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Beaver
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137 Posts
11/01
Posted - Aug 6 2004 : 11:12AM
have an orgasm during intercourse? she only seems to cum from stimulation of her clit either orally or by me rubbing it with my fingers. she very rarely cums during intercourse (maybe 1 out of every 3 sessions)

last night we had sex for over an hour in all kinds of positions and she would get close, but just not get there... are there any techniques or positions to stimulate her clit during intercourse? or am i doing something wrong?


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TonyC
Comstock Films

2523 Posts
8/03
Posted - Aug 6 2004 : 11:19AM
What you're doing wrong is expecting that your GF will have an orgasm from penetration alone, or that her clitorus will recieve enough stimulation from penetration alone. Some women do, many women don't.

-T.C.

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lindi
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3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Aug 6 2004 : 11:50AM
I always do - it's from grinding, not thrusting, and it helps if the woman is on top and can control everything. It works because grinding is direct clitoral stimulation (but with the added benefit of penetration ).

I agree with TonyC, and all, but since this does work for your girlfriend a third of the time, and since you both seem to desire this, there's no reason not to perfect it so that it works every time.

Anyway, she would be on top, possibly flat against you and with her legs down, rocking the area of her pubic bone against you, without much thrusting, and she would control the speed, the pressure, and the direction of the grind. Another nice thing might be, if she likes it, a finger in her anus, or just your hand over that area. Kiss and suck tits if she likes that, or just let her focus if she wants her mind to drift elsewhere.

It helps if she has masturbated enough in her life to know exactly how she likes things. And you don't want to get the attitude that it's a job, or talk it to death like it's a big shortcoming, just experiment and play.

Once this becomes foolproof, you will probably both know enough for her to control things when she is underneath.

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Edited by - lindi on 8/6/2004 12:04:55 PM

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Impossible
Member

12 Posts
8/03
Posted - Aug 9 2004 : 12:44AM
A trick my girlfriend really, really enjoys is with her on top, lift her up like your doing a bridge, holding her hands like you're doing a pushup while on your back (make sense?) Instant O, many times in a row if I intend to render her completely useless.
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John Pype
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I adore sluts
779 Posts
9/03
Posted - Aug 9 2004 : 3:47AM
My girlfriend orgasms so easily its untrue. Tweaking her nipples sets her off in two or three minutes from a cold start! And she does it again and again and again - as long as she can persuade me to keep tweaking. Amazing! And she has the most beautiful natural breasts - a stunningly attractive girl.
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Spew
Deactivated User

Bend over for the rod and staff of Jesus!
334 Posts
7/04
Posted - Aug 9 2004 : 3:51AM
you're really lucky. its been fairly hard to make my GF cum, it is always a long epic adventure, but she loves it
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alisonb
Girls' Night In
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40 Posts
8/04
Posted - Aug 12 2004 : 2:03PM
Tony is 100% right about this. Many women don't come through penetration alone. There's nothing wrong with this, it's just how their body responds (or doesn't) to that kind of stimulation.

What's *her* opinion on the subject?

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boss_hog
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maryland
266 Posts
3/04
Posted - Aug 16 2004 : 4:07PM
my girlfriend cums from riding me as well just as he previous poster describes. Now she's addicted to it. She only cums from cowgirl, I can make her cum missionary but it's so much fucking work!!!.

She has never cum from doggie and I'm very sad about that, any advice on making a girl cum from doggie??

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-lunacy-
Senior Member

1081 Posts
4/00
Posted - Aug 16 2004 : 8:10PM
Try reaching around and rubbing her clit as you fuck her.
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cochise
Member

You gonna pull them pistols or whistle dixie?
238 Posts
12/03
Posted - Aug 17 2004 : 12:34AM
It's normal for many women to have external stimulation of the clitorus. Have her do it on herself if you can't reach comfortably.
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Ivory
Sex Object by Proxy

"We all want our time in Hell."
647 Posts
8/04
Posted - Aug 21 2004 : 9:16PM
Perhaps she might enjoy lying down on a long (king-sized) pillow. This takes pressure off the wrists and elbows, keeps the neck from getting a crick, and is very fun to bite and moan extremely loudly into.

Also, perhaps if you were to firmly hold her hips while you thrust, this will help her to climax.

If you have already tried both of these, and they didn't help, sorry, I tried my best!

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