biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 9:16PMhey all you men out there ! i guess women can share their success tories, too lest i get accused of being sexist! i am single and looking for any ideas or hints that a woman can do while flirting that drives men wild! i don't want to be as obvious as deep throating a beer bottle or anything that crude... so men, what turns you on when you see a women doing it in public? [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 9:46PM
A sublte way to get a man's attention is to wear a skimpy dress and slightly bend over so that your ass is showing. If a guy knows that your not looking, he'll look. Also, it looks sexy if the guy can see your panties through your dress. Basically, the idea is to let a guy know that you don't mind looking sexy, that you're not uptight about your clothing. A not so subtle way is to sit on a guy's lap and massage his penis with your behind. Another one is saying that you'll swallow or do anal; although a guy would probably like that.
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biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 9:52PM
boy mkie, you sure do put the B back in subtle! thanks fo rhte hints though. i will have to try them out and see what results i get! what about the low cut shirts (not skin tight, just scooping neckline)? [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 9:56PM
That'll work too. Most guys will appreciate whatever you do. Just don't be uptight; if you look sexy and don't tell a guy to go fuck himself every 10 seconds, he'll notice you. [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 10:00PM
Why are you asking this stuff anyway? I thought women liked playing hard to get and like saying stuff like, "no I don't do anal, so quit asking me shmuck." [Link] |
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Drew Black broken crankshaft
8009 Posts 9/99
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 10:05PM
biggun - Welcome to ADT. I'm sure that you'll get some interesting feedback from the ranks here. Here's one that you might not hear everyday: Guys like to see a girl riding things. (like bikes, horses, motorcycles,etc.) There's something oddly sensual about watching a woman throw a leg over something before she rides it.
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Darkmage Member
State of Denial 328 Posts 11/99
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 11:27PM
Hmm... I feel like I'm going to be providing secrets to the enemy here.  My suggestion is lean over a lot. You presumably have a cleavage. Most guys I know have some sort of eye disfunction that makes us stare at a woman's chest every thirty seconds or so. Leaning over to give them a good look always works. There is always the standards stuff: Learn to use your eyes. Long lashes help, but the real secret is to tilt your head down slightly and look up at him. My theory is that it reminds us of what women look like when they're giving blowjobs, but that's just a theory. Body contact is another good one. Before you get carried away, don't say "hello" and then jump on his lap, but be sure to touch him ever now and then. During a funny moment, touch his hand, stroke his arm... this is, in my not-so-humble opinion, one of the greatest indicators that a woman likes you: She'll touch you out of her own free will. Hope that helps! P.S. - Welcome to ADT. ------------------ "There's a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find." ------------------ Who is [ invalid url ] | The [url=464724]Darkmage Special</A [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 11:40PM
Darkmage, do you think its possible for a guy to get off on a girl masturbating his arm? [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 11:49PM
Since advice is been given on what guys like, I was just wondering, what do girls like? Do girls like a guy who gives them money, jewelry or drives a nice car??? Also, where's the g-spot? [Link] |
biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 12:09AM
y'all crack me up. thanks for the advice, though. gonna have to find a creative way to look up at a guy tho, seeing as how i am quite tall (does the name biggun give it away?!?!). but mike, to answer your ???---first, i don't claim to know what women want. all of my guy friends ask me the same thing, but honestly, i think most women are weird and play too many head games (and no, not THAT head game ) i play it straight with guys i date--no bullshit. i guess since i hang out mostly with guys, i tend to act more like a guy, minus the crotch scratching of course. me personally, and i know this is going to piss a lot of girls off or ruin their plan, i am not attracted to $, jewelry, etc. however, something about a big truck makes me hot! no clue why. as far as meeting people and getting to know them (i guess picking up on them), i always go for guys that can make me laugh, have self confidence without being an obnoxious prick, and like to have a good time. hey, some cheap shots here--compliment a women. works like a charm as long as you don't sound like a cheeseball doing it. touching a woman's hand, caressing it and stroking it is way sexy. so is extended eye contact. of course, don't go overboard unless you want a restraining order! [Link] |
biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 12:18AM
oops, sorry mike. forgot the most important answer. the infamous g spot. hmmm... i was reading thru the archives and someone described it perfectly. i agree with just about everything she said but instead of the come here gesture, i prefer a guy just to push up. basically, to reiterate, put your middle finger inside her and press up with your finger pad. it isn't enarly as sensitve as a clit, so she may not even really know if you are on it if she isn't already stimulated. imho, the best is when i am almost at an orgasm via clit stimulation, then have the guy use his middle finger to hit the g spot while the other fingers (or hand if that is easier) still hit the clit. whoa mama, orgasm out of this world. beware tho, i have been told that doing that will give your forearm quite a workout and i have actually had a guy cramp up while doing it. pretty damn funny! [Link] |
mikerena Member
Anaheim, CA USA 49 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 2:04AM
Does hitting the g-spot have the same effect for a woman as does putting down the toliet seat? [Link] |
biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 9:43AM
wouldn't know about that--have yet to meet a guy that put the toilet seat down! [Link] |
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Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 10:36AM
hey biggun: (female here ) i've looked exactly the same all my life, yet i spent many years very lonely and then a few years going after and getting what i wanted. whether guys know it or not, i think confidence is the answer. know what you want (i.e. don't give every cute guy the eye ) and go after it. don't wait for the guy to come to you. and since you're one of the guys (me too) you can approach a guy as a friend. this way you have the upper hand (you'll allow it to become more than friendship when you're good and ready.) i'm guessing that the kind of guy you want to be with wants to be with a girl who can hang out with guys. so in conclusion... don't ask the guys what they want to see, tell them what they want to see - i am half-kidding... i think   [Link] |
Darkmage Member
State of Denial 328 Posts 11/99
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 10:17PM
That's actually pretty good advice. Get a lot of guy friends. You know what those guy friends are really there for. "In case of the hornys, break glass." You got it. Emergency lovin'. Believe it or not, quality guys do not usually come up to you in a bar and use a cheezy pickup line. Quality guys are a little shy and could use a little help to break the ice. Once the ice is broken, if he can't keep up his side of the conversation, drop him like a garbage bag of wet tofu. IMNSHO, if he is confident enough to walk up to you in a bar and say something cheezy in the hopes that you'll fall for it... he's well on his way to being a dick. But then again, I don't go into bars looking for guys. I don't go into bars looking for women, either. I usually don't go into bars. ------------------ "There's a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find." ------------------ Who is [ invalid url ] | The [url=464724]Darkmage Special</A [Link] |
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biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 22 2000 : 10:23PM
thanks for the intersting visual of a bag of tofu. keep hearing the nasty kerplop it would make when being dropped. pretty damn funny. i am guessing that you are from california. can't say i can think of another state that where people have actually handled tofu. [Link] |
Oneloa Member
848 Posts 2/00
| Posted - Jul 23 2000 : 12:58AM
Biggun - most guys are attracted to women that show them a lot of attention. We are simple creature really... we need food... water (may be substituted for beer)... sleep... and the Almighty "P"! Seriously. We are absolute chumps for you ladies. We don't need to be swept off our feet or wooed. Just show up naked and bring beer!  If you meet a guy in a bar and want to get his attention... here are a couple of tips: play with your hair, show some cleavage, wear a thong (underneath any type of clothing), laugh at his jokes, and touch his arm or hand while talking. If this doens't work... he's gay. Move on to the next guy... you're wasting your time with this one. [Link] |
Darkmage Member
State of Denial 328 Posts 11/99
| Posted - Jul 25 2000 : 8:35PM
Ugh! No, I am not from California! Other side of the country, thanks. In California, everyone eats healthy because you have no choice. State law, you have to eat wheat grass and tofu burgers at least three times a week. This works only because out of any three restaurants, one will only serve long grain wild rice, and the other two will be Burger King or McDonald's fighting for turf. Out here, we pretend to eat healthy, but we don't have the restaurants to back it up.  I could never live in California for more than a month. ------------------ "There's a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find." ------------------ Who is [ invalid url ] | The [url=464724]Darkmage Special</A [Link] |
biggun Member
outthere 67 Posts 7/00
| Posted - Jul 25 2000 : 8:58PM
darkmage--try living in houston--we are the city that eats out the most in the entire nation. AND we are land of the cattle=tons of red meat and beer. gret for the arteries and way better tasting than any of that tofu wheat germ fat free crap. who wants to live to be 150 yrs old? i'd rather live to be forty and have a helluva time than eat that crap for 150 yrs!!!!! [Link] |