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| Kimi Lixx Senior Member  2012 Posts 6/01 |  Posted - Jun 23 2009 : 10:07PM[forthemod]It's not a poll, it's a sex question.[/forthemod] I just can't keep my eyes open. I need to close my eyes to focus on how I feel. If I open my eyes, I get distracted, then my mind wanders, and pretty soon I'm completely out of the sex and disconnected from my body. My BF is totally different, he hates to have the lights off, he's always looking. He says he's visually stimulated, and it's a big part of the sex for him. I feel weird, with him staring and me with my eyes closed! (I know it's probably not like that, but that's what I keep thinking!) [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jun 23 2009 : 10:10PM [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 1:15AM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 2:39AM I enjoy looking at my partner and often times my partner has her eyes closed. I never thought it would feel weird for my partner. Why do I like to look at my partner? I can see the emotions in her face with her eyes closed as I pound into her. I can actually gauge her on what strokes she likes and what times. I can tell when it hurts her, or when she likes it by reading the expression on her face, and I can also tell when a good time to pick up the pace is, because when I am fucking I want to make her cum, that is my goal. I try to cum when she does or very shortly after, another thing I can gauge by looking at my partners face AND by feeling her body. I have a certain amount of control over my orgasm when I am fucking. Sure I could just fuck her and cum as fast as I can, but that isn't pleasurable to me, I might as well jack if, the orgasms are stronger when I jack off. When I am fucking somebody I want to make her cum. Now when I am getting a blowjob I prefer to have my eyes closed. I don't have any control of when I'm going to cum. With my eyes closed I think of many things aside from my partner sucking my cock or even my partner. Then there is always the hardcore holy shit fuck fest which I really enjoy, but that involves taking my partner way over the edge and into multiple orgasms, not multiples in a row at once, but multiple orgasms before I cum. With that method I don't think she is even thinking much aside from "holy shit" and "I can't believe he did that to me." "Please do it again!" Ah well, I like to fuck. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 4:21AM I've noticed just about all women close their eyes during penetration or when they're being licked. I'd prefer it if they don't, to quote Led Zepellin, "speak to me only with your eyes". It's very hot to stair into your parnters eyes, to me, it shows complete trust, it's like you're bearing your emotions to each other. BJ's with eye contact are amazing! [Link] |
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| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 8:04PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 10:42PM Considering the answers so far, I guess eyes open is usual. I'm not going to open mine. Sex is terrible with my eyes open. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 11:01PM [Link] |
| detmut Member 91 Posts 11/06 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 11:34PM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 11:49PM Sometimes I realize I've been staring at a corner of the ceiling or something. [Link] |
| katsirk Member Crush on Greg....mmm 812 Posts 7/06 | Posted - Jun 24 2009 : 11:54PM to quote Led Zeppelin, "speak to me only with your eyes". It is the summer of my smiles... Nice, The Rain Song... Ok, I love this question. For me, it really depends on how we are feeling at the time. If we are in fantasy world, talking all kinds of shit, fucking like crazy, it's open, closed, etc, like lindi said. If it's lovemaking, it's eyes. However, I can say that I have experienced what Kimi is talking about, but for me, right now, that only happens when I'm masturbating intensely. [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 12:11AM Generally though, they stay open. For me, cutting senses, such as sight, is minimising the experience; visuals are a turn on. [Edit: For the flood of semi-repressed memories that came flooding back, of times when I NEEDED to close my eyes] Edited by - Dubious_Leftovers on 6/25/2009 12:18:36 AM [Link] |
Bob  All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 4:08AM [Link] |
| Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 9:12PM Seriously, though...since we men are visual creatures, it's always eyes wide opened with stadium lighting. :) Edited by - Cryogenix on 7/3/2009 9:15:31 PM [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 9:37PM [Link] |
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