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| ziniaraya Member London 194 Posts 4/03 |  Posted - Jul 23 2006 : 5:41PMImagine someone you've only recently met has come round your place for dinner. You know it's a sure thing that going to fuck her but want to spice it up a bit first. I need some new ideas - something for the period between between coming in through the door with all ur clothes on, and the foreplay bit with all ur clothes off. Assume ur looking forward to the teasy games bit as much as the sex bit. You can get the sex bit anywhere - you can't always get a girl who will be up for all the extra bits. Maybe the role playing thing like Pagoda refers to. I could give that a go with a bit of direction. Preferably something without guns in it. I don't need to shoot my date in the excitement. Z.
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| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Jul 23 2006 : 5:50PM [Link] |
| croy Platinum Member Discovry 4574 Posts 3/04 | Posted - Jul 23 2006 : 10:13PM Assuming that neither is a virgin and both are adults, I think all the cues of eye contact, physical contact, and things like eye dialation & body heat (sounds so erotic, right?) will pretty much give away the fact that the little teasy things like games isn't needed. It isn't like a woman doesn't know where you intend for that to lead anyways. [Link] |
| gia jordan Member 670 Posts 9/04 | Posted - Jul 23 2006 : 10:26PM Edited by - gia jordan on 7/23/2006 10:28:39 PM [Link] |
jayo  All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Jul 23 2006 : 11:51PM Great way to get rid of pesky guests, too. I have a lot fewer "drop-in" visits now, especially from the relatives. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 11:31AM [Link] |
| ziniaraya Member London 194 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 3:27PM [Link] |
| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 4:21PM And you know, while dinner's simmering or grilling or roasting or whatever, why not play a board game or something? Get out the Twister mat. You can work up an appetite, have a few laughs, and get in a few gropes while you're at it. Really, don't think too much. Keep it light and fun, keep it informal, and she'll want to come back. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 4:59PM If you overload it too much, it's like it's your only shot at it, and you're not expecting her to be back for more. Take the pressure off yourself and off her. [Link] |
| Drop a load Senior Member My leg hurts 1098 Posts 11/05 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 5:31PM [Link] |
| ziniaraya Member London 194 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 6:29PM I agree that these are great in principle, but as a combination I don't think I can take many of this selection forward. Some dancin's cool, but I don't have pool and twister (which I used to love) is out due to injury. I agree with the kitchen part, but not it's not a big focus on this occasion. Nope; this is no pressure sleaze guys. What I need is some new broadminded horny ideas ! Z. [Link] |
| croy Platinum Member Discovry 4574 Posts 3/04 | Posted - Jul 24 2006 : 10:11PM You know, put the two together and if she has cold, calmy skin she isn't interested (and probably looking for a way out).  But, as I said, she will give away when you shold take it further. You know when you can smell her perfume or shampoo more? That is her body temp going up. Shallower breathing, dialated eyes - either she is turned on and wondering when you will do something or there is a medical concern. I really don't know what to say except let things flow. The cues will be there. Is she doing the hair fling? Leaning in and making unneccesary contact? Laughing at the worst jokes? These are pretty much flashing neon signs. [Link] |
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