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| CJ Member 10 Posts 7/00 |  Posted - Nov 26 2000 : 10:12PMI always wanted to know what women consider to be the 'perfect' ejaculation. Do women like it when the cum shoots out, or flows out ? What is the consistency they like ? Do the number of jets of cum matter ? Would women prefer it if men had dry orgasms ? I really want some frank opinions from women so that I can be better prepared. I have noticed a whole range of reactions that women have when they see me ejaculating. Some cheer me on while others look disgusted and try and avoid it when it shoots out. One women said she loved watching it shoot from the tip and another confessed that she loathed the sight of it shoot out. I'm confused ! Sometimes I masturbate before sex so that I can reduce my load. It is quite embarrassing when your partner is turned off by cum and you are in the middle of shooting a copious load. Women, please be frank and describe exactly what you like and DON'T like about the male orgasm. It would help us a lot and especially if you are frank. Thanks a ton. [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 26 2000 : 11:21PM [Link] |
| CJ Member 10 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 12:21AM So, if a guy shoots a 'tiny' load the girl sometimes thinks that he is not realy attracted to her and the sex wasn't great. This means that guys are always under pressure to shoot big loads (that means that we try not to have sex or masturbate for as long as possible before they have sex). Now the flip side is that, at the end of all that saving up, the girl really doesn't like a big load. She just wants to make sure that the sex was good. Infact, the sight of sperm puts her off but its her only way (foolproof) to determine how good the sex was. What does a girl expect a guy to do? Are we supposed to save up and have huge orgasms or will a dry orgasm be accepted ? To put it simply will a guy with a small load has to work harder to show that he is having great sex. Its not really fair. is it ? and even the amount of cum that is expelled is [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 8:05AM Believe me, a girl can tell if a guy's into it, if the heat is there & they're really having a great fuck - this is much more important than if he shoots, dribbles, drools, or whatever, at the end. And most of the time, I like a guy to cum inside me, anyway. You might want to remind these females (who I almost see holding up scorecards, like the Olympics) that they have to consider the whole performance, not just the finish.
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| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 5:19PM C.J- It really does not matter at all to me how my partner cums, sometimes he spurts, sometimes he dribbles. So long as he cums I assume he enjoyed himself. I think as far as what womyn think of sperm, well, that just depends on the girl! lol Personaly, I am the duck and kind version, I find sperm sticky and gloopy, BUT, it is a badge of sorts that I have pleasured my man. So I have come to enjoy it when he cums on me, or in me. Sorry not to be more specific, but it is really a subjective thing, just depends on the person and circumstance. But I can tell you, you should not have to be worried about how much, or how you cum, and certainly should not have to be mastrabating prior to sex to reduce the ammount you cum. That would be like me...I dunno, streching my pussy prior to sex to better accomidate my partner. Bad example, but do you see? I am what I am, and you are what you are, if my pussy is tight, or you cum a lot, it should be O.K just the way is is. Just relax and enjoy... Zippity Doo Da..Zippity Aye...la lala la laaaaa Edited by - -lunacy- on Nov 27 2000 [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 5:41PM I don't care about the velocity. Sometimes it's fun to watch it shoot - but usually I'm kind of busy when that's happening :) The male orgasm is a wonderful thing. I'm all for it! Don't worry about particulars - we don't. [Link] |
| sonic Deactivated User 1178 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 7:25PM Dammit..if the chic doesn't like it..she better duct! My wife loves it when she sees my expression when I blast..she says I look cute...and just to think that just as you're about to cum..you look like a prune face. Go figure..what a great wife. -sonic [Link] |
| CJ Member 10 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 27 2000 : 11:19PM My girlfriend actually enjoys watching it spurt out (Steph, just like you said - its sometimes fun to watch). Well she insists on watching everytime and even if she's 'busy' at the time - believe me ,she makes herself available. She sometimes makes me place a table (which is about crotch height) in front of me and makes me shoot over the table. She then sits on the table a few feet away and urges me to shoot on her. Apparantly, the sight of my cum spurting out over the table is a huge turn -on (I also like watching it shoot out from the end of my dick). Another thing she often does is to count out loud the number of jets that I spurt each time I ejaculate ( my best is 9 full + 2 half!!). The point is I enjoy this too but, as you can imagine, I have to be loaded all the time to impress her. This means that from masturbating once a day (at least) now masturbate only once a week or sometimes less. Therefore I'm horny all the time and I don't know whether I like it or not. She calls me at least once a day and tells me to save it up for the next time and not to masturbate (we have sex about twice a week). Then she always describes how my cum spurts out and how she likes watching it. Well, to put my point across - my ejaculation is the central point of our sex. Should I explain to her that this puts a lot of pressure on me ? The reason why I don't want to do that is because it is a very integral part of sex to her. She has always been attracted to guys with gig loads - to her its like being attracted to a guy who's tall or handsome. Its one of her 'criteria' if you know what I mean. [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Nov 28 2000 : 9:20AM Any womyn worth her salt will understand "pressure to perform sexually" issues. There is nothing wrong, in fact it is healthy, to be able to communicate about all things in a relationship, sex especially. [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 28 2000 : 10:20AM The shotput games might be fun a time or two, but would quickly get old. If you're so afraid of losing this person (and what passes for a sexlife) who seems to value you solely on your cum output, I would suggest that you've got more issues than could be resolved in a forum such as this. You sound like a nice, intelligent guy, but you obviously enjoy your role in this unhealthy "relationship" too much for us to be of any help. Good luck, and let us know if you break your personal best! [Link] |
| JoeBobBriggs Member Somewhere between here and there... 89 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Nov 28 2000 : 8:30PM My take is maybe she thinks that's a big turn on for you, that she's "so into" your shooting your load. In some way, she might think you want her to act the way she is. The best solution to any relationship problem is communication. Like everyone above has said, simply talk to her about how you feel. And if you don't like the answer she gives you, then shove your dick up her ass and pound her silly! (Sorry, couldn't resist, I still think you're playing us!). [Link] |
| Fuerte Member 10 Posts 8/00 | Posted - Nov 28 2000 : 11:05PM j/k we haven't counted :D [Link] |
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