Reviewers Recommend Working Girls 3 (Reality Junkies) - review by Captain Jack Director: Mike Quasar Starring: Danny Mountain, Derrick Pierce, Anissa Kate, Codey Steele, Adira Allure, Elizabeth Skylar, Taylor Wild, Jay Romero. Read review
i agree that you have to make some falling back besides this is the meaning of marriage to give and take.You can watch it with your wife and other times alone but surely you should accept that you wont have the same freedom as if you were bachelor
heres my bit, i have been living with my partner for 14 years, our sex life is still fanatstic, but i have always been a porn fan, and at the start of the relationship she was into the porn most times, but she slowly went off it, more so when she found more and more tapes around!!!! She start getting worried taht i was watching it on my own...which i was, over here in Europe there are a vast amount of PORN channels available on satelite, at present there are roughly 10 24hr channels, and in the evening all of the PPV channels broadcast porn, all hardcore,(and thats about 30 channels), all independant broadcasters,all the major US studios ,and every type of SEX.... so i MIGHT have had a few too many tapes lying around....lol....so fed up with been caught with the tapes , and keep getting Qs like "what are u doing with these tapes if u aint watching them" i now have a Satellite receiver with a built in HDD (250GB)that silenly records up to 130hrs of porn, which i do watch in private, any good titles i dump onto a DVD, and every so often she would suggest to watch a porn DVD, but unfortunitly i cannot tell her everthing, but i do think that it is keeping our sex life alive...
Well, in my opinion, getting married shouldnt mean you give up all your privacy. Besides, even if you swear to us forum-guys and whatever god you worship (in that order :) ) , I doubt you could keep a promise not to watch porn by yourself. Being a pornlover myself, I occasionally just got the urge to see smut. Then what happens? Probably lot's of feelings of guilt, possibly get caught one day, and perhaps live a couple of years, carrying this 'secret' with you.
I would be open about it, and say you need some time for yourself, also in that respect. Explain to her that porn is all about fantasy, and has nothing to do with real experiences. Why should she think you bang other women because you watch porn? Should she think you like to decapitate people with chainsaws because you like to watch horror-movies which she might not want to see?
This isn't linear regression analysis. She is obviously down with porn. Just tell her your pipes gets a little backed up looking at her extremely (keywords) SLIM, LITTLE butt and that you still need porn because you need to keep testosterone from rotting your brain, and that you want to keep your hormones evened out to cater to her needs and not vice versa and Blah,Blah,Blah. She'll buy it. Trust me, I'm a 20 lb. dog who ejaculates farther than VooDoo.
My girl knows i'm used to watch some porn and also knows I have about 40 DVD/VHS in my collection (it was a long research to find em and some are very rare), sometimes we watch 'em togheter. She says nothing about that .I met her into a videoshop in which she was renting a mainstream movie . I hit her because buyng a porn DVD I wasn't embarassed at all in doing this in front of her then we start to speak about it. If we get married ,and i hope so 'cause I'm really engaged,I'm pretty sure she'll feel uncomfortable for many reasons some of them well explained before in this topic.
I will speak about porn again with her and if requested I'll trash my complete collection with no regrets.
Adult people make choices and mine is clear, no doubt on it.
Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 2/20/2005 2:34:56 AM
If your wife is there willing to take your load why would you rather jack off to porn?
I'm married and this is what we do when it comes to porn viewing.. We go to the porno place and both pick out 3 movies that we want to see. We go home shuffle the DVD's like a deck of cards and start watching. During this time we fuck like rabbits only taking a sleep break. We also keep the movies for about a week, 5 days is our rental time. I usually don't watch them alone but sometimes pop one in just before she gets home from work. She doesn't care if I watch porn without her when she isn't home. I don't care if she watches porn without me when I'm not home.
We both encourage each other to grow as a person and respect each others privacy.
Working Girls 3 (Reality Junkies) - review by Captain Jack
Posted - Jan 16 2005 : 8:31PM