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-coquelicot-
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2 Posts
10/06
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 1:34AM
So I'm a 21 year old woman who has been in a very good relationship, and I think my boyfriend and I would both enjoy a threesome with another woman. I'm attractive, physically fit, and very sexually adventurous.

How does one find a woman to participate in a threesome with? I've tried posting on Craigslist, using Adult Friend Finder, and so forth, but they haven't yielded any good results.

Being in college would lead me to believe that I could easily find someone at a party, share a drink or two, and let it continue from there, but unfortunately, I think the people at my school are rather prudish.

At any rate, I thought I'd ask the members of this forum if they've had threesomes, and how it came about.

I would really like to surprise my boyfriend one night!


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Joey Starr
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8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 2:18AM
Try meeting people at a swingers club?
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croy
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Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 5:36AM
What college is this? I'm glad I didn't go there.
I had an ex who liked to pick up women together. As a guy, this is great. She would also notice women with body types I liked and ask them out, bringing up the BF and the idea of a three way later.
I don't know how she managed it, but she was bi before she met me, so I can only say previous experience picking up women helped.

I can only suggest finding bi or bi-curious women that might find your boyfriend attractive. Surely, in a college town, there is a bar or other place lesbians go to?

Edited by - croy on 11/18/2006 5:38:54 AM

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threesomebody
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12/04
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 7:17AM
My best luck has been picking up women at a club. After some brief flirtation, I don't take long to get to the point of what I am looking for. If she's not interested, I don't want to waste much time before moving on to someone else. I also get a feel ahead of time whether she just wants to do ME while he watches or fools with me, or whether she just wants to do him at the same time I am doing him, or whether we can all do each other. It's much more comfortable going into it when we all know what to expect. Anyway, the "let it continue from there" thing you mentioned doesn't often work. You need to be pretty clear.

Edited by - threesomebody on 11/18/2006 7:18:26 AM

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skronker
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9/02
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 10:52AM
It's also helpful if one of the women's boyfriends is passed out in the other room.
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lindi
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9/02
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 11:44AM
-coquelicot-
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2 Posts
10/06
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 1:27PM
The school is Stanford.

No one has sex here :P

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Khalid ibn al-Walid
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5 Posts
11/06
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 7:45PM
the answer, my friend, is clearly not in such horrible perversion on the websites you've tried, it's in converting to islam. allah loves multiple chicks.

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ma meeshka
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3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 12:21AM
a 21 yr old girl that was a m/f/f 3way? i don't see how you'd have a problem at all. that should be considerably easy.

prudish types are usually the MOST sexual people. don't be deceived by the facade.

lolz @ islam

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katsirk
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7/06
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 5:15AM
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TonyC
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Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 9:16AM
Use nipple clamps to hang strips of longhorn beef from your tits. That'll get you the kind of attention you're looking for.
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croy
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Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 10:16PM
Use tenderloin and have a light marinade of rice wine and soy on them.
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detmut
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91 Posts
11/06
Posted - Nov 20 2006 : 1:13AM
it's definitely the school. i said the same thing about georgetown university when i attended in the '80's.
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HarryWild
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2/05
Posted - Dec 4 2006 : 11:57PM
Being in college; you will come across some liberal women who are willing to try it like yourself. Just approach them and ask if they like to try it?

Dam; is your boyfriend lucky or what?

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married_lucky
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202 Posts
11/06
Posted - Dec 8 2006 : 1:44PM
It's really hard to find that illusive single female that goes around for-filling couples fantasies and is not a "working girl".

It's much easier to find a couple at AFF that wants to swing and swap. You have to share!

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RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
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3/06
Posted - Dec 9 2006 : 4:57PM
I've seen loads of couples advertising for a female for a threesome. They're all over Yahoo.

What's really rare is a couple looking for a male. It's practically nonexistent. Such is the curse of being male. It's even hard to find just a single woman looking for a single male for some fun. And when you do find them, they usually have these outrageous stipulations....such as you must be VERY handsome, a bodybuilder type and be over 8 inches. OK...how many everyday men are very handsome, bodybuilder types AND over 8 inches and not already taken?

Women have it easy....whether they're looking for women, couples or men. They generally don't even have to be very attractive.

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married_lucky
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202 Posts
11/06
Posted - Dec 10 2006 : 12:10AM
RandomPrecision

I understand what you're saying ...the truth is single men are a dime a dozen and are motivated primarily by sex. If a couple wanted a single male to join them they wouldn't have to advertise, almost any guy they choose would say, "yes", single or not.


Generally, single women have different motivations focused on commitment...once they are pair bonded, they are more willing to explore other facets of their sexuality in the context of that commitment.

IMHO... if you find the right couple....you'll forget the whole single female fantasy entirely.

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ma meeshka
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4/06
Posted - Dec 10 2006 : 1:25AM
i think you're making huge assumptions about single men and their eagerness to join a m/f 3way. surely, the implicit bicurious nature of the proposition does not appeal to every man.
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married_lucky
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202 Posts
11/06
Posted - Dec 10 2006 : 11:06AM
"i think you're making huge assumptions about single men and their eagerness to join a m/f 3way. surely, the implicit bicurious nature of the proposition does not appeal to every man.

Ma meeshka, your point is well taking.

It has been my experience however, that single men are wanted primarily to help fill up the wife ...tag team her, and not for male on male sex. Where-as single females are wanted primarily for bisexual sex with the wife, with the husband being involved in the play of two woman.

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ma meeshka
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4/06
Posted - Dec 10 2006 : 7:42PM
i get that much, but, still, lots of guys are uncomfortable with another dude being present when they're trying to work their mojo. especially if he's bigger or whatever.
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uglybull
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14 Posts
12/06
Posted - Dec 22 2006 : 11:44AM
Go do some research on local nudist/clothing-optional resorts in your area. I worked at one for a few years and that place is a hot bed of swingers and orgies. I say do resezarch because some are family-oriented and you can't find swingers, but then others are full on sex parties. Also, you need to figure out what type of people go there. The one I worked at had a decent younger crowd, but I enjoy the MILFs so I was practically in heaven.
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ashwell
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1/07
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 12:22AM
In the recent times I have been seeing that there are many persons of the either sex who are interested in group sex. Now for me this isnt fair at all. Well I am just voicing my personal opinion here and nothing else. Sex is a wonderful gift for me that is reciprocated between partners and including a third person in this just spoils the entire thing. When the best can be had from two persons what is the need for threesomes?

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kirby
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California
187 Posts
8/06
Posted - Jan 17 2007 : 8:55PM
I ask my friends whether they want to join me and my boyfriend. I have some friends who are bi (like me)- other I ask friends of friends.
Other times I meet girls at parties or bars and just asked who wanted to fuck.
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Patrick Riverside
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33 Posts
2/05
Posted - Jan 29 2007 : 12:39PM
I agree with that. I've had numerous discussions with male friends over whether they'd have a m/f/m threeway as long as it didn't involve actual homosexual contact with the other man and all the focus was on the female's pleasure. Some guys are willing to drop their hang-ups for sex with a hot woman, some aren't. What can you do?

As far as the OP, I'd continue to try to find someone at college or at a club rather than going online. It's best to have a measure of control there, even if it's harder to set up.

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