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xDEFiLED
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 7:14AM
Guys that watch porn generally seem to have the idea that pornstars date "regular guys" in their everyday life, but i find that hard to believe. As a man who's bi, i know it can never really be the same with a medium sized guy compared to an XL sized guy, no matter how good his technique is.

An average penis in the US is 5 inches in length and 4,5 inches in circumference. Compare this with guys in porn, for example Danny D who is 8,5 inches in length and 6,5 inches in circumference.

When a pornstar gets used to these kind of sizes, i doubt they can ever really be pleasured by average or below average guys.

Sure, some women in porn probably prefers average guys, but i doubt they're anything else than a small minority.

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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 8:51AM
Do you doubt anything other than a small minority women in porn prefer average guys only because it wouldn't affirm your assumption?

There are a few videos on Youtube where porn actresses seem to be very candid and give a very varied answer whether size matters or not.

I'm curious how you think being bi makes you qualified to speak for a majority of women.

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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 9:04AM
Guys like Danny D or Chris Diamond are rather the exception. Most pro male performer are average or sometimes below average.
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 11:08AM
What pirate and classic said...

But also, even if you're right and "average" guys cant pleasure pornstars, there's more female pornstars than male pornstars so some of them naturally have to settle for "average" guys. And this is assuming size is all that matters...

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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 11:18AM
First of all, sex happens in the brain. The rest is just mechanics.

Second, I would say that the percentage of size queens is pretty low. Being a 'porn star' doesn't change that.

Finally, if sex is the only reason you are dating somebody then I've got no sympathy for you.

 
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 1:18PM
I don't think I'm going too far out on a limb here to point out that sex is so much better with someone you have an emotional connection with. One-night-stands and the occasional visit to an escort certainly feel great physically but it doesn't compare to adding in an emotional connection. I suspect that's the draw for most women, porn stars included. Also, I understand that the majority of nerve endings in the vagina are in the first four or five inches anyway. Finally, I'm slightly larger than average at a little over 7" and I regularly find that women I'm with have to avoid certain positions because I'm causing some discomfort.

But I think the better answer is simply 'love.'

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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 2:58PM
What a stupid fucking post. Pierre Woodman has a tiny penis and yet he is of the best performers. He makes them scream with a combination of pleasure and pain.
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 3:12PM
^5 posts in and you are already saying "stupid fucking post"!!!

Your future here might be brief.

As for Woodman making them scream.....I might suggest his wallet is making them scream.

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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 3:48PM
Same here, I can confirm that, I can't even go full deep sometimes but then again I'd be there for my pleasure and it would seem I get harder than most porn performers , probably because I don't have to perform standards in every possible position , I only seek pleasure hers and mine
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 3:53PM
Have you ever heard of LOVE?
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 5:38PM
You mean that they're sometimes in unbearable pain and tears because of his money?
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 6:18PM
^It's called acting. The oohs and aahs...
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 9:20PM
You probably haven't seen the "tap outs" in his videoss
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Posted - Feb 16 2019 : 11:44PM
How could pornstars ever date average sized guys? Because there is a lot more to life than sex for starters. There is the whole rest of the day to account for, so being with someone you enjoy being with through life's routine is part of it. Another part of it is how you use what you have. You could be a dude with a horse cock but if you are a lousy lay the novelty wears off quickly where a dude who won't win any measuring contests but is great at fucking and foreplay will get repeat business all the time.
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Posted - Feb 17 2019 : 3:46AM
You mean the acted ones?
 
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Posted - Feb 17 2019 : 6:35AM
People need to realize that 99% of the seemingly "real" stuff in porn is carefully scripted and acted out with conviction to make it seem as real as possible.
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Posted - Feb 17 2019 : 9:03AM
^ Sometimes it's acting but in some cases the girl might really be into it and it clearly isn't acting. It's funny that people love to point out how bad pornstar acting is with some things but not others. I'm not saying that most girls don't play things up for the camera but I also think it's sometimes clear that some/many girls are enjoying the sex at times when they're in the moment.

When it comes to pornstars, most of the are able to separate sex from love or people they might have actual feelings for. It's probably very likely that the guys in porn are better lays than the guys they have a relationship with but they have an emotional tie with that person and it makes the sex with them more emotional pleasing even if physically it isn't as good. Plus, the fact they're actually having "real" sex with their guy vs performance sex with big girth porn dude. I'm sure both are pleasurable in different ways for most porn girls.

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Posted - Feb 17 2019 : 10:02AM
You are the OP right?
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Posted - Feb 17 2019 : 10:31AM
^

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Posted - Feb 18 2019 : 2:36AM
Indeed. People who believe that Woodman's stuff is more "real" than any other porn production just because it's filmed in cheap hotel rooms and with shitty lighting and camera angles clearly aren't aware what a control freak reputation he had back when he was still directing big-budget movies for Hustler and Private.
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Posted - Feb 18 2019 : 8:22PM
Huh? They do date and marry regular guys all the time! By your rational, does that mean that triple anal, gangbangs, blowbangs, and other circus acts involving 15 guys cumming in their mouths is a nightly event?
xDEFiLED
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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 3:55AM
How on earth would you know the penis size of the guys that pornstars date, that they're regular size?

Edited by - xdefiled on 2/19/2019 3:55:37 AM

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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 9:29AM
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be cause they said so?

explore some dedicated threads , I can remember of Siri for example talking about her husband.

xDEFiLED
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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 10:48AM
1. Of course pornstars will tell their admirers on official channels that "size doesn't matter" and stuff like that. It's just good business sense, since most of these guys are average sized or below average sized. Pornstars tell them what they know they wanna hear, just like every other public figure.

2. I'm not denying that girls like Siri exist, but i am convinced they are a minority. In how many dedicated threads have pornstars talked about being married to or dating guys with average/small dicks? 10? 20? I can believe that. Still a massive minority.

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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 2:10PM
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Man, Siri MARRIED that average sized guy , hardly a way to deceive her admirers

But you can watch Kendra Sunderland's Debut at Blacked her real life boyfriend is there lurking , not only he stayed with her but another pornstar stoled him from her and Kendra was very pissed about that, still is

again hardly a pose to please the fans

 
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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 3:10PM
I'm talking in general, not about these specific cases. Of course Siri didn't marry someone to please her admirers. I'm talking about pornstars and public figures in general. They often say what they think that their loyal admirers wants to hear.

You are welcome to give specific examples of pornstars that say they have married or have dated guys with average or below average penis size as much as you want, since these examples are of a very limited amount and does not contradict my assesment that a majority of pornstars wants guys with big dicks.

All you can prove is that a few of them doesn't care about size.

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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 3:22PM
Why are you convinced porn actresses who are in relationships with men of average size or say size doesn't matter in the minority? Because that's what you want to hear?

You seem infinitely more receptive to hearing an answer that backs your theory instead of one that refutes it. As others have said or implied, sex is about mechanics and chemistry. You've also got fingers and your tongue if you're not well endowed or even toys if you're adventurous and not insecure about them replacing your penis. I have to go easy with several women, especially in doggy style as going in too deep or too quickly can be very uncomfortable if not painful from hitting their cervix. Some women are size queens, some women prefer smaller, some women like average, some are indifferent to size as long as he's got the right technique.

Sure, it takes a particular mindset to get into porn and make a career out of it but that's the case of many women running their own business/brand. Yes, enjoying sex is pretty much a given but why should penis size be a prerequisite to their enjoyment of sex for a majority of women, thus affirming your ideas?

Perhaps not projecting your personal experience and apparent preference for a larger penis on to a porn actress would be more "productive"?

It's curious that you haven't mentioned those who express a preference for a big cock but not considered that they may be just saying it for the camera when in reality, they have no specific preference or are more concerned about the man knowing what to do. Your rhetoric all sounds like confirmation bias.

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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 3:25PM
^^ You have demonstrated nothing that supports your "assessment". I'm curious how that opinion knocks LCF's observations out of the park beyond any reasonable measure.
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Posted - Feb 19 2019 : 3:34PM
I didn't prove anything I only placed a few examples, as I said you completely lack documentation go read star's dedicated topics you'll find dozens of them actually having average sized boyfriends/husbands , of course size queens do exist but your assumptions are baseless and I'm generous

Edited by - LCF on 2/19/2019 3:36:53 PM

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Posted - Feb 20 2019 : 2:54AM
I can think of a number of reasons...

1) Vaginas and buttholes... once given a chance to take a break have the amazing ability to return back to close to their original condition (barring some kind of permenant damage anyway). Plus, they are able to adapt and contract to accommodate almost every penis size (except possibly the medical condition of "micro-penis"... that I'm not 100% sure of). Vaginas are wonderfully designed.

2) Porn is by its very nature trying to give "extreme hyper-reality" onscreen. But in real life most women in porn would not choose to fuck most of the famous male pornstars without money being involved... regardless of penis size. Many guys (likely the majority) in the porn industry have a fucked up views of women, are emotionally and psychologically damaged to varying degrees just due to longterm working in the industry, have to go to ridiculously extreme lengths just to "get off" anymore in their personal lives due to desensitisation (to beautiful women and "normal non-extreme" sex). Many are also so proud of their penises that in some cases that is pretty much all that they are). I think that after long enough exposure to this many porn actresses would be relieved to be with a "normal" healthy guy... regardless of their penis size.

3) Lastly, (and I think this is probably the biggest reason). Abnormally gargantuan cocks... take A LOT OF WORK. Especially if you have to deal with it day in an day out over a long term relationship. Aching and lock jaw just to give your guy a blowjob, sore pussies from deep friction on a regular basis. Even something as enjoyable as "quickies" take on a whole new meaning and would become more of a chore than fun and relaxing. I mean, I have little doubt that oversized cocks would probably be fun for women at first, but over the longterm would become just a lot of effort and likely would end up providing no more orgasms or personal satisfaction than a normal sized cock attached to a normal guy.

Then of course there is the highly increased possiblity of you shitting into a bag and pissing down your leg in the future possibly as early as your early 40's after decades of taking an extreme sized penis up your orifices finally doing enough damage that they simply couldn't recover back from.

I've met 2 guys that were apparently exceptionally well endowed. Both told me seperately that although it has its moments, overall and in the longterm it became much more of a curse than a blessing. They had lost great "loves of their life" because after the first time having sex with girls they were genuinely into the girl just didn't want to attempt it a 2nd time and pursued other men. And in longterm relationships the "I've got a headache" response apparently becomes far more frequent compared to their "average cock" sized friends. One of them claimed that his ex girlfriend after 3 years barely ever had sex with him anymore... like 3 times a year max, but he would catch her masturbating ALL the time. She apparently cheated on him heaps as well... so she definitely liked fucking. Just apparently not him and his ginormous cock. The other guy was addicted to anal porn, but had never got to try it himself with a girl ever. They were always either too scared to even try it or screamed to pull it out before he even got the tip in. I have to say, talking to both these guys... I felt nothing but sorry for them after listening to them. "Porn Reality" and Real Life have little in common it would seem.

And lastly, have you ever actually looked at a really anotomically detailed picture of the inside of a vagina? Literally ALL of the most highly sensitive places to touch that bring women to orgasm (or mulitple orgasms or whatever) are NOT 12 inches deep inside of them. Those spots are not even 6 inches deep. So unless a woman is genuinely deformed inside her vagina all her orgasm points are far closer to the surface than any place a "12 inch" is poking into. This is just a fact. Probably a very fortunate one at that (for women I mean).

Oh, and I should add... woman come far quicker and more intensely to a person with a talented tongue than any cock anyway... and tongues (even long ones) really aren't very long at all.

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True that. Given the fact that I will turn 61 this year, I have increasingly used my skills at cunnilingus to elicit orgasm from my sex partners.
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Posted - Feb 20 2019 : 1:19PM
This may come as a shock to the OP: adult performers are human, most of them unlike their fans aren't obsessed with how well hung a guy is. Woodrocket covered this question nicely along with another one about which position makes performers orgasm the most and the most frequent answer is pretty much any as long as the guy knows what he is doing. Your generalizations reveal an incredible lack of knowledge about women and importance of character, connection, passion etc that is SO much more important that your dick size. As far as 99% of stuff being carefully scripted, are you on the sets? Are you a cameraman?? If so, certainly not for the hot companies of today because from GFF to Sweetheart Video to Girlsway - collectively speaking, they will tell you that when the sex starts - they let them go at it as they see fit. It's not what you would like to believe in having someone with flash cards off screen telling them to switch from this position to that. To say nothing of the fact that if you hear a director saying that in a scene, you're talking a lousy production in the first place. I actually research adult performers to learn more about them, unfortunately for you - there is NOTHING that backs up your suggestion that adult performers can't date regular sized guys.
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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 8:55AM
The Selena Green-Vargas story . Selena was engaged tosa soldier in CA , she did a shoot for girlsdoporn while he was away , at some point in the vid she talks about her co-star being far more endowed that her BF , and she was clearly having a good time . I seem to remember it went viral some years ago , he found out and broke up with her , sent the vid to her job-school teacher , and she got fired . Or so it supposedly happened , the internet would never lie .
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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 10:21AM
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let me get this straight , she said what she was told to say in an acted sex scene and this was so true his boyfriend got angry because she told everybody he has a micropenis?
Or she did porn while he was away cheating on him,so he got angry and vindicativeand did anything he could to punish her

What's the truth I wonder...

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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 3:17PM
^ to be fair, it was clear to anyone who watched the scene, she was in no way used to bigger cocks, and she might of felt a bit uncomfortable at times. But she was cumming hard.
 
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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 5:35PM
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I didn't see the scene but the guy in there is not spectacularly endowed , he's 6 inches at best , maybe less and his girth could be say a inch and a half , hardly a big dick, he might be very hard though and this could have been what makes some girls uncomfortable , he's not very delicate
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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 6:35PM
^Unless they used a male performer with a significantly larger penis than when I was last a member than their porn guy was by no means equipped with what I call a larger than normal penis.

I've been avoiding posting in this thread because the OP tends to starts these weird threads that never seem to go anywhere. This one is no different.

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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 6:38PM
^^^ How do you deduce "she was cumming hard" and not faking it?

Sometimes, things are "clear" to people simply because that's what they want to see.

Edited by - AngryPirate on 2/25/2019 6:39:35 PM

Arnold The Geek
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Posted - Feb 25 2019 : 7:41PM
The truth is whatever I tell you the truth is! I think that's how the movie line goes.

But seriously, who knows how this things go especially with the service guys. My favorite service guy story is, the girl sends her guy a batch of brownies and a copy of the latest UFC fight or something else popular at the time. The whole squad devours the brownies while watching the disk which then ends with some close up porn. As the camera pulls back, it turns out the be the guy's GF doing some guy while waving to the camera, the guy splooshes in her mouth, she spits it into the brownie mix, and says something to the effect of "you shouldn't have cheated on me" or something to the effect. I read it online so you know it's true.

Then again, maybe the guy had a micro dick, maybe the guy on the disk was huge compared to microdick, maybe he cheated on her, maybe not, maybe she hates him and is draining the bank account dry, then taunts him so he gets killed and she collects his benefits. Does it really matter as long as we get to see her naked?

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Posted - Feb 27 2019 : 3:17PM
I have seen the scene and recently. The guy is at least 6.5 inches if not more. I can understand why he might appear smaller as the video is shot in an amateur style unlike mainstream porn where the camera angles, lighting and editing makes guys look huge.

Also she mentioned her first Bf was over 9 inches. And we know girls can't estimate a cock size to save their life, so in all probability he's probably smaller. I mean statistically there's extremely few guys who measure 9 inches in the world. So I'd put him at 7 - 7.5 inches if not smaller.

Keeping in mind that American guys are on the bottom end of the world average at a national average of 5.1 inches. (I know stats might not be accurate, Bite me!)

She then goes on to mention that her BF is only half her first bf's size. Taking that literally would put him at 4.5 inches if he really was 9 inches, and about 3.5 -3.75 inches if he was closer to 7 inches.

She also struggled to give him a blowjob, clearly feeling uncomfortable while only taking like 3 inches of his cock in her mouth, which supports her earlier claim of being used to her current Bf who is only half the size.

Taking all of the above, she took anywhere between 45% to 86% more cock than her BF going only on length.

Adjusting the calc for volumetic increase assuming a linear scale between length and girth (Herbenick study)

The porn guy
girth: 5.2 inches

Her bf
Min girth: 3.25 inches
Max girth: 3.8 inches

Which means that volumetrically her pussy took between 161% to 202% more cock than in was used to.

So in conclusion the math checks out. The guy really stretched her out compared to her bf.

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Posted - Feb 27 2019 : 4:35PM
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too many assumptions , I am a seven incher myself and I can evaluate by reference to measure , the girl hands, the man hands , proportions compared to his waist. From vary angles and even from the side as it happens I have seen mine in any position and I can tell you , that guy is nowhere near 7 inches , not even 6.5 , 6 is the closest measure possible.
I don't know whether a woman can tell the size of a dick or not, you're sure they can't , I'm not that sure, besides you don't know if her previous PF had it actually mmeasured in front of her or just that he told her.
Also I don't even know how you could say the girth of people you never saw
a9nostic
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Posted - Mar 2 2019 : 12:46AM
This.

My wife put it in a way that I could understand: Size matters, but other things matter more.

And a previous partner said that when she was banging another guys besides me, who had a bigger dick, she stretched to accomodate him, but when they weren't having sex anymore, she shrank back :) I get the idea that girlie parts are quite rubbery. What made her a size queen was the visual aspect for her, and then pushing a baby out through it.

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Posted - Mar 2 2019 : 2:48AM
You are absolutely obsessed with sticking to your narrative, but I'm going to try to tell you a little common sense anyway.

Can you recall the best meal you have ever had? Has that meal ruined all other food for you?

What's your absolute favourite movie ever? Will you never enjoy another film now that you've seen it?

Even more relavant, think about the best sex you've ever had. Is all sex since then awful and boring?

All this is to neglect the fact that despite what you want to believe, for some reason, not all women are size queens, even those in porn. I've hit a cercix or two in the past and no one has found that pleasant. In fact, have a closer look at some of the much larger stars. Often they don't even regularly go all the way in.




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