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centerpin2005
New Member

1 Posts
12/05
Posted - Dec 19 2005 : 5:39PM
After going back through some recent posts, I was surprised I didn't see this.....so Im sorry if Im in the wrong place.

My wife has, on occasion, suggested getting a porn when she is in the heat of it.

I cant blow it with my first one, and I want to avoid

rough
anal
Multiple partners
Money shots on the face

What productions feature:
a plot that can be tolerated
handsome, middle of the road type of men (no billy idol types)
genuine enjoyment by both partners
a slow, but honest progression towards the hot stuff?

i have seen some that may fit the bill like:
space nuts
In search of the snow leopard
The mobsters wife

Are the couples movies and their reviewing women already into porn? Or can I take some advice from any of the ladies here?

thanks a lot.........money is tight, and I don't want to gross her out.....gotta start somewhat tame.

Thanks!

Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 19 2005 : 6:00PM
Arrrgghhh! I'm itching to answer this, but I fear the controversy I'll inevitably instigate here. Give me a few more weeks, and "The Prude's Guide to Porn" will be launched. I'm writing content as we speak.

Meantime, you can't go wrong with "Pirates." Even if it doesn't turn her on, it'll give her a genuine laugh and entertain her. It's just a good movie, period.

Lurker01
Member

44 Posts
7/05
Posted - Dec 20 2005 : 2:56PM
I always say go retro...go 80s
Ginger On The Rocks is a can't miss

Lurker #1

Loraine
Senior Member

1559 Posts
3/04
Posted - Dec 20 2005 : 6:08PM
Welcome centerpin2005 - there's a whole bunch of suggestions over here

"Facade" is very watchable.

Freddy and Eddy do reviews from the perspective of a couple, you might find them helpful too.

Comstock's Xana and Dax:When Opposites Atrract is a very nice film if you'd like to see real people making love.

Edited by - Loraine on 12/20/2005 6:16:24 PM

CG_Gurl80
Member

Sexy Bitches
486 Posts
1/05
Posted - Dec 20 2005 : 6:13PM
Just be sure to stay away from "Cum Filled Asshole Overload" and "Weapons of Ass Destruction." The title says it all!
 
UNCGrad
Member

13 Posts
12/05
Posted - Dec 20 2005 : 6:21PM
It's the Overload part that makes it unsuitable. Remove that word from the title, and it's perfectly romantic :)
AnnaMay
Member

All hail the finger monkey!
18 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 21 2005 : 1:11PM
Depending on how prudish your wife is you might just want to try some of the softcore stuff that they show late night on HBO or Showtime or Skinimax--it's a nice way to ease into it. My boyfriend and I just recently saw Spiderbabe on showtime--it was kind of funny and silly, but might be the kind of thing you are looking for.
Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 21 2005 : 3:14PM
I suggest you share your own knowledge of porn with your wife. Describe the difference between features and gonzo. Describe the wide spectrum of physical acts you find in porn, and ask her what she might like to try watching. Be sure she knows that you're not going to judge her harshly for her likes or dislikes, and that you don't expect her to do anything she might see in one of the DVDs (particularly if anybody brandishes a speculum).

Mr. P and I went through this experience. I needed his help in navigating the adult stores and the internet, because both are just a mess. There's so much product out there, it's easy for a somebody to get lost, and to get scared away. I discovered something unexpected during my exploration. I dislike most Couples fare, and I really like a lot of the rougher gonzo stuff. My husband would never have picked that out for me. I just happened to like one of the DVDs he already had.

My best advice is to offer to be a resource for her, and to actually obtain the product for her. Also share all your wisdom about porn in general with her, and support her when she finds what likes.




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