This isn't a trick question. It isn't a science study. There shouldn't be any searching for a PC answer necessary. All I'm asking is whether anyone feels that porn has helped change what they might look for in a perfect partner? Maybe you once thought you were into brunettes and then, after viewing a bunch of blonde porn bombshells, came to realize you dig blondes more. Maybe you were into thin women then got a look under the hood of a few more women and realized you prefer curves. Maybe a female out there thought that penis size didn't matter then saw what Rocco or Julian have been lugging around and had to rethink her philosophy of men. Are porn actresses/actors simply fantasies? Or, are some of their qualities translatable into our real world check list of what we want/need in a life partner?
I think watching porn makes men like a wider variety of women's looks. Because they get to see many women from a different point of view, than they would normally see. When the women are clothed more or less modestly, then it's the women with big boobs who stand out as being more sexually attractive. Because even modest clothing can't fully hide the woman's female shape. Modest clothing hides the female charms of most women. But these charms are revealed, when the woman is nude, as it happens in porn. Guys, who watch a lot of porn, eventually realize that many modestly-dressed women in their lives are probably very attractive without their clothing, because these women have similar bodies and looks to the women they've seen in porn.
Porn definitely expanded my horizons. I never really was into girls with a lot of piercings or tattoos now I think it's hot as hell. I think the variety that we get in porn is amazing, at the right companies, so you have to appreciate beauty of all different types
A great rock and roller made an extraordinary album once and there he sings about mythics and statistics and hard truths and the line "what you see is what you get" goes along within it. This is some pretty hardcore cowboy and roots CD, it even got a prize back in 1990 as a great soundtrack to a western. Maybe Charlie Sheen was in it. Well I pretty much like to get what I see more often than not, and that's a great thing about porngirls. The freedom to chose is by far underrated. The other way around there's too much time and effort not to mention the pain and the human slavery to live up to bullshit in the society and all those stakes and shit to come with the monogamy of it so that I have come to the conclusion that too much of it will just end up sucking me in and swallow me out and will put me in a deep shit I just by then won't be able to walk away from no more.
I found from my experience that going after the best-looking woman in the room often leads to an inferior experience. Because this woman gets so much attention from guys that she doesn't value her relationships with guys and often doesn't treat them well. Seeing isn't everything. Feeling is important too. The woman who makes you feel good is the one to be with, even if she isn't the best-looking woman in the room.
Porn has made me an ass man although i do feel i was always an ass man as way back in grade 3rd when i had never seen porn i had fallen in love with an girls pert butt!.But now i won't ever be able to marry a girl who doesn't have a huge butt irrespective of her personality or attitude even though attitude is probably more important than physical features yet i just can't help feel this way. You think its really gonna end badly for me chaps?
Real life has a funny way of re-arranging your priorities. If you meet the "right" woman, and everything clicks (or the important things click), you may find yourself saying the big butt is not so strict a requirement after all.
And for every attractive woman like that there's another one who has relationship problems not because of anything she's done, but because guys see her simply as a trophy. Generalizations are silly.
I think porn has helped me separate fantasy and reality expectations. It's helped me overtly understand what I think is sexually attractive, but that's it. In real life, I find myself interested in a wider variety of women's body types than I am with porn. With porn, I have a sharply defined interest and anything that falls outside it is ignored. In other words, I largely keep porn and real life separate.
The more choices a woman has in men, the more mistakes she can make. An attractive woman usually goes for the handsomest and the richest guy, who also attracts a lot of other women. Which is what often leads to relationship problems for her. Because such a guy often doesn't value his relationship with her. He can easily get another woman, if she leaves him. The most attractive guy is often the one who leads to most trouble for the woman. Because so many other women want him too, and this makes her interchangeable and disposable. Either a guy going after the most attractive woman or a woman going after the most attractive guy is what leads to a lot of relationship problems for both.
You need to stop dating teenagers. As I've noted time and time again, most women are primarily interested in confidence, because that is the best predictor of success in life. Being handsome doesn't offer a woman's offspring any protection, and having money isn't the same as being smart enough to make more, never mind keep what you've got. Furthermore, what makes a woman attractive to you or to me does not necessarily make her attractive to anybody else. Finally, I saw a program a while back where it came up that the most beautiful woman at a college married a blind man. He was good looking, but I wouldn't say he was an Adonis, nor was he particularly wealthy. However, he was smart, charming and obviously very confident in himself. How did a blind man know she was the most beautiful, you ask. Simple, every male at a party orientated himself in order to project his voice in her direction.
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Posted - May 25 2014 : 12:51PM
Asses in porn take way too much focus. Faces in porn should decompensate somehow. This is just a view among thousands.
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Blue Agave Deactivated User
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Posted - May 25 2014 : 3:46PM
I never understood the whole obsession with big butts (or anal sex for that matter). Porn has definitely been affirming in that regard.
Yes If I got a regular girlfriend (highly unlikeley at my age) her pussy shape would be one of my priorities. There are some types of pussy I don't like.
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Posted - May 25 2014 : 6:09PM
Porn has made me positively attracted to sluts, or rather the slutty look. Before Porn, I wasn't attracted to big earrings, long fake nails, piercings and tattoos. Now, it gets me rock hard.
Agreed, which is why I only said it was the best predictor. Unfortunately, there is no perfect one.
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Posted - May 25 2014 : 9:39PM
Yeah? Well, next time I'm at a party attended by one or more blind men, I'm going to set up an elaborate array of sound reflectors making it seem like every guy is focused on the homeliest girl in the room. That'll teach the blind to try and use their super hearing power to cock block the rest of us!
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Posted - Oct 3 2014 : 7:20PM
I'd say the biggest pact porn has had on my views of my 'perfect mate' is with regards to ethnicity. For years I had a vision of my ideal partner being a big-breasted Italian goddess with a long mane of raven black hair. However, the linger I've been watching porn the wider I find my horizons have grown and it has opened my eyes to loads more varieties of women that I can appreciate. As such, my ideal mate is now a Latina in the mould of Veronica Rodriguez or Isabella De Santos or Abella Anderson, or what I would call 'Caramel honeys' (thank you Mime Freak for the inspiration) in the mould of Anya Ivy or Jade Aspen or Cassidy Banks. I don't know what it's all about, but something about the natural beauty typically found in these ethnic groups of women sets them apart from all others.
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Posted - Oct 3 2014 : 9:32PM
Porn helped me realize that I cannot waste time on romantic/sexual relationships with people who are either unwilling or unable to dominate me in the bedroom. Porn also helped me to realize that women are just as capable (some people I know would argue more so) as men of filling that description, as is evidenced by the relationship I'm in now.
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Posted - May 20 2014 : 3:22PM
.But now i won't ever be able to marry a girl who doesn't have a huge butt irrespective of her personality or attitude even though attitude is probably more important than physical features yet i just can't help feel this way.
