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Trunks
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 11:15AM
Since I've really gotten into porn, and started to refute my inner feelings that porno is somehow a "bad" thing and that I'm a "bad" person for wanting to watch it, I've found that I am much less "sex crazed." Previously, If a lady in real life so much as flashed some tummy my way I'd be hot as a jalapeno. Now I can handle the event with a little maturity. I see some scantly clad anorexic lady on a shopping center magazine stand, and I'm not really interested. Cause I know I can go home and see Jenna naked in Dream Quest or something. It's provided a nice relief to my raging hormones and a knowledge that I have some control over my sexual desire.

I used to think wackin' off was a terrible thing to do too.

It is very upsetting to me that there is such taboo on stuff that I think is in most respects very healthy and natural to be interested in.

Porn stars have provided me with a much needed outlet for a natural drive in a world where it's often considered "bad" to have sex--especially outside of marriage--and where masturbation is frowned upon. At least that's the message I somehow got when I was growing up.

Adult movies have been instrumental in teaching me healthier ways to be comfortable with my own sexuality.

Even though porn stars are often marginalized by the "main stream" population, they provide a much needed service for us humans who the "main stream" world has failed in teaching a healhty way to be sexual.

Thanx, porn!

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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 11:30AM
I am glad it has done that for you, never be ashamed that you like adult films or that you like looking at pretty ladies or handsome men if you are a woman viewer. Seeing two people who are obviously into each other make love or have hot gonzo sex is great to me as you see them give joy and fulfillment to each other you in turn are made to feel joy which is never a bad thing.

Edited by - bono-ONE on Apr 18 2001

rocco64
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 2:30PM
Very eloquently stated Trunks. I agree wholeheartedly with your views. Cheers.
Trunks
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 2:36PM
Thanks, guys!
sonic
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 3:13PM
I'm the opposite! Porn made me into a worse sex fiend!

Every cute girl I see, I want to sink my jaw up her pussy!

All I think are nasty filthy dirty thoughts...just fondling and abusing that vagina with my fingers and making her cum.

Porn has made me in a 100% pervert.

And boy do I love it! I can wait to hit 65..that is when 18 is the perfect number for sonic the old dirty man.

 
DallasDVD
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 6:04PM
Is that kinda like the Friends episode where Joey and Chandler got free porn, but they were afraid to turn it off. They soon wondered why if they saw a hot girl why did not want them right now. ;)
sonic
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 6:16PM
DallasDVD

Exactly! When I get on the elevator, and I see a hot chick, I'm saying to myself "Oh man, I wonder is she has any idea how fat my cock is"

Then I am wondering "I wonder how snugged her cunt is inside that panty" (That is if she is wearing any )

More thoughts follows "Is she shaved?" "Does she know I bang hard?"

This is what porn has done to me...gave me a dirty mind, and I must say, I like it.

But don't get me wrong, I am not one of those:

Hi, my name is Jill. I went up the hill with my boyfriend Jack and we had sex. He kept on fucking me hard inside my tight ass hole and I did not enjoy it. He kept yelling "Take it Jenna take it!" Ever since he got that Plaything with Jenna, it destroyed our relationship. We are now single. By the way, Erik Everhart has a nice size, but I am not into porn, trust me.

rubberman
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 7:30PM
i'm glad someone mentioned this. i've been struggling under quite similar thoughts. mine are obviously more directly brought to my attention though my girlfriends complete dislike of my growing poon collection. WOW, she can rip the spirit of poon right out of me. this really takes a toll on my mind. i hear those comments of "if you love me you wouldn't need those dvd's". i know what you thinking, this is crazy talk, but this is not unique to her. my guy friends, girlfriends, are preaching the same gospel. maybe i'm around some enstranged people, i thought about that too. i can see some logic in this comment though, and then i can see the need i have inside. no matter what i've heard or could think about has given me the rationalization to provide a sense of pride or even positive intuition of my dvd collection.

call it a personal problem, maybe catholic up bringing, but i haven't been able to conquer the negative aria (sp) of poon. this obviously doesn't mean i'll stop buying dvd's i have an enormouse hunger to feed.

i guess i just wanted to agree with you alittle bit trunks. the mind can be a troubling thing at times, and i still work on this issue every time i feel the need to buy more dvd's........

tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 9:32PM
rubberman-
It's not only guys who go through what you do. When I was engaged to Rob Black, he tried to make me feel like a horrible person for actually liking porn.
Add to the fact that I was a little conflicted to begin with (catholic upbringing, etc.), and I was one confused girl.

Now that I'm a new mom, a lot of those old feelings are coming to the surface again. I've had so many people ask me how can I plan on staying around porn now that I'm a mom... Well, thank goodness I have someone like John around who is understanding and not afraid to be himself.

Porn can be a wonderful thing when people allow themselves to be open and enjoy it.

sonic
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Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 9:42PM

Edited by - sonic on Apr 19 2001

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Posted - Apr 19 2001 : 11:52AM
Trunks - well put!

Re Religion:
I don't want to get completely off-topic, but I find it interesting how many religions do not accept that humans are animals. Many doctrines try to inhibit our animal instincts, sexuality being the best example. Makes you wonder if porn in its current form would even exist without organized religion in its current form. So if religion begat porn, then maybe these religious groups should disband in order to succeed in their crusade against pornography.

dumblonde
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Posted - Apr 19 2001 : 6:11PM
Thanks Trunks, for being so honest.

quote: "Porn has made me in a 100% pervert"
LOL!!! Sonic, cutie, nice try - but I think you had it in ya
all along!

quote: "Why the names? The ugly names?
Slut, shank, whore, these are ugly names given to female porn stars that I wish never existed."

I couldn't agree more, Sonic. This seems to be something that has grown over the years, as older titles don't stoop to this, as a rule. I would guess that's it's just part
of the current misogynist trend. What are the male equivalent of those names?
There aren't any, but even if there were, I doubt if you'd see THEM on the boxcover.
It bothers ME, I can't imagine how it couldn't bother them.

sonic
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Posted - Apr 19 2001 : 6:25PM
Sorry I deleted my reply!

It was something like this:

Tricia

Why does Anabolic call you cum ****** Wh*** blah blah. I just find that downgrading and a bit unfair. If porn stars are supposed to be celebrities, she are offering a sexual experience to their fans. They are not hookers, and they are not whores. They are performers. They should have proper clean descriptions. Not slut, whore, cunt, etc..

Just not right.

And like I said, I fall I did wrong to for calling cutie doll Gauge a little slut. But I mean it dirty talk kinda a way. Like in my reviews. The only negative thing I did in a review that I regret was in Mocha Mix 2 review in which I said "old hag" etc. I regret that. I don't like dissing women. I love them and respect them no matter how they are. Every individual can change. The past stays the past. The past does not exist for me. They are nothing but horrible memories. The best parts is what's ahead, the future.

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Posted - Apr 20 2001 : 3:57PM
I am glad for you.



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