Imagine a naked man who has a muscular body, is well groomed, but has an erection that's about 5.1 inches. Would he be considered sexy despite being a bit on the smaller side in the genitals? (YES, I admit that I am describing myself)
It's said that in the Greek/Roman times, it was more aesthetically pleasing. I think that's just a cover for the real reason why sculptures tended to have tiny wangs. The real reason I suspect is so they would less likely shame men that way. If you're just an average dude, would you appreciate public displays that showed you up? Wouldn't it propagate unrealistic expectations in the minds of young women who hadn't seen a nude male in the flesh before? Consider that statues were often made at larger than 1:1 human-scale to begin with. If the penises were even just proportionate, they'd appear larger. So I think they deliberately made smaller wangs in art and sculptures to reverse-compensate out of humility.
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Posted - Apr 17 2016 : 1:37AM
Put that yardstick away before you get a sliver in it. If one is lacking in one area, doesn't necessary mean he's not sexy in another. Exhibiting a self-confidence can go a long way. Their is a surgical option to release the extra four inches that's bound inside us guys. That should make it 9.1
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Posted - Apr 17 2016 : 9:31PM
To most women, yes. 5.1 is not absurdly small or anything. Unless you have the girth of a pinky finger it really is not a big deal. There are women who demand big ones, and that is ok. Nobody can be expected to be attracted to everyone. However, if this is an issue for you, and you are insecure about it, that WILL affect your sex life. Sexual confidence is very important to women and worries about your penis size will cause an issue in your chemistry. You need to embrace who you are, what you have ,and be the best lover you can be. You have control over what the rest of your body looks like, not your penis size. so, run with what you have. The vast majority of women you meet won't care if you have confidence in what you do.
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Posted - Apr 20 2016 : 10:13AM
Great discussion to be having. No doubt the concern ad insecurity effects the chemistry. Absolutely detrimental to a sex life. Keep your head up, you can't please em all either way.
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Posted - Apr 20 2016 : 11:42PM
Size insecurity is the problem, not the size itself. Unless a guy is legitimately in a bad spot with 2 or 3 inches, he needs to somehow make peace with it. Yes, if you go on tinder and say you are 5.1 , and some girl who is a size queen says you are too small, that will happen. Who cares... nobody can expect everyone to find them attractive. There are enough women out there where it won't. LIke seriously, how many girls really ask you how big you are when you are starting your small talk or meet on a dating site ? some do, but most don't. They want chemistry, even for some night club pickup..... And let's be blunt about another thing...... most guys don't last very long, and a lot need to keep pulling out every few minutes and jerking off to get that erection back to top level..... so at the end of the conversation, how big the cock is really is not a factor.... It is your confidence, chemistry, and interest in pleasing your partner that matters. Porn movies are not a measure of male sexual peformance... remember, most of these guys are injected to the gills with caverject or taking double doses of viagra pills a day. You only have 7 days in a week so there are only so many women you can seduce.... you only need a sliver of them to like you to keep busy :) forget about anyone who doesn't PS - I believe average, as factual as that can be, is around 5.5. These guys boasting 9 inch hangers are usually full of shit or if they are real, are a statistical grain of sand in the beach of penises. Even the great Mandino in porn is legit 9.5 maybe 10 if you stretch it. People seem to not realize how big a 10 inch dick actually is, they really are rare as rare can be. It is one of the amazing things in life.... most women over and over will tell guys they don't worry about the penis size; yet penis size is such a huge issue and problem for guys. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 4/20/2016 11:47:36 PM
Given half a chance, even amidst an embarrassment of riches. most people will manage to find some way to feel shitty about themselves. Guys with their penis-size insecurity, women with their breast-size insecurity, the list goes on . . . Oh what a world!
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Posted - Apr 21 2016 : 4:50AM
Yes, even the most gorgeous beings in our species will often feel shitty about themselves.... how many gorgeous women still get facial surgeries? In Hollywood, almost all of them.
^ lol Maybe he's into SPH? Not sure what the persistence remark is about and I count myself fortunate this is the only time I've noticed him and hope not to notice him doing this anymore. Edited by - Melvyn on 8/27/2016 6:26:13 PM
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Posted - Aug 29 2016 : 7:54PM
Well, he has posted this photo often in other threads and I guess he is a guy that wants a forum of strangers to think he looks good or that he is proud to have the biggest bush in mankind. Not sure why he needs to do that, I am sure there are medical descriptions for this beyond my knowledge bank.
Well, I'm just now reading some of the responses and I started this topic. It looks like the thread got hijacked by either an exhibitionist or just a plain flasher. Anyway, the exhibitionists flacid cock looks about the same as mine. I know that you can't really determine too much from a flacid cock unless it's a large softy, in which case you know it can only get even bigger. Not to sound racist, but at the gym locker room I sometimes see black men whose flacid cock looks much larger than my erect one. I can only imagine how big they must get when they are erect. Penis sizes are strange though. There is one guy there who is a short skinny white guy but it looks like he has a telephone pole dangling between his legs. I overheard some gay men calling him "tripod", LOL. Anyway, I guess acting confident with my little one is the way to go according to the ladies here. I have horrible memories of one sexual encounter when I was a younger man where I actually apologized to a girl before sex because I felt it was too small. I could tell by the look she gave me that I had just killed the sexy mood. I learned never to do that again so I never mention anything about my size. I never lie and claim it's big (obviously that would set things up for disappointment). Strangely one time as I was thrusting a lady kind of shouted out "oh yeah shove that big cock in me". I don't know what she was thinking. Maybe she had just heard porn women saying that so she thought she would say it too. That's the only time I've ever heard "big" when referencing my penis. As I'm now a middle aged man, I guess I'm lucky that I almost never have a problem getting hard.
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Posted - Sep 22 2016 : 12:43PM
I doubt most women are going to worry about a dick that is .9 inches shorter than average. Remember most women get off by clitorial stimulation anyways.
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