As for meeting this person: Advert...? Specialist internet forums...? Swinger clubs/scene...? These are the places I'd imagine you'd find someone more down with the idea, and what you want from the get-go.
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| seedfeeder Member  My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 |  Posted - Jan 11 2011 : 7:59PMSo my wife and I got with this other girl and had some fun (a few years ago) on a few occasions. The only drawback (which ended it) was that this other woman was more of a lesbian. So her interest in me was more functional and "tricky". Ultimately she caused trouble and we ended it with her. However, I recently learned my wife wants to get another woman involved again. I think it likely we could get this same 3rd woman involved, but something new would be nice too (especially one that is more bi than lesbian). The 3rd woman was pretty perfect as she was married, and didn't fool around, EXCEPT with us. That's the kind of thing I'd/we'd want. So my question is... how do you go about finding a girl like this? On the one hand, some are into it, etc. but likely have many partners and thus risks. On the other hand, the married woman or attached woman with a disinterested man is hard to find lol. Where/How can I find a 3rd woman and be safe and avoid us getting STDs etc. Any ideas? Especially from those who have done this sort of thing with a 3rd woman? thx. [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jan 11 2011 : 8:29PM As for meeting this person: Advert...? Specialist internet forums...? Swinger clubs/scene...? These are the places I'd imagine you'd find someone more down with the idea, and what you want from the get-go. [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Jan 11 2011 : 10:11PM [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Jan 12 2011 : 12:38PM Tell us more about the trouble that she caused. Was she having feelings for your wife? I suspect inviting her back into your bedroom will probably only make those problems worse than before. Letting a third hurt your marriage takes it from the hottest thing on the planet to the worst thing on the planet in no-time. My  , look for another girl. You could try craiglist, AFF, or SLS. Backpage perhaps. As far as the risk factor, well, it's much less likely for a woman to transmit anything to a man or another woman than the opposite. You could always ask them to take an STD test and show you the results. You may also want to consider also looking for couples where the other man is only interested in watching. That would probably be safest. Plus you don't have to worry about a jealous husband showing up at your front door with a fist or weapon. Edited by - TedtheBellhop on 1/12/2011 1:38:19 PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jan 12 2011 : 2:22PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Jan 12 2011 : 5:37PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Jan 12 2011 : 5:46PM I know a couple where the guy likes to watch and I know the woman has the hots for me, so it's plausible. Only problem I see is that her husband is a real creepy looking guy and I think this creepo watching might spoil the whole thing for the wife-so I don't see that working out lol. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Jan 14 2011 : 11:11AM In either case, I'd love to hear about some of your past escapades and future ones as well. [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Jan 14 2011 : 12:26PM But I also have some sympathy for the guy as I wouldn't want to be married to a lesbian. Bi is fun, but lesbian would be no fun unless you were also a lesbian lol. I'll keep you posted. There is a girl that I know likes me... so I'm thinking of just approaching her somehow and asking her how she feels about girls lol. Seems a bit dangerous but maybe I can pull it off (dangerous as she knows people I know and I'm a bit um, political. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Jan 29 2011 : 7:29PM ----------------------------------------------------- I meant to add, in Cincinnati, OH we do a 3-way by putting chili and cheese on top of spaghetti! Tell me where else you're going to get a girl to say "Here's your 3-way!" http://skylinechili.com/3WayTimeVideo.html Edited by - TedtheBellhop on 1/29/2011 7:30:01 PM [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jan 30 2011 : 9:24AM [Link] |
| AllieStevens Member check out www.exoticdreamer.com 22 Posts 12/10 | Posted - Jan 30 2011 : 3:34PM There is a girl that I know likes me... so I'm thinking of just approaching her somehow and asking her how she feels about girls lol. Seems a bit dangerous but maybe I can pull it off (dangerous as she knows people I know and I'm a bit um, political. ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ A good way to get to know her and what she is about is meeting her for drinks or a night out to a good music and dancing along with your wife. Let her meet the both of you. This will also make her understand that you are not looking for a girlfriend. Once she meets both of you, you can also see during the interraction with you and your wife if she is more into you, or more into your wife, or both. Like previously suggested, checking out local swinger's clubs is a good idea or local events where similar-minded people gather. In those groups you won't have to explain as much what you are looking for, because the rules are often understood by most members. In any case, i wish you and your wife lot's of fun. You are one lucky couple. [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Jun 11 2011 : 5:57PM All very good advice. Only issue I'm running into is-how do we know if they're clean?? I see a few opportunities now emerging and just wouldn't want us to get mixed up with an STD. Any ideas? [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jun 12 2011 : 2:23PM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jun 12 2011 : 6:06PM Thanks, the answer seemed too obvious. Every time I've done a group encounter tests are required. It's a no-brainer! [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Jun 12 2011 : 7:24PM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Jun 13 2011 : 4:59AM [Link] |
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| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jun 17 2011 : 11:54PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Jun 20 2011 : 1:28AM [Link] |
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