^ I'm not a moderator here so don't take this is ADT policy, but I think the only sites that are prohibited from even being mentioned are the site that Mongol1 named and its affiliates. I recall that the reason for it is because the site owners are thin-skinned and couldn't deal with any criticism in the thread here and made legal threats against ADT. If that's who these people are, we're better off without them.
I don't think you risk getting deactivated by an innocent mention of those sites, but you may get a temporary suspension. As I said, I'm not a moderator so I have no inside information, but I suspect that a first innocent mention of that site would get the reference removed and a warning. I doubt that it would result in a suspension for the first mention.
Mentioning any of the sites owned/run by Mike Adriano seems to get some negative attention by the moderators too. I think that for whatever reason, those threads quickly devolve into negative comments and infighting and the moderators just don't have the time or inclination to babysit the threads so they close them. That's too bad for those of us who follow the rules since ADT is often a great source of information about new and upcoming scenes. But if those threads are impossible to moderate, then I can see why they get closed.
Not a big fan of milfs/older women porn so i dont have any list.
Others please check the following. Sarah Shevon device bondage scene with Matt Williams. As usual he is very rough and slaps her face really hard. In the post scene interview she says how her favorite part was when the scene was over clearly indicating how she hated it. Also check out Jade Harpers scene with Zane Walker, only time i guess her pretty face gets slapped.
Allora Ashlyn - woodman casting. One of the best scenes of woodman. Shes extremely pretty and submissive and swallows piss and cum. She gets slapped really hard throughout the scene and her face turns red from white by the end of it
Charlotte Sartre has done a ton of scenes for Assylum. My best ones are in one of her earlier scenes titled "Wasted Youth: Directors Cut" At the start of the scene she gets 3,4 proper hard slaps enough to knock out an amateur. Check out all her scenes for the site.