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spiralcloud
Member

15 Posts
12/08
Posted - Feb 27 2009 : 5:41AM
Why men like to pretend to be hot women (with pics) on adult online dating sites?
If they are gay and want to get men messages (which I doubt...) why they don't post on gay sites...
I don't understand what's behind this behaviour.....
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Feb 27 2009 : 8:38AM
why not?
stinkfist
Senior Member

Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Feb 27 2009 : 7:14PM
I guess it's a cheap thrill for many,i remember putting an ad in a swinger/contact mag from my area ages ago and bought a new sim card for the purpose of using this to get and receive messages.All i got was time wasting guys pretending to be female and texting wanting to know what i would do to them,when i stated that i would call them or they call me to confirm they were female the messages stopped.
Dubious_Leftovers
Senior Member

And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
1423 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 8 2009 : 8:20PM
I suppose for these dudes ANY attention is better than none at all.
fu_q All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 9 2009 : 6:30PM
I sometimes wonder how often this occurs on message boards, etc., as well.
My guess is that it's fairly frequent.
 
Dubious_Leftovers
Senior Member

And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
1423 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 9 2009 : 6:49PM
Yup, I'd agree it probably is.
Message boards are anonymous places and all that's known about you is the information YOU wish to post. A lot of people fantasise about being other people. They feel safe playing out these roles in this manner. Would get annoying if you tried to engage with them on any serious level.
seedfeeder
Member

My balls are full, who's hungry?
716 Posts
4/09
Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:45AM
I would argue that you answered your own question: They don't like GAY guys, they like to "corrupt" straight guys or shock them, etc. They cannot do that on gay sites now can they. However, don't get me wrong, I think it's deplorable and selfish, they are wasting your time, using you, etc. I was just trying to give you an insight into why they might do it.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 4:26PM
The simple answer is this. The idea of seducing a straight man into a sexual encounter is a very popular fantasy in the gay community. I have no clue what it is but a lot of gay men are actually turned off by other gay men. It's nuts.
I surmise that they believe if they can get a desperate straight man talking, they just might be able to pull it off.
This in no way is intended to insinuate all gay men are like this or would do it. But if you look at places where a lot of gay men post, you'll see a lot of fantasy talk about straight men.
LubeNLuv
Senior Member

1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 4:36PM
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Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
Doctor of the Erotic Arts

7238 Posts
1/09
Posted - Apr 25 2009 : 8:07PM

I think it's too convenient to assume that these men are simply gay. Clearly, in a society where homosexuality (male especially) is still regarded with derision, and any homoerotic thoughts are kept to oneself, the spheres of anonymous internet dating/messageboards are a perfect place to live out a fantasy, or simply to pretend to be someone else - a different identity completely - as someone else here pointed out. I think we try to categorize sexualities too strictly, whereas in fact they are much more complicated, and something like a continuum.



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