i like the dopamine fix that comes along with watching a pov porn scene for the first time. When the girl sits on the dick or bends over, thats the part i want to see, the penetration doesnt have the surprise factor that im looking for and i dont care about the cumshot. i just want to see the the girls curves, i think thats what sets off the dopamine release.
I enjoy watch beautiful women getting fucked. The scene of a fat cock pounding a beautiful pussy is enjoying to watch. The sounds of a woman moaning gets me off. Also I like seeing a woman's look when she sees a big dick, they give a look of cock worshipping and a intimidating submissive look.
Tough question. For me, there are two reasons. First is the obvious one - I like watching models with a particular look in hot sex scenes. I guess I can't really explain why that is, but then every other human being with testicles likely feels the same way. Being horny and driven to reproduce is part of our DNA.
The second reason I enjoy porn is because I really like the act of collecting it. I'm not the kind pf person who would be happy just going to a tube site for five minutes to relieve some pressure. I like following models, studios and genres. I like discovering new models and joining sites to find more scenes. I like discovering new genres and sites that I previously didn't know existed or that I had an interest in. For example, I started collecting porn in the early 1990s and there are still scenes in my collection from then. Also, I never knew I had an interest in BDSM until I joined Kink a long time ago. It isn't something I watch regularly, but it's part of my collection when I'm in the mood.
Something else I enjoy is spending time cataloguing my collection. I keep a list of sites and movies (with stars listed too) that now runs to almost 400 pages long. I keep a separate list of favourite scenes that fall into specific niches that I like. That list of nearly 80 pages now. I also take the time to back up my collection monthly by adding the new scenes I download each month, and adding them to my lists too. My collection, not including backups, is now over 60 TB.
I realize that this is a bit off topic for what you wanted, but for me, watching porn is only part of it. Collecting it and managing my collection is a big part of it too. I suspect that given the membership here at ADT that I'm not alone in this.
Hi well for me porn is something very intimate and also my favorite way for entertainment, I almost just watch lesbian porn (and sometimes Blacked) and I love they way women look, they are beautiful and radiant and powerful, I also like the plots (if there is one) I get really involved into them, I recently watched a movie called "Written in the stars" from All her luv and well I just couldn't kept my eyes away, I genuinely wanted to know the end of the story, I love masturbating to porn because it makes me feel good and it is very fun also.
Appreciating, celebrating and understanding beauty of women. This beauty can be reflected their personality, their choices, looks, performance, belief etc etc Especially when they are spontaneous they are very authentic and you get a glimpse inside the person. Healthy women crave sex and I like them getting what they want.
I agree with rearadmiral, the greatest joy I get out of porn is discovery and collecting, especially old movies I missed out on, when I discover a scene, or a hot model from the past in a video that's gone out of production years ago, I put tremendous effort to try to find what or where that DVD is from, or what movie that is, if I manage to locate one, it's the greatest joy ever! There's great anxiety waiting for the movie to arrive in the mail, collecting is the thrill I get out of porn, I don't even look at the movie in it's entirety sometimes, just having it is all that matters, of course I'm talking real hard copies you can hold in your hands, just downloading doesn't do it, streaming doesn't cut it, if I find an old movie somewhere on a tube site that interest me, I'll go to the ends of the earth to find it, and if I'm successful, and it arrives in the mail, it's absolutely the greatest feeling in the world!
For me it's transference (not really the right word). Putting myself in the male talent's position. What I could and would do with the female talent. Probably why I don't get most of porn today. Not stuff I would want to do.
What your saying is something I've theorized for a long time, there's two types of porn viewers, those who like to imagine their part of the action, and those who are passive like myself, I wan't to be the fly on the wall, don't want to be noticed, don't want the models to look at the camera, hence myself, but you on the other hand probably don't mind if the model looks at the camera, because in your mind you are in the film, don't think I'm being critical at all, totally appreciate your way of thinking, it's a fascinating subject, I believe men who watch lesbian porn tend to be the more passive viewer, to where as men who watch hetero porn are more interactive, they imagine themselves as the guy who's banging the gal, am I making any sense? I wonder if a lesbian who watches lesbian porn is interactive, put's herself in the scene?
Simply put: because I love women. I prefer solo masturbation or girl/girl. Don't care too much about todays obsession with big dick and 30min robotic pumping. Vintage b/g porn is good though cause it's more authentic. I'm obsessed with women and obviously would like massive reverse gangbang with all of them but that stuff only happens in the fantasy porn world. Which is why I like porn.
I think men who watches lesbian porn are not as selfish and more imaginative. We like other stuff like kissing, licking, feeling. B/g gonzo porn is for shallow men.
Ain't it fascinating how some people always manage to drag down a previously friendly conversation by declaring their view to be superior whereas the other view is shallow and selfish.
"Pornography: That which excites, whether from approval or disapproval." ~ Leonard Rossite 2342 Posts 12/17
Posted - Nov 27 2023 : 11:07PM
There's a surprising number of reasons why I enjoy porn besides the typical. I started off watching what they call Pro-Am stuff with Randy West and Ed Powers which kind of was like a visual handbook for me on how to be good at sex. I realize that sounds cliche but it's the truth. I did theatre camps for twelve years and I'm what you would call an escape artist. By that I mean, I don't just watch TV shows and movies - I experience them by watching everything that transpires, listening to everything that is said and feeling the emotions like they are my own. I experience story driven porn scenes the same way which is why when I came across Sweetheart Video's Lesbian Truth or Dare series, that pretty much got me hooked on the G/G genre as opposed to the amateur/gonzo B/G stuff I had been watching up to that point in time. I love the female body and the female orgasm is like the ultimate magic trick that never gets old. The feral the groans and moans, the more explosive the symphony of sounds of pleasure coming from her mouth - that gets me blowing my load every time. What sets my favorite performers apart from the rest is the authenticity and the connection, I find that especially evident in G/G scenes. I've seen B/G scenes where there's just a mechanical pounding taking place and you can tell she just is waiting for the scene to come to an end rather than having the time of her life. That doesn't work in G/G scenes and that is why the good ones are always wonderful gems. I would also say that some performers can make almost anything plausible and I'll give a perfect example: Going Bonkers with Kenna James and Bree Daniels was the first scene that introduced me to Kenna. While you could easily say the premise is silly and shaky, they make it believable and super hot to watch. That's what I love, if you can take the most ludicrous setup in a vignette or feature film and make it a steamy feast for the senses - you are unquestionably elite.
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Posted - Nov 28 2023 : 12:06AM
Have you ever tried to convince two women to have sex while you watch outside the context of porn?
I think it's great that you asked the basic question. From time to time, we all need to return to the basic principle of what it is we like and love.
I believe I was born horny. Women's bodies have always fascinated me, to the extent that my grade school teachers would confer with my mother about their feeling I was ogling them. In the movies, when I'd watch a particularly lovely actress being sexy, my mind would turn to thoughts like this: Is she truly loving the act of kissing the actor? When she enters the scene, looks at the guy, and changes her posture and her tone of voice (case in point, Bacall for Bogart), is that all an act or is she really feeling it? I didn't grow up in a household with loving parents, so I was looking for examples of affection. And in the real world, my friends, they're harder to find than you think. Love, despite what the song says, is not everywhere.
Porn for me is about seeing women's bodies being worshipped, adored, and enraptured, even (and often especially) if just by themselves. If there are no men whatsoever in the scene, I'm perfectly fine. A room full of sixty women and no men turns me on. But a scene with a decent enough guy and a single, captivating woman turns me on. Women's orgasms are beautiful. As you might expect, with me coming from that frame of mind, women being abused or desecrated makes me way more angry than happy. So there's a filter for me that screens out content where the women are subjected to anything less than appreciation.
To this day, I don't quite get why we tend to end the scene with the man's orgasm, as if that were the event we were waiting for. If he gets off, okay. But what about the girl? She was just about to cum, and he pulls out so he can cum on her face? Not fair.
rearadmiral and I share a similar hobby: We collect what we like, and we cultivate our tastes because we can. In the '80s, we got off on whatever glimpses of breasts or butt-cracks came our way; today, we have the space and time to be connoisseurs. Watching porn for us isn't a release, like going to the john. It's finding and keeping the artists we adore, just as we do with music or poetry or cinema. Myself, I'm not so much about studios or genres as about the women, whom I consider artists. As with any other art form, there are particular artists who capture my imagination and my heart. And like a music collector, I put all the scenes on playlists, and watch and listen to the masters at work.
To that point, I will say that there was a time on this planet when there were "dirty movies." Then God brought forth Christy Canyon and then there was porn. The world changed for me when I discovered someone that beautiful could be out there having orgasms. I looked a women from a very different lens, from that point forward.
Now, do I imagine myself in place of the guy in the scene? Not really. I do imagine what the actress' body feels like, how she would be to touch, to caress, to kiss, to hold. That's all part of it. And yeah, I couldn't do that exactly as a fly on the wall. I could do that as the photographer, and I'd happily take that job. Sure, I want to fuck these women. What an honor that would be. When I first saw Christy in that three-way with Gail Force and Marc Wallice in "Like a Virgin," hell yeah, I dreamt of kicking Marc to the curb and taking over that scene for months, years afterward. But as I observe the sex act, I'm perfectly fine watching the man do his part, when he's doing it right.
All that high-minded stuff having been said, I must admit to having always been something of a pygophilist (a word I ripped off of Tom Byron's Twitter profile). Butts are beautiful. What's more, there's so much variety. Like roses, no two are the same. There is not "the perfect ass," with all due respect to girls who've held the title "Buttwoman." But there is perfection in women's asses, and I could adore them interminably. I never get tired of staring at butts. And anyone who would assess my collection, would come to that conclusion quite readily.
Time for me to cede the floor to someone else who loves porn.
"Pornography: That which excites, whether from approval or disapproval." ~ Leonard Rossite 2342 Posts 12/17
Posted - Dec 9 2023 : 12:11PM
I didn't really think about this until recently but one thing I love about porn especially with the internet is that there's an audience for everyone: you can be a BBW, super BBW, lightweight spinner, MILF, tattoo free like Casey Calvert or covered in them and you're still going to be someone's perfect fantasy. That's a far cry from what every fashion magazine has been selling the general population where if you're not a size 0 or a size 4, you are somehow anything but attractive. Admittedly I love watching women rock their sexuality without shame in a culture that typically favors men doing that and shaming women for it. Why should we have all the fun? What sets some performers as being elite and future legends is the ability to work with anyone and turn almost any scene into a work of pornographic art. Casey Calvert, Angela White, Cherie DeVille, Alexis Fawx, Kenna James, Abella Danger and Penny Pax are some of the best examples of this. Same with Cadence Lux - you can put her with just about anything performer, male or female and I'm going to be watching the way a wolf watches you handle a piece of meat. I have a real weakness for scenes that feel organically illicit, the Taboo series with Kay Parker comes to mind. There is something about those movies that is so illicit, so forbidden, so naughty that it's almost impossible not to get rock hard in response. Same with a variety of other scenes I enjoy; I also love the dynamics of power whether it's one person getting someone else to put out reluctantly until they lose control or if it's the old trick of someone setting a situation up and picking that ideal moment to turn the tables on the other person with an unexpected twist. Fortunately, thanks to MissaX and PureTaboo - psychological porn is becoming the new standard which I love because as ridiculous as it sounds to say this - it's not women whose minds are the biggest sex organ. That can apply to men too, if you can stimulate my mind . . . rest assured my body will follow.
I also adore watching performers who can instantly connect in scene after scene - Cadence Lux and Kenna James are a great example of this, same with Ivy Wolfe and Scarlett Sage. Put them in 3-4 scenes with different vignettes and you'll going to get an awesome performance that won't leave you soft or dry for that matter. I should also add that the troublemaker smile that a variety of performers have perfected in this industry always makes my insides turn to jelly.
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Posted - Dec 9 2023 : 2:50PM
I'm addicted to sex and it provides an outlet which has allowed me to stay happily married for 30 years without cheating on my wife even once. And no, I'm not one who watches porn for hours at a time - just enough to get a release when I need an outlet and my wife isn't in the mood. I guess I'm hard-wired as a bit of a voyeur - I need something visual to get a release.
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I can watch hours of hot naked bodies. I'm kinda autistic with social anxiety so porn suits me well. I can perv on a pussy tits and ass and appreciate the little details without putting myself in cringy situations. Wish I had a contact list of the hottest girls around and I could call them just for a sex date and they'd be like "ohh yes, let's go".
Let me tell you, Whyspers2Scorpio, you've hit this right on the nose. The fashion industry promotes what it presents as an "ideal" body style. People starve themselves for the feeling of achieving that ideal, and even then they're told they fall short of it. Porn is popularly depicted as an industry that illicitly conspires to do what the fashion industry has actually done for decades, and what the mainstream cinema industry is more guilty of doing than anyone: forcing its actors to sacrifice their integrity, using systematic degradation and even personal assault as their weapons. Harvey Weinstein is a worse man than any pornographer I know.
When porn is done right (and it isn't always, but I can be idealistic too) it celebrates the beauty of bodies doing what nature has equipped them to do, and what the people in those bodies enjoy doing most. At its best, it upholds the variety of the actors and the uniqueness of the individuals. Women are beautiful, and naked women having orgasms are captivating. That's why I never get tired of watching women fucking. If they all looked alike and had identical personalities, maybe I would. But they don't, and good porn never pretends that they do.
That's a damn good question, I read all the previous posts and my thoughts were all "meh kinda" I started with sneaking to watch the playboy channel back in the day because my dad had a descrambler and if went from ooh this is naughty I need the bathroom, to god she's incredible, to I can never have lesbian sex so this is the most amazing thing alive and I can get some education oh this isn't what real lesbians are like that makes no sense so back to this, to god I'm lonely, to I want to do this as a career to I'm gross now and will never be able to get back into the industry, to this stuff is too underrated and it's hilarious that it's so offensive so I'm going to add it to my collecting addiction, to wow she's that hot and her dick is bigger than mine? I've gotta see her dominate some dudes and women, then some other veins
But mostly I think it all evolved into I just really love seeing and hearing women in euphoria, especially hearing if I'm in a hotel or apartment and I can hear a woman getting off through the wall, idc if I have all the money waiting I'm slapping my ear against the wall and going to town. Then back to the education part now that spit/ drool is becoming a thing I always used to wonder why I was so obsessed with girls kissing and I struggled in the bedroom (or similar) then I realized I have a female (do I just stick with female or do I say feminine? I'm not a fan of pretty boys mouth but Trans I am) mouth fetish lips, tongue, spit, drool and I realized I can't preform because no kissing is happening and not just as a fetish, my subconscious takes it as a way of getting an actual yes and they are actually interested
For me, it's mostly about seeing breathtakingly gorgeous women in the nude and having sex. It's about getting to see their smoking hot bodies in full display (which is why I dislike pornos with bad lighting). It's also about finding out more about them as personalities (their voices, the way they talk, their acting).
First of all, Wild Billy, about your avatar: Is that Brooke Wylde? Talk about Charismatically Beautiful Woman. Day-umm!
Jhonko87 mentioned good lighting. It's been said that performance sex can't be realistic because, after all, who in the real world has sex with the lights turned on full-blast? That's the thing, though: Sex in the dark is so 19th century! I want to see the girl's wetness, the swell of her clitoris, the beads of sweat, the folds of her vulva, the nape of her neck, the smudges on her lips, her matted hair, the drool on her chin, the strands of saliva running from her tongue to her areola. In the dark, all that's missing. Directors try for the film noir look, which is great for film noir. But it's not great for porn. I'm not here to see sex that's implied, that requires the imagination - my imagination is vivid enough, thank you, and if I have to use that, I'll just pay myself then. I'm here for the sex that's happening, for the camera to take the place of my face. So leave the ding-dang lights on, people!
Thank you, Billy, you've inspired me! Since your avatar commemorates the charismatic beauty of the inimitable Brooke Wylde, I shall use mine to commemorate the convergence of Lena Paul and the shower. Two things for which the Planet Earth was created, and I forget if there was a third one.
By the way, talking about reasons why we enjoy porn, I see on another thread here that you have exquisite taste in women: Octavia Red, Brooke Lee Adams (so effortless, so comfortable), Payton Preslee, Kagney Linn Karter. I have not yet seen Hailey Rose, though I shall. Folks, at what other time in history would it be possible for human beings to enjoy the naked bodies of one of these wonderful people, let alone all five? That's what I like about porn: all the magnificent, differentiated, unique, wonderful women!
Two things. 1) Lesbian porn. Love watching beautiful women, the softness of their skin and lips. A closeup of a woman's mouth tightly wrapped around and sucking a juicy pussy and clit is hard to beat.
2) to turn myself and my partner on. She is very submissive in bed, loves to be taken while pinned down; standing and pinned to a wall, the shower glass, belly down prone-bone pinned to the bed, etc. We watch these kind of scenes to get our desires going. I actually started a thread asking for recommendations but it didn't get much traction. Maybe some of you fine folk might help ? :). The idea is to find deeply submissive women but not the overly aggressive beat-her-up porn that exists down there. Basically something to turn us on. Bondage and blindfolds are ok as long as it's not the aggressive type of bondage (for example, she loves thigh restraints so she can't close her legs when being teased/cumming)
For me, it's also about the collection itself. I have acquired and compiled movies and scenes for about thirty years. I get quite a bit of enjoyment out of editing scenes into various collections that I then catalogue into an extensive database that I can then refer to when I want to re watch a particular scene. I have discovered a great many favorite actresses over the years quite accidentally by seeing them in movies that I collected initially for another actress. The database helps me to find those scenes again. My Internet Adult Film Database catalogue (copied, pasted and reformatted) runs 4150 pages. My current scene database has 7675 entries. Some of these scenes I've never really watched. Many of these scenes I may never see again. It's mostly about the having and the keeping. As far as the actresses, I have had a great number of favorites over the years and they fall into every conceivable 'type'. One of the greatest things about porn is the ability to never limit yourself to any one particular girl or even type of girl. Variety!
That sounds fun, Behmer. It's not crazy at all to cultivate a collection of any and all media that plays to your tastes and interests. With rearadmiral (correct me if I'm wrong, sir), there's a particular look he's going for, a certain formula that he may only partly understand, but he's got certain equipment that's very responsive to that look, and he trusts it well enough. So he cultivates his collection around scenes where the performers have that look, or that play to the niche responds to that specific itch he'd like to scratch, then he catalogues that collection by genre, studio, and performer.
With me, it's the girl. If you're old enough to remember "variety shows" on television, you remember hour-long or 90-minute "extravaganzas" that would begin with known names like Steve & Eydie, then there'd be some young guy who sang off-key, then some stupid band, then someone else, then Linda Ronstadt, then some god-awful ventriloquist act. . . and you'd long for the invention of the VCR so you could just record Linda and have her. And then maybe have a single tape with Just Linda, if you were ingenious enough to poke "Record" at just the right times.
A few decades ago when Avy Scott first started appearing in mainstream productions (I wasn't into camgirls, where she had been an early pioneer, so I hadn't discovered her earlier work), her movies had these inane plots and starred all these other women, most of whom were immediately forgettable. There was Avy and "Other." Avy was the Linda Ronstadt of her day and her medium - the girl whose performance level was six or seven levels above her co-stars. So I started my collection using scripts that could "trim" the digital copies of DVDs (you can't really do this with Blu-rays), so I could launch with just the Avy action and skip all the other crap.
Just like music aficionados who collect particular performers or selected composers/songwriters, but listen to all music regardless, I like to have porn on in the background ("ooh, she has a lovely pussy") but if I'm getting into it, I want to see particular girls. Avy Scott is timeless just like Linda Ronstadt is timeless. Or maybe I'm in the mood for Jayden Jaymes, or Imani Rose, or Brooke Wylde. You can find DVDs that compile such girls' greatest scenes, but then you're paying a second time for scenes you've already purchased once. Why not build playlists around the girls who make certain sensitive equipment of yours jump off the dial? Then your "variety" can come from mixing up just those girls.
My only use for tube sites is, on occasion, to help me find the sources of other scenes with a girl I've discovered. Tube sites today are like the first pre-Napster MP3 sites on the Web. They had hours upon hours of every imaginable form of music on lists with made-up categories ("Loud music," "soft music," etc.), and maybe you'd find a gem, but it was like rummaging through other people's closets. It's only when you can begin cultivating playlists of your own, or when services like Pandora could help you discover your own tastes, that digital music online finally found its purpose. Tube sites are constantly pushing crap at you, like the variety show of your worst nightmare. They're not fun. And when some folks here say, "You know, I'm not really much into porn these days like I used to be," I think that may be the reason. They don't help you discover your own tastes, whether it's a niche genre, or a certain look, or performers who are six or seven steps above the others. Maybe I'm old-fashioned, or maybe I'm just old. But I enjoy discovering quality, and then cultivating it.
It's changed for me over the decades. When I was younger, it was pretty straightforward, I liked jerking off to porn. This started with magazines, moved on to movies, then to live strippers, etc. Even at the time, I was aware drawn to the fact that the performers were doing something at the margins of societal-acceptance, and over time I have become more interested in this aspect. I admire the performers for their decision to shoot porn despite societal norms, and I am also gladdened that since the rise of the internet it's becoming more and more acceptable.
My reasons for (and ways of) viewing porn have evolved over the decades as well - from the raw teenage lust that led me to seek anything at adult bookstores and movie theaters in the 70's to my present day hobby of obsessing over select porn stars via the internet.
Posted - Sep 25 2023 : 3:17PM
