Hi All, I like to ask the female here. I am still in my early early thirties but the last 5 years when I ejaculates I no longer shoot very far but instead spun out pearl necklaces. Do you feel thats bad that if a guy cant shoot far and feel let down or do you like pearl necklaces?
It has never made any difference to me if the jizz shoots forcefully and far or just dribbles out, nor whether it was thick or watery, clear or white, buckets or just drops. I can't even remember those characteristics for any of my exes.
Thanks ladies, I can shoot but it takes a lots of foreplay and if I dont ejaculate for a few days, my semen feels thick and I've heard that is probably why it doesnt go very far because the thinner it is the further it goes. I notice when I get older the semen gets thicker, it may also have to do with my diet ever since I left home and eat different things.
Lunacy, why do you prefer a pearl necklace?
Lindi, why doesnt the quantity and texture of semen makes any different to you? It seems after all the pushing and shoving I find women enjoy seeing the volume especially if it is a lot. I can imagine if a woman fellates a man and if he produces so little she might feel she didnt turn him on, which can also be true. I once got so nervous and hardly turned on much but manage to orgasm quickly and only produces very little unlike when I get really turned.
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Posted - Jul 23 2003 : 5:29PM
i don't know a single woman (including myself) who has ever cared about cum volume or velocity or consistency. the only place it seems to matter is in porn.
Just comparing a facial or seeing it shoot to a pearl necklace, I like feeling it, and seeing it on me the best of the 3, that's all. Does that makes sense?
Saki does both too, it varies based on when he last came, his recent diet etc. I could care less, cum is cum.
Besides, when he cums inside me I wouldn't want it shooting too far or too hard, that would hurt! lol
Lunacy, does it hurt if he shoot far when he comes inside of you? I can see some advantage of a pearl necklace because women could focus on the guy's penis and watch him ejaculates without the fear of having to dive or close their eyes to avoid being hit which kind of break up the moment. Then again I believe most men would like to see a lot more when he cums, its a metaphor for his virility (which may or may not be true) his appreciation and also a visual stimulant in seeing huge amount of semen covering his female partner.
I think you may have that backwards. In general, everthing being equal, the stronger the orgasm, the more is ejaculated. So there is certainly a correlation, and the two may often seem to coincide, but the actual cause-effect chain is, I believe, the other way around.
I can usually do this if I've been masturbating for about two or more consecutive hours using the stop 'n go method (don't know how practical this would be with a sex partner though). I personally attach this further shooting to a stronger orgasm, because it feels the best when I've built up that much and then just bursting.
So I think that controllable factors, such as how long it's been since your last ejaculation, and how long you've been stimulated, can determine the size and length of the ejaculation.