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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 17 2000 : 5:56PM
So How do you flirt?
How do you know if someone is flirting with you?
I could use all the help and advice.
Thank you,

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Morrigan
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Posted - Sep 17 2000 : 6:57PM
I'll send you an email, evil. I'd shut the server down with my response...
lol
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Oneloa
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Posted - Sep 17 2000 : 11:32PM
Come on Morrigan... now you have our curiosity... we have to know your secrets!!

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biggun
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Posted - Sep 17 2000 : 11:48PM
flirting--i range from not so subtle (sitting on your lap and flashing you my breasts J/K) to subtle. for me, i like to get in a person's 3 feet of personal space and test ehe sexual chemistry out btwn him and me. anotehr thing is to continually look from their eyes to their lips or touch them (like on the arm, nothing that would get me arrested!). these, however, are female to male flirts, and i am not too sure how well the response would be if you tried it on the opposite sex. for me, i know when a guy is flirting with me by his eye contact. if a guy makes repeated eye contact with me and smiles, them that is a clue that he is interested. if i am interested, i will return the eye contact and smile or even be brazen enough to go approach the guy. rip, it is all in the body language--a person can tell a lot if they pay attention to body language, both in reading if someone is interrested and showing that you are interested in them. a little FYI--watch and see how many times a girl licks her lips or exposes her neck--sure fire ways to know that she is sexually attracted or interested in you.
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 18 2000 : 2:43PM
Still waiting for the email.
 
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Posted - Sep 18 2000 : 3:02PM
i've never been much of a flirt - but when i was single and wanted a guy i'd usually push him and punch him a lot. i guess i never really progressed past third grade - but it worked so who cares
if she touches you she's probably interested, unless she's the kind of girl who wants every guy to want her. if she talks about sex with you she's probably interested, but again same caveat. if she looks around the room when she's with you, she's not interested.
Morrigan
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Posted - Sep 18 2000 : 5:04PM
I'm working on it....hold your horses...
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-lunacy-
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Posted - Sep 19 2000 : 1:11AM
Neigh!!

I would have to say...all of the above. lol
Eye contact is a big one, touching, closeness, sexual imuendo, those have always done the trick for me.

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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 19 2000 : 6:14PM
Okay. So I now know how you ladies flirt with the men.
So whats a guy supposed to do?
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astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Sep 19 2000 : 7:41PM
Try sticking your tongue down her throat. It's a sure way to tell if she likes you or not.
Darkmage
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Posted - Sep 19 2000 : 8:21PM
Hah! I guess if you get your tongue back, you have a chance. If she bites it off, it just wasn't meant to be.
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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 1:02AM
So anyone have some more real advice.
*slaps astroknight and Darkmage*
haha very funny. =P

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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 10:44AM
forget flirting and remember the old days that may have never existed. court with romantic dinners and flowers, open doors, buy drinks (even if it's a soda from the vending machine), carry things for her, give neck massages, give her small gifts that may seem meaningless but show that you're thinking of her. being polite will get you a lot farther than flirting.
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 11:04AM
Of course, if you listen to Steph you're going to fall into the 'nice guy' image. Don't worry. I'm sure you'll make a great FRIEND for her. You'll at least get to hear about the problems she's having with other guys. =P
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 11:41AM
astroknight
every guy that i've ever had a serious relationship with has been my best friend first. i think that's an important foundation for a relationship.
if you just want to get laid - well, then be honest about it - and be sure to let her know that her orgasms come first
 
-lunacy-
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 1:01PM
I have to agree w/ Steph, I would not even consider going out w/ a guy that did not do all those "little nice things".
Sometimes you guys just get put in the friends category because we are not ready for more, or there is just no chemistry.
But being a nice guy, is not going to earn you more chances at the drawing , then being a prick anyday.

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astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 1:18PM
Okay, now that I gave my inner pig voice, I have to let my inner 'nice - guy' agree with Steph. Be chivalrous. Women don't seem to expect it any more and were always really impressed by it. I have one friend who actually uses the chivalry to flirt. I've seen him offer his chair to a girl in a busy club and then 'charge' her a backrub for it. Of course, you'd have to have women think you were cute for that to work.
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 8:09PM
love and sex have to go with each other.
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 21 2000 : 8:11PM
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Morrigan
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Posted - Sep 25 2000 : 9:29PM
But I think Rippy's cute...

Still working on the flirt tome for ya, Evil.
-M
Big_Gun
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Posted - Sep 25 2000 : 11:41PM
That would stand me (oops... I mean get my) attention!
How true! A gal I work with does this to me all the time (It's hot where I work and she kinda makes it look like she's trying to cool off) lifting her hair up (it's shoulder length) and holding it (almost always with her back to me)
I already know she wants me! A couple years ago we (a few people from work) were celebrating Halloween, she got drunk and told me she should take me home just for kicks and then gave me a kiss (she doesn't remember this).
FYI - No I didn't!
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Big_Gun
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Posted - Sep 25 2000 : 11:52PM
Another gal I work with (VERY beautiful) I'm always nice to, she's always joking about sex or sexual things with the other guys (like - tell-them-what-they-want-to-hear type stuff) but has never joked with me like that (like she's thinking - This guy's a little different than the rest, likes me for me and not just my ass)
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 27 2000 : 1:31AM
I am? nooooooooooooooooo...
Hey Big_Gun thanks for confirming the stuff in the real world.. and your second post.. is that bragging or something?
=P
Okay peoples.. tommorow.. I might actually try out your peoples advice.. If i have the nerve...
and Morrigan.... I still want that tome!

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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 27 2000 : 3:03PM
The person I was gonna ask out was Ill today and couldn't come in. Hope she's alright.
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astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Sep 27 2000 : 6:04PM
Too bad, Rip. On the plus side, you get to be sensitive and caring now, unless that is, you offer to show her a new way to take her temperature. Anyway, she'll also know you noticed she was gone. Good Luck!
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Sep 30 2000 : 12:10PM
So last night on Showtime or Cinemax or something...
There was a movie called you guessed it
Flirting
it had nicole kidman in it, she played a private school girl in Australia in the early 1960s. She wasn't the main character.
The storry was pretty good but it started late night and I got tired so i just went to sleep.
Actually story was about this Ugandan girl and this smart alacie Aussie boy.
He's like the super nerd of the group and they make fun of him.
very interesting.
morrigan
still waiting.
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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Oct 8 2000 : 8:20PM
Morrigan

Still Waiting

Big_Gun
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Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 3:03AM
LOL
Morrigan
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Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 8:37PM
You can all bite me....

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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 10:12PM
*Takes a BIG bite of Morrigan*

mmmmmmmmm never had women before... sure is sweet.


Evil_RIP

dumblonde
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Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 10:16PM
Taste like chicken? or duck?
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Oct 9 2000 : 10:50PM
actually a blueberry filled donut.
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Evil_RIP

Morrigan
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Posted - Oct 11 2000 : 6:19PM
Bad Evil! No Donut!

ROFLMFAO

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Evil_Rip
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Posted - Oct 12 2000 : 3:04PM
 
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Oct 12 2000 : 6:09PM
Evil, don't you mean 'Mmmmmm. Forbidden Doughnut.'
Evil_Rip
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astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Oct 13 2000 : 1:14PM
*sighs* Another Simpson's quote lost.
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Rip, I think I'm just posting because I feel like the only person that hasn't But to let you know, there is a book called "How to Succeed With Women" and it does talk about flirting. Pretty good book actually. Not some crackpot thing that just gives you a whole bunch of corny lines and tells you to buy a Ferrari.

I also love the irony of this topic being on an adultDVD site. Adult movies handle flirting like Bridget Fonda to Robert Deniro in Jackie Brown---"Wanna Fuck??" (A what a good world that would be On a side note...Didn't her ass just look grrrreeeeeaaaaaattt?

"She's so cool, and I'm so ugly, I'd be a fool 2 think she could love me. She's the kinda girl U wanna meet. She's a peach"-From Peach by Prince

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FREE THE WEED

Evil_Rip
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Posted - Dec 10 2000 : 11:02PM
sonic
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Posted - Dec 11 2000 : 9:12AM
I remember back in the days of Sonic flirting..I used to get laid numerous and numerous times. The best sentenced I used..was always a success. What the heck..here..use it men..enjoy!

Sonic: "Excuse me..you ever runned into the "meat burgler"?

Sonic: "You see the reason I ask is because it looks like somebody stole two fine hams and shoved them on the back of your dress."

-Sonic (ladie's man)

-lunacy-
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Posted - Dec 11 2000 : 1:51PM
Sonic, that was you!?


lol

sonic
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Posted - Dec 11 2000 : 2:02PM
Yeah! How you been!?!

I knew that I get to totally cream you!

I MEAN WITH MY SENTENCE! You know..make you putty in my hands!

Remember the huge hats we used to wear with our bell bottoms? And that chic hit on you and out of nowhere you grabbed her ass and you took her to room 232? This was you right?!?

Oh man...

2dvd
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Posted - Dec 12 2000 : 8:02PM
so the neck thing is a sign. i alway thought that was a fluke.
-lunacy-
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Posted - Dec 12 2000 : 8:57PM
Oh my gosh! Yeah! That was me, remember my bell bottoms got caught my platforms when you tryed to get them off so we banged with them on? And you were so slick, said my eyes were so groovy.

Peace man.....

Zippity Doo Da..Zippity Aye...la lala la laaaaa

sonic
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Posted - Dec 13 2000 : 1:12PM
WOW Lunacy I had no idea I run into you on this great forum!!!

I still have a picture of you with the bell bottoms!

Clearly I remember when anal was a taboo at that era..but we broke the rules didn't we! HAHAHA!!!

Man you had that tight butt with the tight pants and bell bottoms..everytime you shaked that thanga..it was like a huge church bell going left and right..left and right rocking my world!

Remember the bet we had?

Remember the bet!

-sonic

-lunacy-
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Posted - Dec 13 2000 : 3:51PM
The bet that you could give me afro from all the f**king we did?
lol
Tell me.... And post that old pic for the other forum members to see!
dumblonde
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Posted - Dec 13 2000 : 6:06PM
Quote 2dvd: "so the neck thing is a sign. i alway thought that was a fluke"

Not always 2dvd. As someone with long hair, sometimes it means 'It's friggin HOT in here!'

JoeBobBriggs
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Posted - Dec 13 2000 : 8:35PM
Waaaaaaayyyy back in my singles days, a great method for flirting that worked for me (yes Steph, I mean to get LAID!), was to notice something, anything the girl was wearing, reach over and touch it, and say something innocuous like "that's cool, where'd you get that".

The important thing wasn't what you said, it was grabbing something on her person, and initiating physical contact with her. Just hold it in your hand the whole time she's telling you about it. Surprisingly, I found watches to work the best!! Necklaces were a bad idea, I always summed it up as "threatening" - too close to the boobs! Even rubbing the fabric of her shirt between your forefinger and thumb gets their attention. The whole time shut up and listen, and read her body language. When you're in their bubble that long, they know exactly what your intentions are, and if you get some positive vibes back, then you can move onto phase two - which is anywhere from asking her if she wants to get another drink, point something out in the room that looks interesting and make a comment about it, or ask her if she wants to go outside and fuck!! Like I said, evaluating body language is key!

Now of course this is not a good opening tactic! You have to make sure the eye contact and quick smile happen first. And you have to situate yourself close enough to her to initiate the contact. But that stuff is always easy. Sometimes just sitting next to someone is the first stage in flirting.

And of course make sure you are dressed cleanly and your hygiene is in order. Always try to dress just a little more casually than the typical person in the room, it adds to the image. Oh, and leave your fly open and your balls hanging out, that's a real conversation starter!

Hope that helps!

dumblonde
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Posted - Dec 13 2000 : 9:11PM
JoeBob - Wow, you had it dialed in. But then, as good looking as you are, I'm surprized you had to work that hard! BTW, "go outside"? Like, in the alley or parking lot? Enquiring minds want to know....
sonic
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Posted - Dec 14 2000 : 10:32AM
Lunacy yes!!!

You told me that I couldn't give you oral pleasure for a full one hour and a half because you thought I too drunk and out of it. Boy I proved you wrong hunh? And at the end look at that pussy fro!!!

Man..and what was up with your pussy hair? Remember you started putting on that small black fisted comb on it!?!

You were so funny.

Remember that black guy that dissed me in the hallway because he was kicking it to you on front of my face because he thought since I was small I had no chance to hang with you?

Remember when I wooped out my dik in his face and then he just left quietly! LOL! HAHAHA!! Then his girl friend creeps behind him and asks what's going on. We tell her that he's flirting with you and she then storms into our room and starts crying!

Lunacy are you still friends with her? I mean..did you give her a lick down or what!!! Remember! What a way for her to pay back her boyfriend!

She was tight though..but what a threesome it was.

Awwww..Lunacy ...what a sexy line crack from the tip of your vagina near the clit..to the end of your sexy brown butthole I clearly remember.

Man those days I sorely miss.

Butt...they were awesome!

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