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mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 12:51AM
when our chatting with them how do u not get shy and nervies around them

Edited by - mariac221 on Aug 23 2005

RLD Fiend
Member

Cincinnati, O.
665 Posts
10/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 12:55AM
Don Fernando
Member

178 Posts
7/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 1:37AM
Assuming you are a fan,most of us are friendly....nothing to be nervous about.

Don Fernando

http://donfernando.diaryland.com/index.html

Edited by - Don Fernando on 8/23/2005 2:28:56 AM

Edited by - Don Fernando on 8/23/2005 2:33:00 AM

juha
Senior Member

2752 Posts
3/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 2:26AM
Don Fernando
Member

178 Posts
7/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 2:32AM
Be nice...

http://donfernando.diaryland.com/index.html

 
Scudds
Member

30 Posts
3/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 2:40AM
When I met shayla Leveux(incorrect spelling) we just chatted about normal stuff, and how her webmaster was being a moron. all in all I talked to her for about 30 minutes after her show. She was a blast, we never talked about sex at all.
croy
Platinum Member

Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 4:00AM
Drink heavily before hand. It works for all social occasions, but especially those that I may have some nervousness or tension about.
I find alcohol (and other chemicals) brings out my charm and helps keep things going.

Or just realize they are people and politely talk to them. As you get more comfortable, take cues from them and others as to which directions you can go.

Dane
Member

Riverside, CA
32 Posts
4/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 7:04AM
I just stare at them and mutter random bullshit.
Painless
Member

436 Posts
5/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 7:25AM
Geez, what's the point then?
imak
Adult Film Legend

3345 Posts
2/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 8:32AM
do not ask if their tits are real how old they are or how much they make
Jeff @ IAFD All-Star Supporter
Webmaster IAFD.COM

931 Posts
6/00
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 9:15AM
Kami,

Hi -- you're so hot.

Are your tits real?

Are you younger than me?

Are you rich?

Thanks for chatting.

Jeff

phatbasey
Senior Member

1390 Posts
1/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 9:17AM
This is hilarious! The fact that Kami has to write this is testament to high number of idiot non-true porn fans out there and the day-tripping idiots in front of me (and those of us other ADT'ers) at AEE.
juha
Senior Member

2752 Posts
3/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 10:49AM
I wouldn't ask this any woman whether in porn or not.
mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 1:52PM
im not very good when im talking to Reno i mean i get very shy and im not like that when im around people im a very out going girl that like to joke around alot but when im talking to Reno its a whole differnt thing i gess becuse im a fan but i wish i colud treat him like on of my frinds but some how i cant

Edited by - mariac221 on 8/23/2005 1:53:01 PM

Walter Burns
Legendary Quoter

IAFD, supporters of beastiality. Just say no.
7564 Posts
11/02
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 2:35PM
You forgot what you use for birth control, how often you put out the trash and what does your vagina smell like.

And the worst question of all: will you marry me?

Erm... is it OK to ask if you can cook?




DenverDon Said:
“Hmmm ... I'll have to agree that kick ass asses is not nonsense.”

 
juha
Senior Member

2752 Posts
3/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 3:27PM
I think to ask questions about her children is even less polite.
threesomebody
Official BlowBang Judge

Would you like my autograph?
2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 4:08PM
My favorite song from the Sound of Music is probably How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?


~ Edited
Oh, sorry. I meant to start a new poll about Musicals. Yeah.

Edited by - threesomebody on 8/23/2005 4:08:17 PM

Dick Fittswell
Member

near Houston, TX
300 Posts
1/02
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 4:17PM
When I talk to a pornstar, I usually start out by introducing myself to them by name. I don't get nervous around them, becuase pornstars are people too, just like you and I. They happen to have sex on film for a living, but MOST of the people I'v met are down to earth normal people. For instance when Cheyenne Silver was danicing here a few years ago, I went to her hotel on a saturday afternoon and me, a friend, her and her boyfriend went out shopping for some stuff she needed. I had offered to drive them anywhere and they called me and we hung out. See just people, nothing to get nervous about. Although at one point with Cheyene we were in a pet store and some guy gave her a look like he recognized her, but was with a lady, maybe his wife so he didn't approach.

Anyway yeah, I tend to not ask too personal questions either, like kids or boob job, unless of course the information is offered then I'll ask furthur sometimes. Like when i was chatting with 1 lady she mentioed she had a son, so I asked how old, and all that good stuff. Anyway thats my ramble for the day, hopefully it makes sense

Dick Fittswell

diegoiglesias69
Member

135 Posts
12/04
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 5:13PM
just chill with them and get to know them...that's it

be cool and outgoing.

that's all i say.


mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 5:45PM
well it not esay to be your self when you have a Hot guy talking to you
Robbie
Member

884 Posts
1/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 5:51PM
mrsome
Member

montreal, canada
20 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 6:55PM
You talk to them like you would talk to any other person.


(move along... nothing to see here...)

Bill All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5334 Posts
6/00
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 8:57PM
I do much better around porn stars who are also ADT members. We already have something in common and usually I feel like I know them a little already.
Scudds
Member

30 Posts
3/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 10:14PM
Well the point was, I got free gear, a free lap dance, tons of photos for not even mentioning sex... unlike the morons before and after me asking her "how does a DP feel?" and "do you like swallowing cum?" and having to pay 100 bucks for the stuff I got for free. They are regular people, if you started asking every female you met how anal feels I am pretty sure they are all going to get annoyed. It is fun to sit down and have a drink or 2 with a porn star just talking bullshit.

Of all the things I have lost, I miss my mind the most

ilovebimbos
Member

31 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 10:19PM
LOL for a brief second I thought you had a picture of yourself in your avatar and you were saying this.

It probably has to be 1000 times more difficult for people in Porn to talk to non porn people. Think about it, they have no idea where your coming from or what your thinking. It's probably much easier since you a girl though.

 
mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 10:41PM
well for me as a girl that talk to her favoret porn star on the phone is not esay and i belive that he like me alot if he din't he wont talk to me on the phone i just want to knw how can i get over this i want him to get to know me but it hard becuse hes HOT and i never had a hot guy talking to me b4 im so use to having guys think im ugly im not very good in talking to a hot guy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Edited by - mariac221 on 8/23/2005 10:42:30 PM

ilovebimbos
Member

31 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 10:47PM
First of all no one should view themselves as ugly, second you probably haven't talked to a lot of guys because your shy more then anything. Are you sure your ready to be dating a porn star?


Edited by - ilovebimbos on 8/23/2005 10:49:16 PM

mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 11:01PM
no im not going to be his Gf he has a gf alredy :(

Edited by - mariac221 on 8/23/2005 11:03:38 PM

ilovebimbos
Member

31 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 11:08PM
Then what are you nervous about?

And does his girlfriend know he talks to you?

If that's him in your avatar you could probably do better.

I have a headache goodnight.

mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 11:29PM
well i dont know if his GF knows
Tinaka
Member

953 Posts
8/03
Posted - Aug 23 2005 : 11:45PM
do not say "wow, you're so hot you could be in 'proper' movies"
Everett
Senior Member

2088 Posts
6/05
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 10:55AM
This can have many answers. It depends on the person. Obviously we as fans don't know how a star is going to react when we first meet them. Some people may jump right into the fray and show themselves to be raunchy & talk very Blue. Others, though they are porn stars, may be a little more reserved or inhibited in person. So no one answer can fit every individual star.
scipio
Senior Member

1901 Posts
2/00
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 11:15AM
Hi Kami.

Do you have a boyfriend?
Do you have a boyfriend?
Do you have a boyfriend?
Do you have a boyfriend?
Do you have a boyfriend?
Do you have a boyfriend?

If you do, what does he think of you doing this?
If not, will you by my girlfriend.
By the way, I wouldn't let my girlfriend do this job.
Now that I'm your boyfriend, I own you.

noway2005
Deactivated User

16 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 11:49AM
It's easy, sooo easy to talk to a pornstar about sex, I went many times to the nude beachs with my mom and dad, and i talk with my mom's friends, they were fully nude women.
I talk with them about their nude bodys and about sex, it's sooo easy
The same will be with pornwomen

Edited by - noway2005 on 8/26/2005 11:55:36 AM

ilovebimbos
Member

31 Posts
8/05
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 12:08PM
I'd be ok with hot chick porn.
 
Cuddly Wombat
Senior Member

Just another bare bum in the shiower
1739 Posts
12/04
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 12:41PM
Maria,

All you need to do is repeatedly tell him that his cock/biceps/pecs are HUGE and that he is by far the handsomest porn stud going around. That should keep him hanging on your every word.

imak
Adult Film Legend

3345 Posts
2/04
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 8:53PM
its funny cause its true
ballsonchin
Member

331 Posts
12/04
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 8:55PM
"Who wants to sex Mutombo?!"
christianx
Senior Member

1883 Posts
9/04
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 9:02PM
that made me laugh out loud!
mariac221
Member

183 Posts
7/05
Posted - Aug 27 2005 : 2:15AM
Christian if u had a fan that was very shy wolud you not talk to her ????????????? or wolud you be understanding



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