All my GF's have been fine with it a few loved porn.My current GF ( soulmate really ) is fine too and even wants to watch some with me ONLY thing she said ABSOLUTELY no violence,rape play,ETC How is your GF or WIFE with your porn hobby? Supportive? Does not like it but let's you be? Into it ? ONLY one girl I ever dated was anti-porn she wanted me to get rid of my collection so I got rid of her.She was nice but a feminist and you lot know how difficul lots of these girls can be. Interesting Fact: I dated A LOT of girls in their twenties the last six months til I found my GF and BY FAR the most popular porn star in that crowd is Sasha Grey.
Well, it's a bit of a contradictory answer. She works in the porn industry and is on set exclusively. So there's an acute overexposure problem. On the other hand she's very fond of seeing porn that's not with contemporary girls she works on and speaks to her fetishes.
My wife thinks it's time for me to stop looking at porn. She said it was fine in my 20s, but now that I'm in my 30s and that I'm married and have kids it's beginning to be a little creepy. She has no idea how much time I spend looking at porn, though. I look at it all day long while I'm working. Not that this thread is about porn addiction, but I can say from experience that trying to give up looking at porn is harder to me than quitting smoking or drugs. So it's not a hobby with me. It's an addiction. Porn makes me happy. Watching hot young girls get fucked is my favorite thing to do. I have tried to quit every birthday for the last five birthdays, but I can't. And if I had, I would never have come across Katie St. Ives or Bailey Lane or Ivy Winters. This is what I tell myself. I can't quit. There are just too many hot girls in the world who want to do porn. So porn is kind of secret right now for me, which only makes it that much better, in a weird kind of way. Although, to my wife's credit, the couple of times recently I have accidentally left porn on the computer she has complimented my taste. I left up some pictures of Ms. St. Ives getting fucked by Mark Wood and the first thing she said to me (after telling me to make sure that I don't leave any porn up on the computer) is, "That girl is a pornstar?" When I said yes, she said, "Wow, no wonder you look at this stuff all the time. That girl is hot."
My wife subscribes to more porn sites than I do and is far more up to date on who's who in the industry than am I. She has an ever-changing list of females she has girl crushes on, often wanting me to watch them as it turns her on to see me getting turned on by one of her new "finds." Some of them are really rather obscure European models. But, it keeps it fun!
I wouldn't really call it a hobby. Most of the people on this site are way, way more into porn as a hobby than I can even imagine myself being (I know the names of maybe a dozen porn stars, other than really well known directors like Andrew Blake I don't know any directors at all, etc.) That said I do have a shit ton of porn and my wife loves it. I have it all stored on a media server so she can watch it on the HDTV in the bedroom whenever she wants.
Very interesting. I think you should NEVER quit you are harming no one.Life is stressful enough if something harmless makes you happy then why stop? You are not cheating or anything.I stop looking at porn a minute after I'm dead. My girl knows that and still wants to marry me fact is she is coming over this afternoon and she bought me a porn DVD as she said,"just because".And being in your 30's IS young !
I don't have a wife or girlfriend, but my long-time boyfriend is fine with it, as long as I warn him/explain the content (I watch a diverse bunch of films). Some stuff he passes on, but is fine with me watching it without him. Oh, and I'm one of those "difficult" feminists you loathe so...
My wife is fine with my porn and watching it. She just requests that i watch it with her most times. Usually when a new movie comes out and i pick it up (like say BWA or something). She has her own collection of porn actually. I think it might be bigger than mine. She has a thing for Lorilei Lee and has amassed quite the collection of her stuff. ----Dread----
I hear what your sayin! Same here. Every year there is always another new 18 year old popping up in the business. Whenever I try to quit(or slow down) a new hottie pops up, and I'm like Pavlov's dog hearing the bell. And I get back into it.
When I was married we both watch porn together although neither of us ever obsessed over it not anyone starring in it. It was a great deal of fun and a source of sexual stimulation. I've been divorced for a while and still find those elements unchanged. I'm very open about my interest in porn with everyone I date and have sex with and as of yet have encountered no one who has issues with it. If they did I'd frankly re-assess my relationship with that person.
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Posted - Mar 10 2010 : 7:57AM
Well I have an girlfriend who is white and we do watch porn sometimes.
Never told any girlfriends about my porn watching. I don't tell anyone about it, it's a personal and private thing. No one I know would really ever understand anyway.
My wife and I have an agreement, She knows its around but doesn't want to see it. She knows its been a part of my entire life and it aint going away. She comes from a very liberal family and even did some writing for Penthouse Forum long ago. She also works in the women's health field and sees alot of girls who have been "victimized" thru pimps, and other forms of manipulation. So it affects her point of view. She used to like reading "Letters" in Penthouse with me and I would enjoy the photos. But now we have kids and is very strict about porn being in the house. I tried sharing a DVD with her but it killed the mood so I haven't pushed it. It may seem like a jail sentence to some, but she made a commitment to me to keep both of us sexually satisfied by ourselves. So far it has worked. 13 years now. Half the time I am to warn out to jerk it to porn, But I try anyway. So porn is on the down low for me.
Sort of the same thing here but with a twist. Got some porn on my computer and watch it when I'm alone. I recently found out my GF watches my porn too when she is alone. Suppose we've got to talk about it when our lovelive needs some spiking up.
My long time girlfriend, who I'm no longer with, didn't mind it b/c she figured it was better to have me at home watching porn than out at bars or somewhere where I might actually run into a live girl. And she was on the road a lot for her job, so porn was a good substitute for (my)loneliness. Plus she would go to bed earlier than me, and I would usually watch porn and then come to bed later. She didn't mind being in porn shops with me (she was a big Rocco fan) but didn't really have time to seek out much so I would bring home/mail order most of what we watched together: she wasn't interestede in couples fare: girls too plastic, plotted stuff was just too trite and poorly acted to hold her attention between the sex scenes. She mainly liked harder edge stuff (sport fucking type scenes, anal and atm ok) featuring Rocco so Evil Angel Euro titles were good. If it was too gross or the girl was too ragged looking, she'd ask me to FF to another scene. She would mostly critique the girls' hairstyles or what they were wearing as much as how they fucked or how they looked naked.
My girlfriend is into it and enjoys watching it with me. Really it's more of a shared hobby. Coincidentally she's also a feminist. Odd how that word can gave such a diverse meanings, unbeknown to most.
Some girls see porn watching as cheating.This morning I was looking at some porn and asked my GF if she considered it cheating and she said,"Of course babe!" I'm lucky. (:
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Posted - Mar 10 2010 : 9:48PM
This is an interesting topic. When reviewing stuff, it's 50/50 as to whether she's watching or not. Whenever I come across something real sleazy, I always have her watch and I tell her that's what I want her to do. Whether we actually do it or not is irrelevant, it does provide some interesting dirty talk topics, that's for sure.
...oh, and the other thing my ex hated while watching porn with me: When girls would disrobe to reveal non-matching bra and panties. That was appalling to her
my ex hated porn and me watching it. i didnt even watch it very much for the year and a half that we dated. it baffled me that she was so anti because she was so sexual and we emulated so many of the perverted things that i would watch in the movies that i prefer. she was also a stripper and i thought that was weird. it wasnt that she was jealous of me watching other women having sex because she always wanted me to have sex with other women while she was in the same room but i think it was because she wanted all of my sexual attention and energy or something. she was evil and i hope i never see her again. Edited by - bingbing on 3/11/2010 12:15:46 PM Edited by - bingbing on 3/11/2010 12:17:42 PM
She does not mind at all and sometimes asks to watch them with me,,however if it affected our relationship I think she would not be too happy then. I recall one moment when we watched a scene together and the guy shoots in the girls mouth, she gargles a few times and then swallows his load. Upon the gargling my partner shouts at the screen "dirty bitch" I have to admit I thought that was pretty funny,,,,,wonder what she would make of a double vag scene? might try that one next time.
Interesting topic. My wife is fine with me watching porn, so long as I don't spend too much money on it. She knows that, without porn, I'd be assaulting her non-stop, and so we're both better off with me satisfying my voyeuristic tendencies on my own. We used to watch it together from time to time, and she really enjoyed rape scenarios (which you can only find in JAV, hentai, or 70s American porn). She absolutely hated facials, cum swallowing, gagging, spitting, and women with long fingernails fingering each other.
This still makes me cringe and cross my legs. I can't stand it. So much so that I keep track of the women that don't have false nails like Julia Ann, Bobbi Star and Kimberly Kane.
Lol that made me laugh. My girlfriend approached me about porn. at first I was really hesistant about talking about it thinking that it was a relationship test, in the end I opened up and thought well if she doesn't like my porn collection she won't like me. It turned out she really enjoys porn too and not just g/b she really enjoys Evil Angels Puppet Masters series and Animal Trainer series. + I would of classed her as an independent feminist before the "porn talk."
My wife doesn't mind. However, I think it's one of those things she doesn't care to see either. We have watched a couple movies together, like "The Masseuse", but I don't think she cared for it, or at least she didn't care to see more. But, she knows I have my collection, and that's fine. She doesn't harp on me about it. None of my ex girlfriends did either. I think if a woman asked me to get rid of it, I would have to re-assess our relationship. Porn has been with me for too many years to just abandon. It's a part of who I am (some days I think it's a curse, others not so much), and if you can't accept it, then you aren't the person for me.
Last night I accidentally (I think) left up a picture of Ivy Winters from her Fucked Hard 18 shoot. It was a picture of Ivy's face and nothing more. No nudity, no hardcore. My wife saw it this morning and I think she was more disturbed than if I had left up a picture of her getting fucked. Then she called me a creep. I often think about trying to stop looking at porn, but I can't. I mean, I can go a couple of days, and then I start to get anxious. I feel like I'm missing out. Obviously I'm addicted to porn. I guess I could try and go cold turkey, but what I don't understand is this: how will these urges re-direct themselves? Since desire is just energy, will the energy, finding no outlet, just dissipate? Maybe I should start taking estrogen pills.
My gf knows about it and says she's fine with it. But she doesnt care about it either. We tried doing it together. It aint the same. To me, its a private thing. I hope she understands. It keeps me sane.
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I hear what your sayin! Same here. Every year there is always another new 18 year old popping up in the business. Whenever I try to quit(or slow down) a new hottie pops up, and I'm like Pavlov's dog hearing the bell. And I get back into it.