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cumfiesta2107
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294 Posts
6/06
Posted - Nov 27 2009 : 7:28PM
A gumar (pronounced goomar) is an Italian-American slang term for a girlfriend on the side while one already has a "main" girlfriend or wife. So I was wondering if anyone here has a gumar and how do you feel about it? I myself live in a cultural melting pot so it's hard not to get an urge to bang the shit out of some exotic hottie that I encounter at a night club. Although, at times I do feel guilty when I'm alone thinking about it. My fiance is a smart intelligent girl from Sicily and I absolutely love her. Last week I nailed this Israeli girl that I met. I loved it at the moment it happened but the next day I felt like shit about it.

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SunShowers
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333 Posts
4/08
Posted - Nov 30 2009 : 2:13PM
Dude, it's funny you bring this up. My nickname is "Gumar." I got the nails for it. There's nothing wrong with a gumar, as long as you appreciate both parties.
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LubeNLuv
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1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Nov 30 2009 : 3:57PM
I don't, but I generally believe that the only way there is something "wrong" with this is if you or either partner isn't aware of and accepting of having multiple parties. If either partner is expecting to have a monogamous relationship, and you do this behind their back, that is deceitful behavior. And that just makes you scum in my book.
In other words, if you've got the balls to fuck two of them, have the balls to let them know they aren't the only one you are fucking.
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xayhoundb
Senior Member

2721 Posts
11/08
Posted - Nov 30 2009 : 4:52PM
Cheating is cheating, but a wife/fiance is on another level than girlfriend. I couldn't even cheat on a girlfriend, so I wouldn't even dare to think on my wife or wife to be.
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ADT44
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876 Posts
7/09
Posted - Nov 30 2009 : 8:19PM
Xayhoundb, you have prolly never been to Rio, right? If you like bunda's - and I know you do- you will NOT be able to keep your dick in your pants when that certain hawt carnaval Mama is dancing on your lap, wife/GF or no wife/GF I speak from experience[:p)]
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xayhoundb
Senior Member

2721 Posts
11/08
Posted - Dec 1 2009 : 1:36AM
^ No, I haven't.
Man, if I found my way over to Rio... my dick would end up being in a lot of pain from so much pleasure.
I just wouldn't put myself in a situation to cheat (as in having a gf/wife.) That's all im saying. But, if I'm single.. I feel I can mess around with as many women as I want.
Edited by - xayhoundb on 12/1/2009 1:38:15 AM
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