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SunShowers
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333 Posts
4/08
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 12:37PM
Just curious as to why men love cumming on a girl's face so much? What does it mean to you? What do you think about girls you do that to?
Last time I went down on this guy I've been loosely "seeing," he surprised me by pulling out of my mouth and cumming on my face. I was incredibly shocked and a little pissed off for a while. I don't know whether to feel bad about it or what.
So what's behind the facial?
Kimi Lixx
Senior Member

2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 3:14PM
1. They watch too much porn.
2. Men are obsessed with their own spunk - they would like to see it everywhere.
3. Some men think that it demonstrates dominance over the woman/partner.
closertothemeat
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92 Posts
8/10
Posted - Sep 30 2010 : 3:37PM
I like a girlfriend to like my cum - it's the expression of my peak of pleasure and for her to enhance the moment by taking me out of her mouth, dodging away or moments later rushing off to wipe up is, frankly, insulting. I love pleasuring a woman with my mouth until she cums but I bet she'd hate it if the moment I did I took my tongue out of her pussy and said "yuk", "that's disgusting" or whatever. And she'd be right to think that was at the very least rude.
To a degree facials are also a bit of a reaction to that long time rejection of cum that many girls back in my youth had... my experience showed that less than one in ten girls swallowed back then. Most wouldn't like cum anywhere near them. That's a rejection and, frankly, not a very nice one.
For me there's something very thrilling about seeing my girlfriend wear my cum - it says she not only likes my orgasm but that she'll take it onto her in a very personal way. A more visual version of the love & generosity of swallowing, I guess. And I think it looks pretty . And men are visually oriented as a species, after all ;-)
In porn, it's naughty, very naughty indeed. And to me if she looks like she takes and enjoys the facial(s), it's the girl demonstrating that she enjoys very naughty sex.
That's why sites like "Facial Abuse" and videos where girls are humiliated through some of the more dominating practices (funnels, cones and all that) are an abomination, in my opinion. A woman saying "cum on my face" and enjoying (or appearing to enjoy) taking the facial(s) is an act of personal sharing. Where that exists, some will always use that as a weapon or a method of dominance.
So for some it's dominance. For some it's loving. For some its just plain naughty. For me its a mix of the latter two and none of the former.
Edited by - closertothemeat on 9/30/2010 3:39:35 PM
dickvomits
New Member

the flower eats that girl
3 Posts
9/10
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 5:07AM
i am man ,but i dont like to do it...
cimfan
Member

500 Posts
3/10
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 8:01AM
It's a visual thing as mentioned above. But I actually prefer the cum to clearly go straight in her mouth and have her show it to me, then swallow it down with a smile. That's really hot. Cumming on her face is messy and some cum could end up in her eye, a big no-no.
In porn it's actually hard to find swallowing scenes between couples. There are the 10 man cum slams out there, but not so many options of just 1 girl swallowing for 1 man. Most of the time she spits the cum back out and even then, the girl often keeps her mouth totally closed and he sprays all over her tits. That doesn't do much for me and I see it as a perfectly good cumshot and swallow opportunity being wasted.
More CIM and swallowing between couples please!
 
BSD
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San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 7:43PM
SUNSHOWERS -
I am a heterosexual male.
I love facials. In porn, and in my life. (Happened very rarely, does not happen at all with the wife.)
I cannot adequately articulate all the reasons why this turns me on so, (and I'm good at articulating most things), but it just does.
The one woman who was really crazy over me, and enthusiastically participated with me in this and other more adventurous sexual proclivities, was my sexual soulmate for life and pretty much ruined me for all other women. I don't know whether she enjoyed the facials for her own sexual sensibilities, or she enjoyed it for the pleasure that she knew I derived from it, but the effect was the same for both of us. Everyone was happy.
I just like it. I'm sorry, I just like it.
BSD
Savoy All-Star Supporter
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Sucker for Sinners
1844 Posts
12/06
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 10:13PM
Can't wait for your next thread, "What's the big deal about anal?" after he just sticks it in your ass one night.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 11:34PM
You've been with one guy and he comes on your face. Unless you've been holding out on us, how do you get from there to "men"?
Just speaking for myself, lots of curious things float my boat but that ain't one of 'em.
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 11:36PM
Now if you'd ask why men love women in French maid outfits . . .
;)
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Oct 1 2010 : 11:38PM
. . . I'd tell you that it gives me wood but that I have no idea why, exactly.
HeyNow All-Star Supporter
Oblivious

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5965 Posts
1/03
Posted - Oct 2 2010 : 2:07AM
I bow down to your greatness.
jayo All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

2117 Posts
7/04
Posted - Oct 2 2010 : 12:01PM
I don't like it. I think it's gross.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Oct 2 2010 : 12:41PM
I don't watch enough porn. I'm disappointed in myself, really.
taylor_swift_tasty_feet
Member

367 Posts
1/10
Posted - Oct 5 2010 : 11:33AM
I like the way it looks and I love taking a photo of a girl's face covered in cum.All my past GFs have let me,one girl said,"I don't get why you want to but sure go ahead" and yes I LOVE submisive girls.
francios
Senior Member

1802 Posts
2/05
Posted - Oct 5 2010 : 11:46AM
In some positions her face is just in the line of fire.
Other times she just wants to feel my warm load on her body and face.
Every girl is different.
 
atlas
Member

50 Posts
10/10
Posted - Oct 7 2010 : 3:11PM
Personally, my woman likes it and asked for it the first time. She doesn't watch porn.
mightyred
Member

8 Posts
10/10
Posted - Oct 7 2010 : 4:36PM
My wife asks for it but i have never done it. I always like to blow a load all over her tits. I think the way it looks it such a turn on.
Voyeur32
Member

913 Posts
11/00
Posted - Oct 9 2010 : 1:01AM
I'm a big fan of giving them. BUT only if the girl is into it. I have no desire to do something the girl isn't into. That would be a turn-off for me actually.Part of the turn-on is the submissiveness factor. But I think it also means to me if she wants and allows me to do this she's up for anything as this is such an intimate act. It should be noted that I'm pretty much open for anything that she'd want to try with me also so I am equal oppurtunity.
Kimi Lixx,Julie Night,Tina Tyler and then everyone else.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Oct 10 2010 : 9:47AM
Cum on the face/mouth is the only place she can be an active participant in his orgasm. Everywhere else is passive. If he cums inside her ass or pussy, she is just a receiver. If he cums on her, she can help jerk him off, but she still has limited opportunities to join in on his orgasm. But, if he cums on her face, she can look him in the eyes, lick, suck, rub his cock, blow bubbles, .... do all the things that tell him she's enjoying his orgasm as much as he is! She's not a target, she's looking to make his orgasm as intense as she possible can and make it as personal as she can and as complete as she possible can. Active participation - not a passive receiver. And when he's done, he can kiss her sticky wet face and tell her he's just as comfortable with his own cum as he's looking for her to be. He's given her a gift and she's shown him how much she enjoys it. Very special!
SunShowers
Member

333 Posts
4/08
Posted - Oct 10 2010 : 10:29AM
These are interesting answers. I'm still not that clear on this, though. Maybe it's one of those things that will always be a little mysterious.
Thanks for input.
cimfan
Member

500 Posts
3/10
Posted - Oct 10 2010 : 2:20PM
What specifically are you not clear on? I thought the responses you received were very good.
Nameless1
Member

165 Posts
10/10
Posted - Oct 30 2010 : 10:57PM
Don't really get facials. Well, I kinda do. But I'd rather see it end up on a woman's tits or ass. Or a nice creampie will do...
Lube-Aholic
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37 Posts
10/10
Posted - Nov 5 2010 : 12:16AM
Lube-Aholic
Member

37 Posts
10/10
Posted - Nov 5 2010 : 12:19AM
Here, here. You hit the nail on the head. I have no desire to do anything my wife isn't into. I second you by saying that it's a complete turn-off when it's done for me. If she's open to trying things, that's different. I can tell when she's doing it for me.



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