1. Keep him still. Don't let him thrust his hips.
2. Get the cock really wet. Drool all over it.
3. Slowly work the cock to the back of your mouth, all the way to the entrance of your throat.
4. Open your mouth wide and partially exhale. This will open up the throat.
5. Slide your throat over the head of the cock. Resist the urge to pull away, even if you gag. Gagging is okay if it doesn't trigger your stomach to heave. If you feel it in your gut, stop.
6. Do it for short times, then work up to longer times.
7. Make a game of it. Don't take it too seriously or you'll have performance anxiety. Keep it fun and playful until you get the hang of it.
8. Experiment with putting your entire body in positions that will help elongate your throat. I find that lying on my back across the bed with head hanging over the side is best. My man can just stand there and everything's lined up just right.

Good luck!

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