This dude kinda makes me seem like less of a jerk huh?

Kylie don't sweat it as far as you reading your e-mail. The only "badge of honor" is you stepping into the "trap". Fuck him, he's a loser. I'm sure for every 1 jackoff like him you give good advice to multiple guys that would likely not take such advice from other people.

Keep being the caring person you are.

Kylie I'm in need of a hug. Can you help me out with that say in early January in Vegas maybe?

AC Cream

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:)

I am just having a bit of fun, why not?

It is an interesting read, and I so enjoy sharing the wonderful people in the world with you all.

Eh. So sue me - I am fiesty and Irish.

Kylie

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And I got wood !!

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Unfortunately people take advantage of other peoples kindness all the time. Look at all the scams popping up from Katrina and Rita.

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I rarely have time to post here these days, but I was cruising through and saw this thread. I couldn't let it go by without comment.

You really are one of the kindest, most decent human beings I've had the pleasure to meet, work with and get to know in this often heartless business and it saddens me no end that you would be the target of such a miserable, scummy prank, it that's even the right word for it. I feel nothing but contempt for the individual responsible, and suspect he has an equally low opinion of himself or he wouldn't feel the need to stoop to such lowly antics.

I've noticed a distinct rise in the frequency of cruel, anonymous attacks on performers in this vein, not only here but elsewhere on the Web. In fact, we've finally had to cut off new sign-ups at to our forum at nina.com because the ratio of trolling assholes to genuine human beings has tipped so adversely.

I'm not sure why this has become so common, or if in fact it's just the work of a small number of individuals without lives who do nothing but cruise from site to site looking for opportunities to make things unpleasant for women in this industry. I find myself wondering whether this phenomenon is a response to a hostile political climate, or a proliferation of a new breed of "fan" who wants to get in on the "mean porn" trend personally, but whatever the cause, it sucks.

I have exactly zero patience with the argument that porn stars are public figures who are, in essence, "asking for it" by the nature of what they do. I saw that argument advanced over the recent outing of real names and other personal info, and I think those making it fail quite utterly in the common decency and respect for other human beings departments.

Those who make their livings entertaining others, whether through sex performance or some alternative form of creative expression, give at the office. In no way does their visibility make them somehow legitimate targets of stalkers, tricksters, scam artists or hateful loser assholes of any other variety.

The fact that the perpetrators live in dingy basements, subsist on cat food, couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a fistful of pardons and have to beg on pay phones to their mommies to cover their rent doesn't excuse them in any way. By their actions, they place themselves outside the realm of human compassion and I for one am glad you posted this dumb fuck's email and hope that others will choose to let him know just how thoroughly he's humiliated himself with his petty attempt to humiliate you.

I think it's time for all of us who make ourselves available on the Web to take a harder line with the few who abuse the privilege. That's one of the reasons our site is so heavily moderated. If the adult Internet becomes a sort of open season on porn stars, the eventual result will be porn stars ceasing to participate in direct contact with fans, an unfortunate loss to all and another reason to come down hard on abusive posters whenever and wherever they appear.

Let me conclude by saying that I deeply hope the ugliness of this one spiteful loser won't dim your kind and welcoming radiance toward the many, many fans and friends out there who love you. It's that very quality that sets you apart, and that lesser beings will always envy and resent. You have a big heart, and that is a rare treasure others covet.

Being married to someone with many similar qualities, I can appreciate the pressures involved and can only offer my love and support, along with Nina's.

Take care. We're with you.

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Kidding.

But joking aside you are unfortunately right.

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Two possibilities:
1) He's a high school kid (aka complete jackass)
2) It was his wife that sent the email as him

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What a surprise to have you comment on this! My heart swelled up and I got all mushy and even teary...

Then I laughed my ass off at the dingy basement, subsisting on catfood part. :)

You are one in a million and I thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to post your thoughts - all of which are so right on and I couldn't have said it better if I tried.

Thank you to you and all the good people posting in here today.

Much love to you and Nina.

Kylie

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Edited by - kylie ireland on 9/23/2005 11:26:08 PM

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Either way, you shouldn't let it worry you at all. Your advice was good advice whether his letters were fake or not. I know you probably feel like you wasted time dealing with it, but in a sense you didn't. You tried to help someone and that makes you a better person.

I'm sure for every fucktard like that you have many fans that truly appreciate you taking the time to answer their questions.

The truth is just an excuse for a lack of imagination.

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"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling

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ernest! whats up? tell nina i said hello.....

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Glad I was able to make you laugh. Nina and I miss you. Let us hear from you once in a while.

And back at you Christian. You rocked our world in your scene with T.J. You're welcome back here anytime.

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I think what I just read was discusting... and I'll feel fiesty and email him... why the fuck not? then he can brag about having the attention of multiple porners, but mine will tell what a pathetic loser he is, and that he should get laid.

I feel way within my rights to do this because a) I love you to bits, and you don't deserve shit like that. And
b) by threatening you, it makes me uncomfortable about what kind of person is out there. He can't be let to get away thinking all porn chicks are just 'dumb bitches' without a slight repremand of of someone.
I understand why you can't do it, because you shouldn't waste anymore time on him, but he's only just pissed me off, and I'd quite like a bit of angry banter with this prick.

love
Isabel
(your new head of security)

and 'bollocks' to whoever brought up the ethical debate... this is our integrity he's questioning.

Edited by - isabel_ice on 9/24/2005 3:35:30 AM

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What seems like eons ago (but actually was not that long at all), I decided to write my first porn fan letter. In the days pre-internet, most adult performers were far less accessible than today and the thought ocurred to me that this letter would probably never be read - much less responded to.

I decided to give it a go anyway, even though part of me was embarrassed to actually be writing "fan-mail" to a fantasy woman. I had watched a little porn by then and even met a performer or two - but this woman had a touch of realism about her that made her astonishing looks even more amazing. Her scenes just seemed to reach out and grab you...she was like any woman you could meet on the street and speak to - only 100 times hotter! I had to write a quick note of appreciation. I expected no response.

Not only did I receive a response, it was a real and thoughtful one. I opened the letter expecting some poorly disguised attempt at making a form template appear real, but was pleasantly surprised at a note that illustrated this woman had actually taken the time to read my letter, think about it and respond accordingly!

This brief exchange that probably meant nothing whatsoever to this wonderful starlet made my day and actually helped shape the way I view and appreciate the people that perform for we fans. I will never forget that they are real people with all the same foibles and miracles as we fans and I will never stop truly recognizing the efforts they put out in their careers of choice, Say whatever you want about "the industry," I choose to see "the people" involved instead.

So thank you, Kylie for your beauty, thank you for your incredible sexual energy and thank you for some mind-boggingly erotic scenes...but most of all thank you for taking the time to connect with me as an actual person!

JAGnLA

I genuinely hope this fool won't have influenced the way you handle yourself one bit!

"The poor-woman's Mandingo "

Edited by - jagnla on 9/24/2005 4:38:56 AM

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now, if you good people will excuse me...I'm off to a good jerking...where is my copy of Kylie Ireland is The Whore Next Door ???

"The poor-woman's Mandingo "

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So Kylie, just remember us 99-percenters who have genuine respect for you and would be over the moon to receive such a thoughful and caring response to our fanmail.

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I have to say I am absolutely touched by the outpouring of strength and caring and support (with a nifty twinge of evil) that you have all shared.

I wasn't sure what would come out of posting this or that if it was the right thing to do. In the end I thought "well if this guy wants to brag to his friends - I will help him brag to the world." Aren't you all impressed by him?

Some of you brought up things I hadn't even thought of - beyond him being an asshole and a loser - like he might be underage or it could be his wife. Interesting to ponder.

Either way I thought it might be interesting for you all to see what us porn chicks occasionally encounter.

For those of you who have actually emailed him, that is fantastic, I haven't heard back from him but I'll bet he is baffled as all hell. I don't think he will dare email back.

BTW - Isabel Ice, my dear, you crack my shit up girl! You can be my bodyguard any time and I pity the fool! :)

All of you thank you again, so much, for your posts and emails, you have made me laugh and have even made my eyes all misty.

Trust me it will take a lot more that one arrogant, idiotic asshole to change the person I am inside. That stunt may have stung a bit but it also has made me stronger. One bad apple doesn't ruin the bunch.

You all rock.

Kylie

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-He should stick his head in his ass and fart.

-what a serious asshat

-but he's only just pissed me off, and I'd quite like a bit of angry banter with this prick.

-The fact that the perpetrators live in dingy basements, subsist on cat food, couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a fistful of pardons and have to beg on pay phones to their mommies to cover their rent doesn't excuse them in any way.

-This dude kinda makes me seem like less of a jerk huh?

-And I got wood !!

-a wonderful pants-free Utopia

Thanks for the laughs, I love you all!

Kylie

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Let me tell you a story:

There was an ordinary man who needed a friend and someone to talk to. One day he saw a pretty picture of a lady in a magazine. He thought right way that she was the vision of loveliness and was so amazed by her beauty. To his surprise, this lady was a celebrity and also an adult film actress. He found out that she was very new to the industry and thought to contact her somehow and some way. He gathered enough courage to sit down at his desk, grab a pen and start writing down what came to his mind with feelings straight from his heart. He expressed how one day he would want to meet her... how much he wanted to get to know her better... how much he dreamt of even getting a reply from her if she would even have the time to read his letter.

Does it sound familiar? This particular story happens to be true and took place about 11 years ago. I should know because that ordinary young man... was me.. and the lovely lady.. of course was you.

Back when I wrote that first letter, I never knew if you would receive it... or if you had the time from your busy schedule to read it or if you would even care to reply. In that letter, I told you how I thought you were the most beautiful woman in the world. I only thought you might have laughed, giggled or if it made you smile. I was thinking, if you have already read or heard what was said probably once or more before, but in different words by different guys. I tried to choose my words as best I can but I was scared that I might have sounded like a school boy writing a love letter to his first girlfriend.

Little did I know that your beauty came in many different ways. Not only in your physical appearance, but what was inside of you. You possess something that you don't find everyday in every person.. and that is your special caring and kindness. You didn't know me back then and you took the time to write me back. I'm very glad and happy that you did.

Throughout the years you were there for me in so many different ways. I always tried to keep up with you and your career. I knew your schedule might have been busy, for you were not only an actress but you also danced. I would write you a letter through the mail (way before you had an email or website) when there was something special that happened to me or just to tell you how much I enjoyed looking at your newest pictures in a magazine or how fantastic it was to have seen your newest movies. I always tried to be as open as I could, yet try to be a gentleman and not offend you. I would wonder if you received every letter or if they might have missed you as you travelled.

I'd keep you in my thoughts everyday hoping you'd never forget me. From the very first time, I told you I would strive to be the very best fan you would ever have. One day you made it official and sent me a card which acknowledged me as your #1 fan. That will always be an honor to me. I know you know the rest of the story... as it is still being written. You've been around for me whenever you could, from the good times and even the bad times I had in my life.

You've always been a strong, intelligent, caring and loving woman. I thank you for being the kind person you were back then... and are now. I wouldn't even want to think of "What ifs?"

That's why when I read the email you posted. I was in shock. I felt many emotions for awhile. I was saddened that someone would try to hurt you. I was angry that you had to read those words. For that misbegotten person to even think of doing such a thing. He/she didn't know nearly enough that betraying your openess has probably made you stronger. Why someone would fake a letter of that nature, I do not know.

I know it will probably make you more cautious as to who and the people you interact with in the future and I'm sorry that you might feel that way. Your true fans know who they are.. and they will be around, no matter what. Certainly they outweigh those lesser individuals that have to pretend to get your attention.

Let me finish by saying... Kylie, you will always be very, if not the most important thing in my life. Till this day, I will always be here for you, not just for support, not only as a fan, but most importantly... also as your faithful friend. Thank you for putting your trust in me all these years and keeping in touch by letters and emails as well as hanging out when I see you. I truly appreciate everything you've done, especially sharing your life with me. You're one of a kind and so very special!!

Take care my sweet and sexy angel!

All my love always,

Your # 1 fan forever,

Ronald

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FYI, Ronald actually is my number one fan having recieved the 000001 Fan Club Card back in the days of snail mail fan clubs. Back before this itranety-web-thingy.

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Man, you all are making me all mushy now.

Kylie

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Somewhere dreaming of an oak barrel full to the brim with you know what.

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Vince, for Kylie starters I recommend DEEP INSIDE KYLIE IRELAND from VCA. It gives a good career overview.
Great compilation very well produced with an interesting interview.

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j/k

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Somewhere dreaming of an oak barrel full to the brim with you know what.

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You just need to remember that for every asshole guy hiding behind the internet, there are a hundred (or at least hopefully dozens ) of nice guys that really do appreciate how amazing you are.

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