When I met shayla Leveux(incorrect spelling) we just chatted about normal stuff, and how her webmaster was being a moron. all in all I talked to her for about 30 minutes after her show. She was a blast, we never talked about sex at all.
Drink heavily before hand. It works for all social occasions, but especially those that I may have some nervousness or tension about. I find alcohol (and other chemicals) brings out my charm and helps keep things going.
Or just realize they are people and politely talk to them. As you get more comfortable, take cues from them and others as to which directions you can go.
This is hilarious! The fact that Kami has to write this is testament to high number of idiot non-true porn fans out there and the day-tripping idiots in front of me (and those of us other ADT'ers) at AEE.
im not very good when im talking to Reno i mean i get very shy and im not like that when im around people im a very out going girl that like to joke around alot but when im talking to Reno its a whole differnt thing i gess becuse im a fan but i wish i colud treat him like on of my frinds but some how i cant
When I talk to a pornstar, I usually start out by introducing myself to them by name. I don't get nervous around them, becuase pornstars are people too, just like you and I. They happen to have sex on film for a living, but MOST of the people I'v met are down to earth normal people. For instance when Cheyenne Silver was danicing here a few years ago, I went to her hotel on a saturday afternoon and me, a friend, her and her boyfriend went out shopping for some stuff she needed. I had offered to drive them anywhere and they called me and we hung out. See just people, nothing to get nervous about. Although at one point with Cheyene we were in a pet store and some guy gave her a look like he recognized her, but was with a lady, maybe his wife so he didn't approach.
Anyway yeah, I tend to not ask too personal questions either, like kids or boob job, unless of course the information is offered then I'll ask furthur sometimes. Like when i was chatting with 1 lady she mentioed she had a son, so I asked how old, and all that good stuff. Anyway thats my ramble for the day, hopefully it makes sense
Well the point was, I got free gear, a free lap dance, tons of photos for not even mentioning sex... unlike the morons before and after me asking her "how does a DP feel?" and "do you like swallowing cum?" and having to pay 100 bucks for the stuff I got for free. They are regular people, if you started asking every female you met how anal feels I am pretty sure they are all going to get annoyed. It is fun to sit down and have a drink or 2 with a porn star just talking bullshit.
Of all the things I have lost, I miss my mind the most
LOL for a brief second I thought you had a picture of yourself in your avatar and you were saying this.
It probably has to be 1000 times more difficult for people in Porn to talk to non porn people. Think about it, they have no idea where your coming from or what your thinking. It's probably much easier since you a girl though.
well for me as a girl that talk to her favoret porn star on the phone is not esay and i belive that he like me alot if he din't he wont talk to me on the phone i just want to knw how can i get over this i want him to get to know me but it hard becuse hes HOT and i never had a hot guy talking to me b4 im so use to having guys think im ugly im not very good in talking to a hot guy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First of all no one should view themselves as ugly, second you probably haven't talked to a lot of guys because your shy more then anything. Are you sure your ready to be dating a porn star?
This can have many answers. It depends on the person. Obviously we as fans don't know how a star is going to react when we first meet them. Some people may jump right into the fray and show themselves to be raunchy & talk very Blue. Others, though they are porn stars, may be a little more reserved or inhibited in person. So no one answer can fit every individual star.
Do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a boyfriend?
If you do, what does he think of you doing this? If not, will you by my girlfriend. By the way, I wouldn't let my girlfriend do this job. Now that I'm your boyfriend, I own you.
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noway2005 Deactivated User
16 Posts 8/05
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 11:49AM
It's easy, sooo easy to talk to a pornstar about sex, I went many times to the nude beachs with my mom and dad, and i talk with my mom's friends, they were fully nude women. I talk with them about their nude bodys and about sex, it's sooo easy The same will be with pornwomen
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - Aug 26 2005 : 12:41PM
Maria,
All you need to do is repeatedly tell him that his cock/biceps/pecs are HUGE and that he is by far the handsomest porn stud going around. That should keep him hanging on your every word.