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funkygirl
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1 Posts
8/09
Posted - Aug 26 2009 : 4:12AM
I am wanting to talk dirty to my partner more to sex things up a bit, but don't know what to say. Any ideas?
NewRomancer
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738 Posts
7/08
Posted - Aug 26 2009 : 11:42AM
Take word like fuck, cock, ass, pound and work them into a sentence... Yer not writing sonnets.
fotomatt
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78 Posts
8/08
Posted - Aug 27 2009 : 4:32PM
I'm going to assume you're a girl by your screen name.
As a girl, it's easier for you to get away with this then it is for guys.
Most guys love dirty talk - but not as many chicks do.
My wife doesn't talk dirty at all, and I would so love it if she would.
I've tried leading it on, but she doesn't like it when I do it.
Anyway, I don't know what your partners feelings to this would be, but I would start of slow with it, maybe one night say a few simple things like "oh yeah baby, fuck me harder..." or during a pleasurable part a simiple "oh fuck yeah" or "ohhh that makes my pussy feel so good". When giving him oral sex, look up at him gazing into his eyes and tell him "your cock feels so good in my mouth". These are simple and not too out there, and they heap praise on your partner, making him feel better about himself.
If he reacts positively to those, then next time you fuck, raise the bar a bit. Get on all fours on the bed, look back at him, and say "I want you to fuck me".
Rub your pussy in front of him and tell him how wet you are.
A lot of dirty talk seems to work best if your lost in the moment, like it's almost uncontrollable what you're saying.
If you're nervous about it, whisper dirty things into his ear, where you don't have to "face" him to say it. This is also a vary good technique for the intimacy of the position - your bodies pressed together and faces nuzzling each other.
Try to avoid "fake" dirty talk, like so much of what is shown in porn. I never want to hear a girl say "oh, cum on my face" again. It's never genuine.

Loraine
Senior Member

1559 Posts
3/04
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 10:49AM
Nice advice from fotomatt. You might enjoy Violet Blue's article from a couple of years back helpful
TedtheBellhop
Member

767 Posts
6/09
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 11:01AM
Fotomatt has some great suggestions. Reading about other peoples' sex lives, I guess I shouldn't think of my fiancee as being uptight. Anyway, here are some simple suggestions for beginners:
"Oh yeah! Fuck me like that!"
"Stick it in my mouth!" That is, if you're kinky enough to insist upon a P2M.
"Treat me like the whore I am!" Or if he's insecure, "I'm YOUR whore! I'll do anything for you!"
"I NEED that cock!"
 
WardqueenJanine
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914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Sep 2 2009 : 5:35AM
I have kind of lurked waiting to see what the replies would be to this. My advice; if you obviously need to specifically ask what to say and it doesn't come natural, don't try to pull this off. You will feel awkward, he will not be turned on and the entire scenario will come off as contrived.
Clam Digger
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Posted - Sep 2 2009 : 3:10PM
Penny Flame is a good talker, rent or buy Sports Fucking 5. She tell Manuel Ferrara things like "please cum for me", or " I need to "cum for you". She also tells him that she wants to take him home with her so she can fuck for him every night, all night.
I saw an Ed Powers scene featuring Guage and her then mope. mojo, where he asks her as they fuck "who owns this pussy" she replies "you do"...
Mentioning your lovers name is always hot, but be careful about this, if you have several lovers..
Clay
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216 Posts
8/00
Posted - Sep 2 2009 : 11:29PM
I always want to hear a girl say "oh, cum on my face" regardless of how poorly its delivered. If you can say this and then take a nice shot to the face with a smile you are doing fine.
NewRomancer
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738 Posts
7/08
Posted - Sep 3 2009 : 12:54PM
"I want you to cum in my mouth" beats "I want you to cum on my face" every time for me, no matter the delivery! LOL
Clay
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216 Posts
8/00
Posted - Sep 4 2009 : 8:25PM
That works for me too. As a matter of fact I am not sure if I have found anything that doesn't work with a blowjob.
vdilden
Member

51 Posts
1/04
Posted - Sep 14 2009 : 3:07PM
Or how about, "Bend over bitch and I'm going to shove this strap-on up your man-hole and fuck you like the little slut that you are?"
Wow! Did I really write that? :-)
Edited by - vdilden on 9/14/2009 3:07:34 PM
Savoy All-Star Supporter
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1844 Posts
12/06
Posted - Sep 14 2009 : 10:32PM
What Janine said. If you need examples of exact things to say, it's probably not for you.
Good dirty talk comes from deep inside. I have to feel what I'm saying. It's not an act. Now I've said some stupid shit, but I meant every goddamn filthy word when I said it and I think that's the most important thing.
JahGentle
Member

64 Posts
9/09
Posted - Sep 15 2009 : 5:19PM
yeah exactly, the key is to lose all self conciousness, say what you are feeling and it will just flow on its own...its all in the mental connection
if its forced or preplanned it will most likely fall flat or come out awkward
dont think just feel
u dont want one of those 'the panties your mom laid out for you' Seinfeld moments lol
Once you see your nature, sex is basically immaterial
ppchaser
Member

30 Posts
9/09
Posted - Sep 23 2009 : 12:08PM

i'm just curious... to the women, does anyone here enjoy cum on their faces or a bukkake?
and yeah... dirty talk should come naturally and not just be about words/phrases you say because you think he wants you to say them.
TedtheBellhop
Member

767 Posts
6/09
Posted - Sep 23 2009 : 6:51PM
My fiancee will occasionally ask me to cum on her face or breasts, as well as inside her to keep things hot, dirty and interesting. However, I think this is a great question that is off topic and would make a great thread either in Sex Talk or Polls.



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