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| sanchez_1960 Member 582 Posts 2/03 |  Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 6:46PMI've noticed something about myself. I find I get very offended when people talk about sex openly. Like at the bar with my friends or even on TV in talk shows. Usually its worse when I'm not getting any (with the obvious reasons). I don't know what it is, I'm a filthy fucker myself with all the porn i've got. Does anyone else find this or is it just me. Sometimes its so offensive that I actually find it can hurt my feelings. Usually if there is women talking about it its even worse. Now there must be some underlying mental problem, don't you think? Your thoughts would be great. Edited by - sanchez_1960 on Feb 18 2004 [Link] |
| nietzsche Deactivated User 5470 Posts 8/03 | Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 7:07PM [Link] |
| cobalt60 Knuckle Dragger 2046 Posts 2/03 | Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 7:25PM Or is it just the topic of sex in general? When you were a kid, did your parents talk openly, honestly, and unashamedly about sex with you? Or was the topic slightly taboo, whispered about, considered "private", maybe even dirty? [Link] |
| vincevega Member 131 Posts 11/02 | Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 8:50PM [Link] |
| DenverDon Benevolent Firmly Embedded in Depravity 5914 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 9:01PM However 'locker room' talk is usually bragging and far too often it degenerates into putting down the person that they are talking about. I don't appreciate the downgrading talk. DenverDon [Link] |
| kinetic rest Member ramble on 76 Posts 11/03 | Posted - Feb 18 2004 : 10:12PM hooking up with someone I want to hook up with... then I'd really prefer not to hear about it... I don't kiss and tell I'm fine as long as I'm gettin some Edited by - kintec rest on 2/19/2004 5:52:04 PM [Link] |
| Percy Walker Member 108 Posts 9/03 | Posted - Feb 21 2004 : 5:27AM I did buy "Sexual Anorexia" by Patrick Carnes and in the opening chapter he mentions feelings of embarrassment about openly discussing sex. In other words, you or I may be embarrassed to discuss sexual issues with our friends but we buy porn as a substitute. He says it is a way we deal with avoiding real sex. T.T. Boy brought this book up in one of the discussion groups and it looks interesting just from skimming it. Percy [Link] |
| F5 Member 234 Posts 8/03 | Posted - Feb 28 2004 : 4:44AM [Link] |
| Myload Senior Member A rose is what you are to me 2069 Posts 6/03 | Posted - Feb 28 2004 : 11:39AM [Link] |
| mookiemeister Super Cool Dude 181 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Feb 29 2004 : 7:20PM "The lover knows much more about absolute good and universal beauty than any logician or theologian, unless the latter, too, be lovers in disguise." - George Santayana "To do the useful thing, to say the courageous thing, to contemplate the beautiful thing: that is enough for one man's life.: - T.S. Eliot [Link] |
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