9:28PM
WOW, I just felt a fuckin' spine-numbing chill in the room.It sure makes for an interesting "my, how the tables have turned" situation.Edited by - Eric381 on 10/21/2006 9:31:14 PM
As a moderator of this forum, I can't believe that I'm about to write this, because this is truly a fascinating situation to be sitting in the middle of.
BUT, I really hope that this is a situation that Jewel and De'Bella can work out together privately. As two people working in the same industry, this fight just doesn't make sense. They just need to have a discussion adult to adult, determine what the appropriate boundries are, and start from there. If they need a referee, they should bring Larry in the middle of it as arbitrator. I've only met him twice, but he seems like a really level headed guy.
I'm sure that neither Jewel or De'Bella are happy with the current situation. Being stubborn is not the way to fix the problem.
That having been said, if you don't want to get together one on one in a private setting, keep it going here. As I said earlier, it's fascinating.
MY DAUGHTER WAS OK WITH IT FROM THE BEGINNING AND I DO GIVE A SHIT, I LOVE HER AND ALL I WANT IS THE SUPPORT GIVEN TO ME LIKE I SUPPORTED HER DURING HER ACTING CAREER AND NOW.
I HAVE BEEN ASKED BEFORE, BUT I JUST FELT THAT THIS WAS THE YEAR TO DO IT. I WILL BE 50 YEARS OF AGE IN NOVEMBER AND I AM HAVING THE TIME OF MY LIFE. ENJOYING LIFE IS A GOOD THING. THANKS FOR YOUR KIND WORDS.
Like I said before I did support her career until she rubbed my nose in her business stuff when I made it very clear to her I didn't need to hear or know about it as it's not appropriate. She brought this on herself and is an ass for doing so. And as for my stepfather well he's been made a fool and is a total wimp when it comes to my mom he has no backbone and I cannot respect that. He lost his job in politics that I took the liberty of trying to cover up for him because he slept with his 16 year old adopted daughter and it was found out among his colleges. They raided their home and took everything including his questionable porn. So I started PXP to give them both a job to avoid the scandal they were facing back in Colorado and put all my savings into a company to get them back on their feet and this is my payback. Total losers in my eyes the both of them and I'm not going to support or protect them anymore he's a child molester and she's a laughing stalk drug user. Sorry but the truth hurts and I could go so much further don't even get me started. Put yourself in my shoes and ask yourself is this really fair to me after I've worked so hard to do right by my family.
That's some pretty heavy shit. You have my sympathy and my empathy.
I wholeheartedly agree with you that your mother's talking to you about her scenes was completely inappropriate to begin with and even more so after you asked her to stop.
As far as your mother "being dead to you", though, that's your emotional pain talking.
Believe, me, I'm not suggesting that you need to embrace your mother; it's fine to insist on distance for as long as you need, even if that's the rest of your life. But although the anger is understandable -- even inevitable -- it's not nourishing and, ultimately, it won't help you get through this.
Fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life, son. 1048 Posts 7/04
Posted - Oct 23 2006 : 4:24PM
All of this drama is fuckin' hilarious. Please do not stop. Who needs must see tv when you've got this going? It's so good it's made it onto another couple of websites. You go girl!!
"The time has come for someone to put his foot down....and that foot is me."
Yes it's painful and it eats at me everyday I've done all I can for my family and I can do no more as it's done nothing but backfire on me I lost my family and my company that I put all my hard earned cash and soul into. I've cried a river of tears and my heart is broken to never be repaired I'm bitter and beyond evil at this point. I wish this nightmare would end I'd rather my parents be dead then to live with what they bestow upon me. They are dead to me never to return or to be apart of my life.
Posted - Oct 19 2006 : 6:03PM
