With anal sex now de rigeur in practically all adult movies, and considering the sheer number of anal-themed titles released each month, is anal sex a practice that most women enjoy?
I can speak only for myself. My girlfried and I have been together for almost five years and enjoy anal sex perhaps two to three times a month. Her preparation is exacting as we both want to avoid (as much as possible) any "dirty" anal sex or ATM.
Knowing that some women refuse anal sex alltogether, do those that do participate do so out of enjoyment or to please their partners, or is a combination of both?
From the girls I know the answer is yes and no. Sometimes the girls do it to please thier partner but get very little enjoyment out of it. My wife Alexandra enjoys it alot, but on her terms. When she does she comes very hard. Others don't care what time of day it is, just get it in there. Her friend is like that, before I know what was going on she pulled me out of her pussy and threw it in the rear in a heartbeat. Depends on the girl and her mood IMO.
I guess it depends of the girl, although it surely is always somehow very stimulating. I had girls who just liked it for a change, others had their most powerful orgasms with anal sex, others regarded it with mistrust. Anyway, I think every girl should just overpass the prejudices, get in the mood and try it – only then she’ll know if she likes it or not.
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Alfredo92 Deactivated User
Honolulu 127 Posts 2/06
Posted - Mar 2 2006 : 12:26PM
Many of my swinger friends enjoy it from time to time.
I think it depends on the girl and also the kind of lifestyle that she leads, there are a lot of women out there that wouldn't even consider the thought of it, that even in this day and age still find it completely taboo. I think women who are more experimental when it comes to anal sex and most comfortable with their own sexually and self might be more prone to trying it.
It takes getting used to, that's for sure. Even during it, it can change from painful to pleasurable, and back again. It takes patience to become comfortable with it, along with a high degree of overall arousal.
Some women enjoy it, and some women don't. Some women enjoy it frequently, some enjoy it occasionally. Some go through phases where they're into it, alternating with phases where they're turned off by it. Some never even try it once in their whole lives.
Some women want it on their own terms, and some want their partner to control it.
Some women do it for their own enjoyment. Some women do it for their partners' enjoyment. Some do it for both. Some women do it for neither. Some women do it because it puts money in their bank account.
Some women like fingers in their ass, and some women don't. Some women like to anally masturbate with dildos, some like to use butt plugs, some like beads, some don't want to stick anything up their butt.
Some women want to get rimmed before anal sex. Some women want to get rimmed before vaginal sex. Some women don't get the big deal with rim jobs.
Some women like to clean out with an anal douche, some women use a full enema kit, some women prefer to only do it when they're naturally empty, and some women like dirty anal.
Some women like to generalize their personal experiences to all women. Some women like to point out the inherent absurdity in trying to apply a generality to all women. Or for that matter, trying to apply a generality to most women.
If it is found out that, years after getting out from being in front of the camera, we find that she is doing double-anal gangbangs three times a week on her own time (from a reliable source), then yes.
all women should enjoy anal sex as much as Monica . I'm watching a movie of hers as we speak and she's fucking smoking. I wish there were more like her and I'm pretty sure they are :D. But seriously, all women would love anal sex if she's done right in the first place.
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anal aficionado Deactivated User
Goodbye Friends 293 Posts 3/05
Posted - Mar 6 2006 : 9:29PM
Kicker i remember reading somewhere that Monica isn't as big of a anal aficionado as she lets you to believe. I'm guessing she's just in it for the money. AA
It definitely depends on how comfortable I am with myself and in the relationship. I used to engage in anal sex with boyfriends mainly to please them, although I didn't hate it. I am completely comfortable with my current boyfriend and I absolutely LOVE it now. I crave it, I request it - love to receive (and give) rimjobs, love to stick my finger up his ass while I suck on his cock, LOVE when he fingers my ass (especially when I cum!), and absolutely LOVE when he buttfucks me. I want to put a strapon on and fuck his ass too. We just got the strapon so... mmmmmmmmmm - god, I wish I was with him tonight!
+1, and the comfort level works both ways on that one. There's a lot of women who seem to be more than turned off at the idea, even if it does make the man a much better at giving anal.
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
LOL, yea, in your pagoda world maybe. Say that to yourself again when you catch your man being sexually intimate with another man. Oh, wait, you can continue living in pagoda world and keeping telling yourself that you and your gay boyfriend have a healthy relationship.
Yeah, and all women who like oral sex are lesbians...
Or maybe thats just a stupid thing to say. When you stop to think about it, gay people kiss, hold hands, eat, breathe and none of those things make a person gay. What I want to know is what makes a person stupid.
FreedomFighter wrote:You've been posting for a mere seven days, and yet you've already managed to piss off and offend a lot of people who've been good citizens around here for quite a while.
Good work, dude. Hopefully, you'll be deactivated quickly.
I, personally, would like to thank FreedomFighter for enlightening everyone about what makes a man gay! Thank you, Freedom! Please, take a bow!
If not for you, and people like you, I just don't know what we would do. Go around confused, wondering if anything getting within a certain distance of our heterosexual mangina would turn us gay.
Of course, having your penis in sight of another man's penis makes you gay, too, right? Every time a guy participates in a DP or makes a Chinese finger puppet out of some hottie, he's showing his true, gay self. Touching yourself probably makes you gay, too. I mean, after all, jerking off is as gay as it gets! Right? Giving yourself a greasy HANDJOB? Come on! How gay is that? A fistful of hot, throbbing, leaky man meat? Wow, that's just gay as fuck.
Watching porn? Shit, that's gay to the extreme. Have you seen how many COCKS there are on display? If you can get hard, and get a nut watching some other dude's dick -- how gay is that? Gay, I say, in every conceivable way.
Only watching lesbian porn can a man be true to his straightness! Except, OMFG, that's so GAY.
What any of this has to do with whether or not women enjoy anal sex is beyond me, but I had fun. Thanks.
Let your insecurities stay within. Or your inexperience. For many there is a huge gulf between a strap-on and a man. They will do the one but never the other. Human sexuality, like psychology, just isn't that simple.
Pagoda wrote:Okay, you got me there. Nah. No apologies necessary as far as I'm concerned. I mean, the guy barged in on this awesome, righteous thread with TOTAL NEGATIVITY.
I just wanna know where I can catch a flight to pagodaland. Are there nonstop flights or will I have to have a layover or two to get there? In fact, I'd like to have a trip with as many layovers as possible!
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
Posted - Mar 2 2006 : 10:41AM
