There are a lot of nerve endings in the anus. For some women, that area is incredibly stimulating and they love to have it licked. For other women, they don't like it because they think it's ticklish, or they are self-conscious about their anus because they think it's 'dirty'.
My experience is this, every girl I have been with likes her ass licked. I am usually very self conscious about licking a girls ass, then there are other times I am too fucked up to be self conscious. I have a system when I want to lick a girls ass, and I love rimming a beautiful ass. Candlelight hot baths, that is the key (for me). I will actually go to the point where I wash her ass in the bathtub just to give me piece of mind. I am bad, very bad, when it comes to seducing women. Candles are a trademark for me, I like to start out with a candlelight dinner, then move to a candlelight bath where she sits in front of me with her back to me, and I wash her back, and ass with a washcloth, wash the front of her body with my hands including her pussy. My biggest turnoff when eating pussy is finding "Pussyberries," little balls of tissue around the labia. I have gotten to the point where I provide "Feminine Wipes" right alongside the TP in my bathroom. After they lose themselves with a good rimming my fingers just happen to find their way inside their ass, then my cock. I slide my cock in gently with lube until it's full hilt, then the royal ass fucking commences. Women are always amazed when I fuck them in the ass and make them cum.
I sometimes feel like a freak in that anything to do with butts is a huge turn-off for me. I've never been with someone who wanted their bum licked and even though I'm pretty much open to anything I would most likely refuse to do it or let it be done to me. Booties are just dirty in my mind, no matter how well you wash.
My wife generally loves it. However, she's constantly in denial that my tongue was there, assuming in her mind I stopped at the taint. Some women can be funny that way. Edited by - TedtheBellhop on 2/22/2011 5:33:00 PM
True. I just can't suppress the thought of what comes out of the bootie which is why anything anal is a big turn off for me I guess. Edited by - kittenmoon on 2/22/2011 11:03:44 PM
Completely null on the subject. If it turns him on to do it, he's welcome to, but it isn't going to add anything to the experience for me other than turning him on. It is a total zero in my book - especially when there are so many other things he could be licking that I would really enjoy.
I'm curious what all the 'many other things' are.....I can think of a few, but I'm guessing I might benefit from a little more education for someone skilled in the art!
I know it's hard for men to remember, but there are more parts to a woman's body than her genitals, butt and breasts. Kissing, licking, nibbling and biting can be applied to many of them with super stimulatory delight resulting. I'm a fan of the neck, ears, shoulders, upper arms, thighs, back of knees, belly and entire breast (not just the nipple). Every woman is different, your mileage may vary.
^ I think that's fair, but it kind of goes without saying too. Women definitely have a lot of erogenous zones (the back of the knees thing is a little surprising to me, but okay), and if the dude is really into her than those spots should definitely be covered during foreplay at least. I think the whole concept of ass licking is an interesting one. Mainly because I really enjoy it, but I wouldn't want the girl in question to be all grossed out about it.
Please don't lump us men in with these callow youth. Seriously, I think any man who doesn't appreciate and explore a woman's entire body needs to have his head examined. If a man is at all interested in exciting his partner then there's nothing better than finding those special spots.
Well I'm a woman and I love it under the right circumstances. I feel that like anal sex rimming is something the person needs to prepare for so there are no surprises for either person. I mean seriously I don't want someone licking my ass if I just ate a spicey mexican meal the same day b/c you just never know when something might try to sneak out of that orifice! And I sure's the hell don't want to be clinching my ass trying not to let something escape, I think that would be a big mood killer! Anyway just my opinion and experience! Edited by - Scottie Heartz on 4/19/2011 6:51:55 PM Edited by - Scottie Heartz on 4/19/2011 6:52:38 PM
^ Rightfully so. Anything to do with anal is an occasional practice anyway. As much as I want her ass; if she's got some restroom business going on, I'll stay away. That's the time when can play with the ears and so forth. If only I could find me a care-free girl to play with: I could have the whole scenario mapped out. Fun times abound.
OK, kissing - check, nibbling - check, neck - check, ears - check, shoulders - check, thighs - check, belly - check, entire breast - check. Upper arms....??? I'll have to work on that. Back of knees don't get much attention. Her toes get more than the back of knees, but I'll add that to my list and try to remember not to miss.
Some girls like it, some girls dislike it, and some girls don't care one way or the other. Thankfully, my girlfriend's in the first group. Rimming is awesome!