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MobbDeep
New Member

3 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 1:41AM
This is what turns me on most in porn vids.... I guess I have a fetish for it. But in real life when I've done it, it doesn't actually feel all that great. I mean it feels good but nothing near what could get me to cum. My dick is probably used to the friction from me jacking of. Still, I am amazed when I see guys cum from facefucking or head in general (without the girl using much hand action)
Am I doing something wrong?
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 2:51AM
yes. not considering your partner. or the female in the videos.
maybe you do, maybe you don't, but in this post your consideration of their feelings is absent.
SexyHard
Member

673 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 3:38AM
One of my old girlfriends and I would get together and fool around once in a while, even years after we broke up. We were both sexually active with other people, so we had a lot of opportunity to share notes.
One time, another guy had face-fucked her, and she really liked it. Later, she wanted me to do the same thing, but the energy just wasn't there. I didn't feel comfortable, and it didn't work.
But with the other guy, she loved it.
Ma's tone suggests that women won't like face-fucking. But some will some won't. Still, I think Ma is correct that it's not about whether you're doing it right or wrong, it's about the energy between you and your partner.
Also keep in mind that porn turn-ons and what works in real life are going to be different. For instance, I like to watch anal, partly because I like to see a girl's spread pussy while she gets fucked. That turns me on visually. In real life, I don't like sticking any part of my body into something as dirty as an asshole. It's possible that face-fucking turns you on in porn, but not in real life.
jnkns
Member

14 Posts
5/07
Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 12:24PM
i've found that there is definitely two different types of what you term "face fucking". one with a willing partner who sucks eagerly as you pump your cock down her throat, and one that doesn't give a shit about making you cum, she just wants to get over with, hence she just lets you ram a moist hole without reacting.
sounds like whomever you "face fucked" isn't into self centered guys.
warrenwest67
Member

Thanks for the mammaries.
966 Posts
1/07
Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 1:11PM
My Girl likes to hang her head over the side of the bed upside down and face fuck. I love the ball slapping off her nose. But I end up turning her over again and doing it straight up. I tell her to push her tounge on the bottom of the shaft. I still don't cum like that but have come real close.I ll jerk it just enough and shove it back in to unload in her though. I choked her once like that. She was ok though.
 
LubeNLuv
Senior Member

1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 9 2007 : 12:25AM
I'm a little into face fucking with my wife, but we have a very healthy and mature D/s relationship and have had for years now. Within the Lifestyle, face-fucking is considered very much a part of normal scenes, especially punishment and "degradation" scenes. My wife loves it when I punish her in this manner, but we had to work up to it. I'm fairly large and she first had to learn to deep-throat, which took a lot of time and practice to get right. Then she had to learn to do "rough" deep throats and finally, "face fucking." I'm not sure how someone can jump right into face-fucking without practice, but perhaps we just aren't that coordinated (LOL).
Hanging the head upside down off the edge of the bed or couch works well, but my wife actually prefers when she's bound and with her head against the mattress of the bed or against some form of semi-firm support. This lets me fuck her mouth and throat without giving her "whiplash" which actually hurts. Porn girls make it look easy, but getting the rhythm down for a freestyle face fucking ain't as easy as it looks...I've damn near hurt my wife the first time we tried that little porn stunt.
But I think it takes some practice -AND- a woman who is naturally aroused by being submissive and/or into a bit of the "being taken/used" thing.
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jun 9 2007 : 1:41AM
WHy'd you stop typing? I was so close.
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jun 9 2007 : 2:11PM
COBALT60 -
Me *pant*, *pant* too.
BSD
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 10 2007 : 5:11AM
As is the case anytime you have a hard time climaxing, you're probably thinking too much. Try meditation to clear your mind before sex. No. I don't mean traditional, cross-legged, sitting on a mat making humming noises meditation (although I guess that's fine too). I've found that instrumental or classical music (flutes and cellos are good for me) are excellent meditation music.
I know this sounds like crazy talk but just try it. Read up on some meditation techniques.
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 3:10PM
The proper soundtrack for throatfucking = flutes and cellos? That's perverse; I like it.
Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 4:33PM
For me personally, face-fucking is a difficult act to receive. Deep-throating is easy when I control the depth and speed of the cock penetrating my throat, but it's kind of scary when he takes over the movement. You have to remember that you're somewhat impeding her airway. It's a difficult action to perform because a woman has to mentally will her throat muscles to relax, while at the same time her reflexes are urging her to protect herself.
Perhaps that's what you're facing when you face-fuck your partner. Perhaps your empathy for her interferes with your enjoyment of the sensation. I can, and do bring my husband to orgasm strictly orally, but it's because I love him and I want to give him the pleasure he deserves. I won't lie. Sometimes it's a struggle, and not always 100% pleasant for me. But I do get a sense of personal satisfaction from a job well done. And I'm going to confess... I sometimes spray the back of my throat with Chloroseptic beforehand. Yes, I cheat and use benzocaine to numb the back of my throat. So sue me.
Another thing you need to consider is the fact that the women you see getting face-fucked in porn are professionals. They've had a lot of practice, and they're determined to perform despite personal discomfort. Don't expect real-world women to be like porn stars. That's a mistake. And don't hold yourself to the same standard as porn studs, either. That's a recipe for disappointment. That's like me trying to compete with Serena Williams in tennis, and you trying to compete with Tiger Woods at golf. These people have natural talent superior to ours, and while it may be an admirable level to aspire to, the average John and Jane Doe are really not in their league.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 4:51PM
Well, at least I'm not the only one who appreciates that sort of thing. You haven't lived until you've polished one off watching some extreme face fucking with Chopin or Beethoven as part of the soundtrack.
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 5:04PM
Bah! Speak for yourself, woman. I see your average and raise you seventy times seven times extraordinary. I have gone to great lengths to expand my threshold of pain.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 8:41PM
The only thing better than rough sex to classical music is "American Psycho" as the perfect movie to watch on one's 20th wedding anniversary.
bootylicious_krissy
Member

79 Posts
4/07
Posted - Jun 14 2007 : 11:33PM
me and my bf luv this stuff. we like doin lil games, like how many gags i can do ;)
http://www.myspace.com/sugarcoatedgstringkrissy
 
Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Jun 15 2007 : 8:40PM
Okay, Cobalt. I'll speak only for myself, then. In my case, the mind and heart are willing, but sometimes the body is weak.
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jun 15 2007 : 10:48PM
Training. All you require is more training. If it does not kill you, it will make you stronger. Ass up! Head down! Hup! Two! Three! Four!
melpster
Member

582 Posts
5/05
Posted - Jun 15 2007 : 11:24PM
You just decribed exactly what was going through my head while I was vacuuming under my bed this morning.
francios
Senior Member

1802 Posts
2/05
Posted - Jun 16 2007 : 10:55AM
My regular girl loves the head over the bed face fucking position.
She can't deep throat but comes close in this position. I find it more enjoyable because of less teeth scraping.
My other girl loves to give oral so much she deep throats me as if she is being face fucked. She loves the feeling of my cock in the back of her throat. She wants to try taking my load with my cock all the way in to see if she can take it without gagging or choking on it.
MobbDeep
New Member

3 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 28 2007 : 11:31PM
Thanks for the replies everyone.
Some of you were worried about my caring for my partner - i always do and i always make sure they are "down" for it (no pun intended) when i go for the face fuck. I would never disrespect a woman in any physical way.
I'm talking more about the sensation I feel.... I recently had a girl deepthroating me, and she was going ALL the way to the bottom, i'm talking ashley blue style, teeth digging into the skin around my cock towards my stomach, and a sexy little gag sound... i have a solid sexual energy with this girl.... and she loves freaky stuff.. like most girls i've been with, the more freaky the experience, the more they are hollering back the next day for more.
but with this deepthroat experience, and with the facefuck experiences, i'm really confused as to why i don't feel much of a sensation. it's "pleasurable" and "cool" but not stimulating... is something wrong with my cock? lol



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