We have been engaged in anal sex for last two years and really love doing it. I have observed that we are engaging into it a bit too frequently. Roughly faring out at 6 times anal for each vaginal sex. Just wondering if we are developing something like anal sex addiction. I spoke to my girlfriend and she said its the orgasms which count and she gets them a lot more in quantity, quality and intensity which definitely makes it worth. What concerns me is that a few times I have had difficulty keeping wood while doing vaginal but can keep it hard like rock while doing anal.
I think people use the word addiction a bit too frequently. You need to tell your girlfriend that you are becoming desensitized and need a change. If she can't deal with that, she's not much of a girlfriend.
Yeah, I don't think a preference for a particular type of sex constitutes an addiction. At any rate, as you suggest, the obvious difference between the sensations of vaginal and anal sex is probably at the root of editorbb's problem. His brain expects X and isn't happy getting Y, instead. It should be easy enough to resolve, editorbb - just abstain from all sexual contact for however long it takes for your hormonal level to max out. At that point your brain won't give a damn how you go about relieving the pressure.
As long as you are both willing participants whats the problem. If your having trouble keeping it hard with vaginal sex maybe you just need to find the right position for maximum stimulation, mix it up until you find what works best for you.
No definitely not bragging but yeah we need to take a break to recover from desensitization. For next few weeks it going to be a lot of toy play up her butt while I will focus on the vaginal part only.
we took a short break..and now back to business as usual...do not feel desensitized anymore......gotta give it to arabian women for their bit bottoms and desire for anal...
New member here. This guy is complaining about too much anal? I've been with alot of women, and only had 3 try it and only 1 that could actually take it. I don't get to do it at all in my current relationship.
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Posted - Mar 21 2014 : 12:20PM
MARRY HER!!!!
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 21 2014 : 4:18PM
You lose your erection on vaginal.... your girlfriend wants anal far more than vaginal. So, you are a perfect match... anal anal and more anal. No problem here, but thanks for making us all wish for your "problem"
To the OP, Get it while the gettins good, She should be concerned about how ruined shes gunna be for other men in the future, But your really gunna be fucked when you break up and the next girl you date doesn't do anal.