I like getting blowjobs, matter of fact that's the main reason I got into porn, I wanted to get my dick sucked daily...or at least weekly. But I have an confession: I get a little subconscious when the girl is sucking my dick and looking at me. I don't know why, but I start to feel a little weird. Am the only one who feels this way? What the fuck am I to do now that I've confessed it? I like when she's so focused on sucking my dick she never looks at me...ok maybe once or twice, but don't stare at me...after all these years I still don't know how to react to that. I'll be fine either way, I'll just stare back, but I don't want to I rather enjoy the blowjob and lose myself in the experience...I like it that much.
Damn you Marcus, quit rubbing it in! All kidding aside, I completely agree with you bro. I know you've had some of the hottest mouths on the planet but a great blowjob is definitely one of the most pleasurable experiences a man can have. There have been times that I've enjoyed them more than actual sex! The Great Almighty knew what he was doing when he created women and the amazing things they can do with their bodies.
I have to agree there man. I would rather a girl not stare at me as well. Though I wouldn't mind if she did. I prefer a girl to be infatuated with my dick and just so into it I barely exsist. I had a girl talk to my dick like it was an actual person when giving me a hj/bj. That was one of the hottest things I have ever had a girl do. She was so into it that it made the feeling and the atmosphere that much more incredible. Some girls just have the personality and the creativity to give amazing bjs. *****The Dr. of Nasty*****
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Posted - Jan 23 2010 : 2:20AM
My gf likes to be off a bit to the side, the angle is better for her, so she's never really looking at me at all. Edited by - BlackSix on 1/23/2010 2:21:36 AM
I find it hot when the girl is focused on my dick. That she WANTS it so much that's all thats on her mind. However, if we're playing a d/s deal then i like it when she looks me in the eye, helps with the dom side in my eyes anyway. ----Dread----
What bothers me is when a porn star is giving a blow job and she looks right at the camera. That never works for me. The only time anyone should be looking at the camera is in a POV scene or a solo scene. (One in particular was with Trinity Loren from the movie Anal Analysis, where she sucks on a vibrator and says to the viewer--who presumably is male--"Don't you wish this was your cock?") When it comes to blowjob scenes, the woman should either look up at the man she's blowing, or keep her eyes closed as though she's concentrating on the pleasure she's giving--and receiving. For myself, I prefer she keep her eyes closed--so I can better pretend that she's hypnotized. __________________________________________________________
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Posted - Jan 23 2010 : 9:33AM
Since my eyes aren't always on her when she's sucking my dick, it doesn't matter that much, although I'd like for her to get into what she's doing and objectify my cock, which would put her gaze on it and not my face. When I talk to her, she should be looking at me. One of the things I love about porn is the orally fixated, sloppy, crazy ass bj's. One of the few instances where I don't feel uncomfortable about using porn as a hint of what I'd like my gf to emulate in some fashion.
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Posted - Jan 23 2010 : 10:00AM
I think you mean self-conscious. But I get where you're coming from, even if I can't really identify with you, lucky bastard. This also reminds me of a joke by the late Bernie Mac, seen here at [ invalid url ] On the occasions that I have been fortunate enough to receive, as Bernie Mac says, "special attention," I'm always just too happy to be getting it that it doesn't matter to me where she looks. Now that I think about it, I usually have my eyes closed anyway because I'm too caught up in enjoying it. So it doesn't matter to me either way. But when I'm watching it in porn, I do like it better when the girl has her eyes wide open and is either looking at his dick, or up at his face. I hate it when she's looking directly into the camera. Edited by - realtip on 1/23/2010 10:07:27 AM
I kinda like it and sometimes I'll take a photo with my camera.
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Posted - Jan 23 2010 : 2:08PM
Look me in the eye... talk a little dirty to me... Make me believe you really love sucking that cock, even if it isn't true.... In real life, or in porn
MrMarcus,you are now going to have to bring out a pov line with the girls being blindfolded(with velvet ties)as they perform oral on you and maybe call it Chocolate and Velvet..smooth irresistible and creamy. I know what you mean when you say that you feel kinda awkward when the girl stares at you as she performs oral on you as it's almost like you must respond verbally,if nothing is said does the girl take this as a negative reaction from guys.The best bet is to get yourself a paper and hold it up,maybe cut 2 holes in it so you can peek at her and whisper "I know what your doing baby" lol. Anyway MrMarcus it's a great "problem" to have,
I have not had as many bj's as you, but I have had esnough and I agree that is uncomfortbale. I dont know what to do soemtimes, its only a few seconds, but it seems longer. Just going to be one of those little awakrd things for you, but it could be worse:)
I'm gonna try the paper with the 2 holes in it, tomorrow. And I don't know if I can whisper "I know what your doing baby" with a straight face...but I'll try.
I don't think Mr. Marcus is a producer yet, but when he is (ala Lex Steele) I am sure he will make that Chocolate and Velvet line, Stinkfist. I have one suggestion for that line -- tie the woman's hands behind her (leather handcuffs work well), blindfold her and then lead her mouth to your cock. Then thrust your cock into her mouth and start fucking it. Then lay her on the bed and start fucking her cunt and then her ass until you cum. If the woman is Kimi Lixx or Angel Vail, all the better! Edited by - mharris127 on 1/24/2010 5:55:21 AM
interesting to read about the inner workings of a pornstars mind when he's getting a blowjob. well. just to chip in. rather contraditory i too like it when a girl just sucks my dick without looking at me. in actual fact, i find when she closes her eyes and concentrates the sexiest. however in porn, i like it when the girl gives some good eye contact... i find that so sexy!
Guess I'm in the minority here. I love eye contact, since it suggests several things: 1) She's gauging my reaction to see what works and what doesn't. 2) She's fully aware that she's blowing me, and not just imagining it's some other dude's cock. 3) I'm less pressured and obligated to give vocal encouragement, since she can see my eyes rolling back.
I'm gonna try the paper with the 2 holes in it, tomorrow. And I don't know if I can whisper "I know what your doing baby" with a straight face...but I'll try.
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Lol,you could always tear another hole in the paper and poke your tongue through it and start making noises.
I sometimes think about it like this. I seem to be the "do-er". I am usually the aggressor. And when I am getting oral, its kind of a role reversal. I don't know to react. Also I very rarely finish w/ oral. I love it but its just not enough to get me over the top.
Mr Marcus I know what you mean, getting a blow job is the best thing in the world. I like all positions, and I do love it if the girl looks at me, and yes I do feel guilty, and lucky and hot at the same time. But my favorite position for a bj is the 69 when she is on top and I not only get a hot warm mouth over my dick, but I get one of the best views in the world. I wish there were more good 69s in porn. There's another hint for you if you become a director !
you know Marcus, the irony of this is that since I basically only do pov scenes, I have to have the girls looking at me the whole time. but then again, they really aren't since they're staring at the lens and Im looking at the little view screen to make sure everythings framed. where am I going w/this?? I guess the gal staring DIRECTLY at me everytime might throw me off too, who knows?? maybe my fat ass needs to put the camera down for a bit and have a go at doing regular scenes for a change and find out,...or not,lol. either way Marcus,just wanted to chime in for a few. until next time, keep ROCKING it. lates, Von S.
I've been married for many years, and I long for my wife to look me in the eyes, but she never does. I could ask her to, but it wouldn't have the same meaning if I had to ask her. But to be more specific, I love it when a girl is sucking you off and when she has to take her mouth off your cock to catch her breath, she gasps for air, pants, and looks you right in the eye, runs her tongue down your shaft for a quick breather, and then resumes sucking you off. I wish she would for the same reasons Anime Nut said. It's a confirmation that she's into it and me. Perhaps you don't like it because you don't have an emotional connection to the girls.
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Posted - Mar 9 2010 : 10:31AM
If you can't/won't communicate with your wife, your relationship is likely not going to last as long as you'd like it to... Saying "I want her to want to do it without having to tell her" is selfish and puts an unfair expectation on her. She's not psychic (no one is) and she only knows what you like because you tell her what you like.
Posted - Jan 23 2010 : 1:09AM
