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iowagonzo
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9/07
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 3:02AM
In the heat of the moment you realize it is time to move onto anal. Or you just want to have anal right out of the gate. How do the females in your life request anal sex? How do the wonderful ladies who post on here request anal sex from their partners in both ways I mentioned above? Guys, how do you indicate that you want to fuck your female partner's ass? Is there a certain way you ask? Or is there certain intimate body language involved indicating anal sex is desired? Or do you just grab your man's cock and put it against your asshole?
Macko69
Senior Member

Gone for a walk.
1985 Posts
5/08
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 3:46AM
We're supposed to ask?
Kimi Lixx
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2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 11:20AM
I don't. He doesn't like it.
SexShopGrl
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F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 4:40PM
"Fuck my ass" usually does the trick.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 5:21PM
^
Direct communication always works best!
 
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 5:22PM
I just say, "Strap it on, dollface, and make me your bitch."
BIGmike
B-I-G-m-i-k-e

2335 Posts
3/01
Posted - Dec 27 2011 : 3:59PM
I tell her to prep her ass, and after a slight warm-up, she's good to go. I don't ask, but I give her an advance warning of my intentions.
trout bum
Deactivated User

"I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!"
2145 Posts
5/10
Posted - Dec 27 2011 : 5:31PM
Say "Spread Um Bitch!" But if I tried that with wifey, I'd be sleeping in a spare bedroom.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Dec 27 2011 : 9:04PM
I bet that works EVERY time!! :-)
SexShopGrl
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F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Dec 27 2011 : 9:54PM
^ It sure does for me.
freakdude28
Member

145 Posts
3/11
Posted - Dec 28 2011 : 7:11PM
Usually I have to ask, and give a little advance notice. And the women I've done anal with usually make me request it. However, with each of them there has been one or two occasions where they simply told me to fuck their ass, in the heat of the moment. When she says that, its a done deal, you don't gotta tell me twice.
matchmaker
Senior Member

24909 Posts
4/05
Posted - Dec 29 2011 : 3:58AM
Joey Starr
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Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Dec 29 2011 : 3:59AM
Thank you for this most useful contribution matchmaker. It's always good to have experienced guys chiming in.
matchmaker
Senior Member

24909 Posts
4/05
Posted - Dec 29 2011 : 4:01AM
^I was showing how I approved of her method.
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 3:57AM
Friends -
Written request.
Submitted six months in advance.
With a bank statement.
Certified by a Notary Public.
BSD
 
jackthetreacleeater
Senior Member

Shame on you!
2003 Posts
10/06
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 10:26AM
You're lucky if you don't have to beg.
Nothing says romance like anal sex.
Kimi Lixx
Senior Member

2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 12:17PM
you're lucky if begging ever gets it for you
jackthetreacleeater
Senior Member

Shame on you!
2003 Posts
10/06
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 3:25PM
You just need to have a really good hound dog technique and perfect the puppy dog eyes.
Nothing says romance like anal sex.
Kimi Lixx
Senior Member

2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 5:52PM
I've got all that. Once in 3 1/2 years he gave it a go. Then issued the pronouncement that he was certain he didn't care for it and it wasn't going to happen again.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 6:32PM
^ one word.....prenup!
Kimi Lixx
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2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Jan 4 2012 : 11:03PM
I'm not sure I understand...^
Rod
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908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 5 2012 : 7:12AM
^ Kimi, Just my twisted mind. Variety of things going on in my life that suggest sex is something to be discussed and experienced and settled early in a relationship and hopefully then explored and enjoyed. Unfortunately that's often not the case.
I'm not trying to suggest it applies to you. I was really only making a poor attempt at a joke suggesting a prenuptual agreement might have been the solution.
Sometimes life sucks regardless of how fucking hard you try to avoid it.
Maybe in the total scheme of things, the absents of anal sex isn't going to be the end of the world, but it is so awesome, it's too bad when it's off the table. But, my experience is it's off the table much more often than not. It's easily the number one off-limit item in my interview of couples. Hands down.
Maybe it's not a deal breaker, and maybe it won't be included in the prenup, but maybe it could be part of the prenup DISCUSSION.......ok, there's that poor joke again.
Kimi Lixx
Senior Member

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Posted - Jan 5 2012 : 12:20PM
I see.
Well, there is no prenup involved here, we aren't planning to get married.
We've known each other for about 20 years now, and while he was a little bit more sexually adventurous when we were in our 20s it was still mighty vanilla then and he had all that time without me before we got back together to cement his views and preferences. I know better than to expect him to change his mind at this point.
I whine and fuss about the disparity in our sexual drives and desires but it is really a minor issue in my life. He is what is important to me, not just his penis.
BigFerret
creampie scientist

Searching for blonde and red bush
1985 Posts
10/02
Posted - Jan 5 2012 : 1:25PM
I simply just ask--usually in advance.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 5 2012 : 2:43PM
After too many years of whining and fussing on this message board about this disparity in my marriage, I've ended up in the same place regarding my wife as you have with your guy -- the disparity is sometimes frustrating (for both of us) but ultimately it's a minor issue. She's much more important to me than that.
Good on you for figuring it out sooner in the game than me.
 
boogieknight
Member

146 Posts
3/07
Posted - Jan 6 2012 : 1:07PM
4 out of the last 7 GF's I've had, have all enjoyed anal. I guess I'm lucky in finding those who are willing without any hesitation. The problem is the girls who've never tried it but are willing to let you give it a go. That first 5-10 seconds or so can be quite painful for them and usually will result in them just saying "stop!" If you can get past the 20-30 second mark you're in.
Steve Smith
Senior Member

2668 Posts
11/11
Posted - Jan 6 2012 : 3:41PM
It is usually in the heat of the sexual moment. I will either ask Jill if I can put it in her butt or she will ask me to put it in her butt. We have good communication so it works out for us. If Jill uses the phrase above, I am more than willing to fulfill her anal request.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 6 2012 : 7:29PM
Pun intended??? Yes/No
Bojangalz
Member

"The BookSmart DeviL"
414 Posts
9/07
Posted - Jan 7 2012 : 12:54AM
it takes a lil prepping, freshman year in college I was with this cute Hatian gurl
I luved her ass and eating her out and when it came to her ass, it was a gradual process
tongue then finger then fingers, always gentle b/c she told me she'd never done ass play before
eventually in the heat of the moment she told me that she wanted my dick in her ass, and that was that
UrbanDervesh
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Sextatic
93 Posts
11/11
Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 6:08PM
It depends on who I'm with and what kind of sex we are having... Here are some of my regulars...
With Heather, it is always dirty...we make out, she sucks me, I fuck her mouth calling her a fucking cockslut, then rip her clothes off or have her peel them off then she moves bw my legs and licks my balls, then underneath, then ass... I flip her over spread her legs and start fucking. Then after a while I go down on her, have her sit on my face, or 69. Following that, I just ram it in her ass. From then inn it is pussy, ass, mouth, pussy, ass, pussy, mouth etc until I mark her by unloading inside one of her orifices before sending her home to her bf.
With Hugi, we always have two fuck sessions. I normally just fuck her gently the first time. This is normally followed by a rough session where I slap her around a bit and get her into a doggie position and slip it in her ass. She is Hungarian so ass play comes naturally to her.
Sherry is one of my loves...so I normally keep it clean with her. I never get rough...it is mostly lovemaking. She doesn't like anal so we have only done it super slow a couple of times.
Tatiana is also one of my loves...perhaps the deepest so far. But being Slavic, she lives up to the reputation of wanting lots of intense sex. Prior to me, she never had anal. I always go slow with her. Interestingly assplay makes her cum real hard.
Sarah, a nice Jewish girl from Columbia, MD... Never had anal sex prior to meeting me. We dated back in 2004 for a few months. One night after sex I just started playing with her near perfect ass. Then slipped a finger bw the cheevks and played with her hole, then started using the general post coital wetness as lube together one finger in. Surprisingly she moaned and began moving. So I used saliva with 2 fingers and then pulled out some ky, lubes up and pushed my dick in slowly. It was a wondrous beginning. She now has moved from the area as she is now in grad school but comes around every once in a while. We hooked up once last year when she was in between bf's and I ravished her ass. Since then each time she is home, we have a fuckathon.
Ok... Enough for now. Over to you guys.
EthanConner
Member

319 Posts
11/07
Posted - Jan 20 2012 : 10:22AM
One of my ex girlfriends said, "FUCK ME IN THE ASS!!!!" That seemed to work :)
One of my old friend's girlfriends told him, "Fuck me in the ass, and not in the pussy. I don't want to get pregnant."
I'm not much of an anal fan, so I never asked it for myself. (I never asked the girl I wanted to fuck her in the ass)
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 20 2012 : 8:22PM
^ Just because you enjoy her ass doesn't mean you can't enjoy her in other ways too.
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 21 2012 : 6:38PM
So my husband tells me last night after a particularly intense romp......"Most guys are lucky if they get anal on THEIR birthdays...Figures I married a woman who insists on anal for HER birthday."
Still trying to figure out if that was a compliment or compliant.
Anyway, he didn't mke any plans for my birthday. So tonight he will be fucking himself.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 21 2012 : 7:48PM
Sorry to hear that, but I LMAO!!
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jan 22 2012 : 4:00AM
Friends -
You're entitled to sex on your birthday after marriage?
Is that written down somewhere? By someone in an official capacity so I can prove it's not just me saying this?
I might be in luck, June 30th is coming.
*Sigh*
BSD
 
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 23 2012 : 12:03AM
There is such a thing as ABC sex. Anniversary, Birthday and Christmas. But if you're in an ABC relationship those will be the only days you get sex. Unlike Dog Bath sex which is given twice a week whether you need it or not.
However, March 14th is Steak and BJ day. So maybe you could work with that.
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jan 23 2012 : 2:13AM
^^^^^
SEXSHOPGRL -
*Sigh*.
Already been down that road. No joy.
Talked about Steak and BJ Day in BSD world four years ago in here. For me, it's a hamburger, (which I make myself), and a hand job, (which I give myself).
BSD
Edited by - BSD on 1/23/2012 2:15:12 AM
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 23 2012 : 4:17AM
At least you can eat and pleasure yourself at the same time.
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 23 2012 : 4:32AM
The ABC should be AMB for just Anniversary and maybe Birthday because Christmas is definitely out.
At least the Steak and BJ has a website to document it (http://www.steakandbjday.com/), and the Urban Dictionary (the officially recognized source for this type of thing) also recognizes this special holiday.
jackthetreacleeater
Senior Member

Shame on you!
2003 Posts
10/06
Posted - Jan 31 2012 : 7:50PM
Anal is for life, not just for Christmas.
Nothing says romance like anal sex.
pussy8cock
Deactivated User

4 Posts
3/12
Posted - Mar 9 2012 : 6:45PM
i finger her ass while fucking her pussy if she responded with smile i continue with my cock instead.
suavethelover
New Member

2 Posts
12/09
Posted - Jun 25 2012 : 4:52AM
This.
Dred Tory
Member

116 Posts
6/12
Posted - Jul 8 2012 : 8:26PM
"Lube up and bend over bitch"
:)
His Dudeness
All Business

Shut the fuck up, Donny!!
2793 Posts
4/10
Posted - Jul 8 2012 : 10:21PM
You don't request it, you demand it! If a girl is giving herself to me I want all of it. If not,
I'm out.
SunShowers
Member

333 Posts
4/08
Posted - Jul 9 2012 : 7:25PM
You're such a loveable dirtbag, Dude.
His Dudeness
All Business

Shut the fuck up, Donny!!
2793 Posts
4/10
Posted - Jul 9 2012 : 10:39PM
Thank you *bows*
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