Give me a choice between watching Tessa Taylor or Kaiya Lynn or Lindy Lane get fucked and actually fucking my wife and I would have to say that right now my choice would be the porn and this is not something that I am proud of but it's the truth. Porn is easier to deal with because I only have to deal with myself and my needs and I can take all the time I want or finish in a minute. I'd like to think that I'm not the only man who thinks like this, but I won't presume that others share my obsessive, selfish behavior. The thought of giving up porn, or even moderating my intake, is very daunting. I do make sure to eat my wife's pussy at least once a week, though, because she really likes it and it seems (who really knows) to get her off and by doing this I seem to buy myself some time.
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hoochimama Deactivated User
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Posted - Apr 6 2011 : 2:26PM
Something like that for me, with sex having a greater range as it can be worse than the worst porn and better than the best porn.
I see only one asterisk in this issue, and that's those damned rubbers. Porn without condoms is better than Sex with Condoms Sex without condoms is better than any porn Sex with condoms is better than porn with condoms Damn, I want a Vasectomy.
With my wife, I prefer having sex way more than watching porn. And although I can't remember the last time I wore a condom, I believe I'd much prefer having sex with her while wearing a condom than whacking off to porn. It's that good. However, back in college, I used to live with a girl who I wasn't very attracted to. She was a nice enough gal, but she was a bit sad to look at. I can still remember that sometimes while we were having sex, I had to keep my eyes closed and imagine I was fucking someone else just so I wouldn't lose wood. We got along well as friends, and she treated me well, but I was never really physically attracted to her. I certainly would have preferred watching porn to having sex with her.
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trout bum Deactivated User
"I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10
Posted - Apr 7 2011 : 11:10PM
Many times I watch porn with my wife and we use it as prelude to sex. It's our appetizer. It's a great way for both of us to get aroused and we end up role playing scenes we relate to.
I agree, but only at first, so yeah I like the pursuit. But this is the thing with me, I find that when I meet a girl for the first time and the few times after that she really takes care of her body, wears make up, perfume, bathes. I am like a clean freak, my own oxymoron for the nasty sex I love, but if you find my above post disturbing or creepy, this is the story. I love a clean smelling woman. I have feminine wipes for a reason...the reason is use them instead of TP for wiping your pussy off, the biggest turn off for me when I go down on a woman is pussyberries. I work a lot so I have my girl over and she spends the night, I usually have to work in the morning. We fuck without kissing and basically I just pop my load into her, when I get done with work she is reading a book and hasn't showered yet, total turn off for me when I am really horny, I would rather jack off than fuck a girl who hasn't showered and cleaned herself up.
in relationships after a few years porn over sex...as it gets soooo old and boring... porn can be with any body shape hair colour tit size i want when i want but when not in that situation i like a mix of both, sex on weekends when i gig and pick up, porn during the week
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Luke Lake Deactivated User
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Posted - Apr 8 2011 : 1:42AM
Well As A Single, Male, Virgin; Yeah, I Perfer Porn
good question, the thing is i watch/look at porn as if im watching a cinema/movie. I question lots of things when im watching like how director shooted it, the location, count of actors bla bla bla. And of course i like arousal but whacking off is like my 5-6 priority. I don't think i can compare having sex with my GF to anything else YET.
There was a time that porn seemed a bit more exciting then sex with the wife. But after getting a Vasectomy and a couple of weekend getaways together, we really changed things up alot. I learned what REALLY gets her off and what gets me off as well. So now I do all those things that I liked to watch in porn with her. Like the fact I love Oiled up asses so we now do alot of that. And it turns out that she gets off on it too she just never thought about it until I started doing it. So for us it turned out to be a win-win. She hates porn though, so we avoid it together but she knows it’s been a part of my life since she has known me. She gets the benefits of me getting an education from porn.
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trout bum Deactivated User
"I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10
Posted - Apr 8 2011 : 9:23AM
Have you ever been in a long term relationship? I think not. If I were a woman, I would be out of there in a minute Mr Clean.
Real sex produces, by far, the more intense pleasure. My orgasms are much closer to the "petit mort" when I'm getting off in a pussy as opposed to using my right hand while watching porn. Nothing compares to human contact. Having said that, I really enjoy watching and stroking to porn. It's a lot easier. I guess I'm getting lazy in my old age.
I've been in relationship with a woman who was a porn hater , when she found out I had a huge collection of porn DVDs she asked me to get rid of them , I threw away all of my porn Does this answer the question?
Seriously? For me, this is like choosing between watching air and actually breathing. I am not a great lover and, at my age, the equipment isn't even completely reliable. But, the most important parts of sex for me are just being with my wife intimately and giving her pleasure, neither of which porn can begin to simulate. Porn is a large fixture in my life, but it still knows its place, which is NOT in the forefront.