Girls saving their first anal for later for extra hype are mistaken because nearly all the popular models who are now in their 20s made their anal debut very early in their career. Name anyone. Avery Christy. Emilly Willis. Liya Silver (debuted with anal).
A common myth was that people tend to loose interest if you do anal early in your career but that has been proven wrong as well, the interest has remained more or less the same, sometimes anticipation has actually even grown stronger.
I can see a girl waiting to work with some studios but if she is hold out simply because it is 'too early' then frankly she is missing out. The 'saving for later' thing has never been demonstrated to work and is just myth from 20 years back when a few well established women needed an excuse instead of having the courage to say they are too comfortable in their careers and couldn't care less to try out new things. Most of them never made good on promise anyway.
^I'm going to clue you in into a little secret. Doing anal porn is at best not very comfortable and likely quite painful. The vast majority of male performers have larger than normal dicks and too many of them use artificial means to get and retain an erection so they can fuck until the sun comes up without much of an hindrance. The women who do porn don't have magical abilities that make them impervious to pain and having a large object inserted into their rectum is likely painful. Now don't get me wrong. I'm willing to accept that a select few enjoy anal and for them it's no hardship but they are the exception. For the rest it's a question prepping and better at dealing with the sensation of having a guy piledriving his dick in their asses.
So if a woman chooses not to do anal when she first starts or ever then you should understand that no matter how you feel about it. It's not your ass who is going to get fucked and you need to deal with it.
I feel a lot of pornstars are pressured to do anal because if they didn't, it would limit their stardom. Maybe girl-girl too to a lesser extent. Girls who do fisting scenes are probably the girls that actually enjoy anal.
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Posted - May 25 2021 : 11:25PM
^^ it is a learning curve, like blowjobs, deepthroating etc. It should not be very surprising that someone who does not know how to write does not enjoy writing fiction (one is a requirement for the second to be feasible).
Also my post was not about girls reluctant to do it. I am all for choice. Choice it what makes some women cooler than others. My post was about women worrying about an anal debut early in their careers which is totally unjustified concern imo.
Whether a concern is justified to you is something I doubt preys on their minds.
Let's stop acting like everyone in this thread came down in the last shower - performers benefitting from doing x and y early in their career is secondary to you wishing to see them take it up the Hershey highway and get your rocks off. That's not to say it's sinister or harmful but your motives come across as... challenging when you criticize some performers for lacking courage or transparency when you do the same thing yourself. The notion that they're "missing out" sounds like the classic manipulative rhetoric putting a spin on something to seemingly benefit a third party when self-interest is the primary motivation.
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Posted - May 26 2021 : 11:41PM
Some women enjoy anal, some don't and some men know how to take their time and make it bearable. The biggest eye opener about anal is what a man work a woman's ass like he's compacting trash. Then watch a clip from a gay or trans scene and watch a man beg another man to slow down or not go so deep.
Female porn stars are troopers. You shouldn't do anal if it's not for you, but I'm only interested in women that do. I don't date women unless they do anal and I can tell you, I have zero problems dating, so it's just like most things in life, everyone isn't into it, so I suggest you focus on those who are.
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Posted - May 28 2021 : 1:41AM
And how is that going for her?
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Posted - May 28 2021 : 2:17AM
I mean I'm here in my capacity as a fan. Best I can do is sharing my interests with others' and all the better if and when they perfectly align with those of performer's.
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Posted - May 28 2021 : 2:46AM
Yeah but how do you it's your thing if you never tried it. I know a handful of names, some tried it in private and some on camera, who did not enjoy it like they expected. They were transparent about their experience which I can respect. It is the utter reluctnce inside with 'I'll do it perhaps later' that i find distasteful.
Side note : most women who do with Mike/ Trueanal say they love it (even privately) so it is a big factor what was their first experience like. Many young women have bad first experience with vaginal sex but don't give up on it, do they? Likewise with the right performer i see them surprised how good it was.
So yes try it, and try it early (preferrably on camera) to see if that's your thing. That's all I wish as a fan.
Fantastically! Riley was a top 10 girl for all those years she didn't do anal. She got a lot of attention when she decided to finally do anal and she got a career boost from it for a time but her career would've been just fine without it. Plenty of girls enjoy porn popularity without anal. The fans who are very into anal and mostly only watch anal scenes tend to think girls who don't do it might have a lesser career but most of them do just fine because not every person is obsessed with anal and realize that having anal doesn't automatically make a scene better. Then there's the fact that many girls who enter porn have a career plan that doesn't include doing everything the moment they start doing porn. Some fans hate it and want the girl to do everything from the start but most girls pace their career in order to get the most from it. Very few girls enter the biz doing everything from the start and the ones that do risk fan burn out quickly. Girls need to build their audience and popularity so there's a hunger from fans when she moves on to the next sex act and studios pay them more for it because it means something when the decide to do it and it's something special and not more business as usual.
Of course you will disagree but I tend to think the girls and their agents who are actually in the business usually know what they're doing.
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Posted - May 28 2021 : 7:36PM
I agree, it's up to a woman to try and I think they should. Some claim of how painful it is just doesn't apply to everyone. I know many women who find it enjoyable and prefer to vaginal sex.
I also know women who either hate it or refuse to try, so again, I respect you not liking anal, but only if you have tried it.
^ Only if one has tried it? So your "respect" doesn't even allow leeway for a performer who has trauma? It wasn't so long ago that a performer who was harassed over anal admitted on Twitter that she was anally raped before she got in the industry, which is why she doesn't do anal sex on camera (and presumably personally). I'm not sure a non-consensual act counts as having tried it.
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Posted - May 29 2021 : 1:07AM
Your position doesn't sway me, this is bigger than talent. Regular people aren't subject to twitter, and I don't call it trauma. You accept certain things in this industry and in my book, you can't say you don't like ANYTHING unless you tried it. You can say you don't want to do something, but you can't say you don't like it.
It's like people that complain about politics, but don't vote. Their opinion in my opinion isn't valid because they didn't back a candidate.
We all get asked questions we don't like, it's not traumatic. If you are a female talent, you are going to be asked about every sexual question under the sun. If they can't handle it, this industry isn't for them.
Don't open a restaurant if you don't want to be reviewed. Don't make a movies if you don't want it critiqued and don't become and athlete if you don't want to be armchair quarterbacked. I could go on, but you get it.
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Posted - May 29 2021 : 1:47AM
^^ Girls who have had trauma having sex shouldn't be in the business of having sex on camera in the first place.
^^ I wasn't referring to harassment Twitter as trauma but the performer having been raped.
By saying you don't like something, you have already demonstrated that you CAN say you don't like something by speaking, writing it down, performing it in sign language or some means of communicating. I don't see opinion being elevated over that matter of fact. Without trying something, one's stance may be less than fully informed but I won't disqualify their stance of not liking it.
I don't like racism and I don't like spousal abuse - are you seriously going to waste my time telling me I "can't" say I don't like such things because I haven't tried partaking in them or will you say "that's different"?
Dude, I hear ya! That's a cool attitude to have. These girls should have a more open mindset. I know I should have that frame of thinking...but I can't. I have to admire someone like you though because I'm sure you just don't have that mindset for others, surely you practice what you preach. How exciting and freeing a life you must lead. "How do you know you don't like something until you try it?" While most people are probably missing out on tons of fun and adventure because they've decided they don't like things they haven't tried, a guy like you is completely open and probably eager to try well hung males, girls with giant dildos, and perhaps a few fists give you a righteous plowing up the ol' backside. There are people who love that type of sex, so I have to love you're attitude of "don't know until you try it". I'd tend to think that 99% of the world's uptight narrow thinking would say they would never want a gang of guys and gals to unleash a strong steady stream of urine upon their face and open mouth, there are clearly people into that and it's free thing people like you willing to try it to see if they're missing out on a special type of fun. While others might cringe at the thought of a person swatting over their face and taking a huge dump, you're willing to give it a try because hey...you never know.
Posted - May 24 2021 : 2:50AM