Also, if there is a mod around, it might be a good idea to split this into another thread. Or should we start a new one for people who are curious and want to ask questions bout BDSM?
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| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 |  Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 4:17AMAlso, if there is a mod around, it might be a good idea to split this into another thread. Or should we start a new one for people who are curious and want to ask questions bout BDSM? [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24914 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 4:18AM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24914 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 4:19AM  [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 4:27AM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 4:33AM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24914 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Sep 13 2012 : 6:18AM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Sep 14 2012 : 12:09AM First off it is neither a submissive or dominant act. A person either likes rimming or they don't, it has nothing to do with being dominant or submissive. Ok, a chick rimming a guy is a total turn off for you, I get that, you don't like it, you don't have to like it. I am the same way with ass to mouth, it is a total turn off to me even though I enjoy rimming, a little weird since the acts are similar. SSG's A, B and C game was fun for sure, but one thing I would like to elaborate on is that Dominance and submission isn't a physical thing, it is a mental thing. Being a "Dominant" or a "submissive" is different for different folks, there are so many varieties of Dom and sub traits that it is mind boggling, there is no simple definition for actually defining a "Dom" or a "sub." The entire "Dom/sub" relationship is based upon control in a mental aspect far more than a physical aspect in my opinion. A "Dom" needs to know what buttons to push and when to push them, a "sub" needs to know that their buttons will be pushed when they need them to be pushed. And when it comes to "pushing buttons" it might be in the form of a hug, escalating from there, a kiss on the neck, tugging a handful of hair, looking into their eyes or a swat on the ass. The number one "Dom" trait is being able to take care of yourself, please anybody correct me if I am wrong, how in the world can you "take care of somebody else if you can't take care of yourself?" [Link] |
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