I can remember 2 of the scenes but the first I will describe I think is fairly unique.

A couple was having sex (in the kitchen I believe). He was getting oral from a lady. The part that stands out in my mind is that during the oral part of the scene there was a flashback to one of those birds that dips back and forth and that she was "in step / rhythm" with the decorative bird toy (similar picture attached).

Another scene a guy was receiving oral in a car and while that was happening his or her friend came up to the car and talked for a few seconds through the car window before she went into the house.

The movie was before 1995... Most likely somewhere between 1980 and 1993... I had it on VHS back around 1993 if I remember correctly and was one of my first tapes.

Thanks in advance

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