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| kenny1980 Member 205 Posts 11/16 |  Posted - Nov 25 2016 : 11:47PMI am 36 and had two relationship before and now I am divorced and single. The two women were always focusing on $ , work and family. They were not even interested in vanilla sex , not to mention kinky sex. I tried buying some small sex toys but I always started slow, but they just thought all those things were disgusting. We did not divorce only because of this, but I believe it could be an indirect and unconscious reason. 1. Is there any woman in the world who does really like kinky sex like BDSM, fetishism, cuckolding etc instead of pretending to please their husband or boyfriend? 2. How to test to know in the early stage of relationship to see if a woman is interested or open to the ideas of kinky sex? 3. Is it likely to slowly educate and turn a woman into loving kinky sex. Would it be easier to make her to be a Mistress?? Would women love the idea of being a dominant, dominating everything in the house, thing like whipping or humiliating her man? [Link] |
Mister Fahrenheit  All-Star Member Meh 4655 Posts 10/13 | Posted - Nov 26 2016 : 12:04AM Edited by - Mister Fahrenheit on 11/26/2016 12:04:25 AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Nov 26 2016 : 10:52AM The short answer to the OP is yes, there are women who genuinely enjoy kinky stuff. Often, partners develop their sexual tastes in tandem and some women, raised in a culture that routinely shames them for their sexuality and simultaneously pressures them to be sexual, only become comfortable exploring kink once they trust their partner. It sounds like your previous partners simply weren't into it. Perhaps sex and kink isn't their thing and never will be. You seem open-minded though, and willing to try a variety of stuff. I'm sure you can find women who would find that to be a delight. [Link] |
| kenny1980 Member 205 Posts 11/16 | Posted - Nov 27 2016 : 12:18AM I first started looking for a right kinky woman online since 2008, I've met several women who claims to be dominant and living the lifestyle without asking for tributes. Over the past few years I met three of them after sufficient online discussion and understanding. However, when we met in person, they are just trying all different ways to ask for money. Yes, I understand that it's very reasonable for me to pay for meals, drinks, locations or even small gifts. However, I can see that they are just pretending to be "interested" and "dominant". Some of them, when we first met, they requested for borrowing thousands of bucks and promising that she would return to me next time. Another one, she just didn't know what is kinky and she just took me to her assigned night pub and forced me to pay for overpriced wine. I DO NOT MEAN it's sin to request for money. A real dominant woman can love money too. However, it also means a lot of fake dominant could use this way to cheat money. [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Dec 3 2016 : 12:52PM Seems to me if you attend those regularly you're much more likely to meet someone with the tastes you're looking for and people willing to discuss those tastes openly and nonjudgementally. In terms of books Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide to Kink seems to get consistently great reviews and has a lot of well known contributors from the kink community covering a wide range of topics from stuff for beginners up to some pretty hardcore SM stuff. Edited by - BlackSix on 12/3/2016 1:04:18 PM [Link] |
| LPee23 All-Star Member Better to be pissed on, than to be pissed off. 248 Posts 1/15 | Posted - Dec 5 2016 : 6:56PM Rather than focusing on the kinky sex aspect, my advice is to focus on the relationship from her perspective. Focus on her needs, and do your best to meet them. A deep relationship between two people is a beautiful thing, with or without kinky sex. Once you two reach a point where you are very close, and you trust each other, then bring up your kinky fantasies. Even if she is not into them, there is a good chance she will play along. She may even get to like it with time, if she sees that it pleases you. [Link] |
| PiperBlush New Member 2 Posts 12/16 | Posted - Dec 13 2016 : 11:30AM [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Dec 13 2016 : 2:53PM [Link] |
| LPee23 All-Star Member Better to be pissed on, than to be pissed off. 248 Posts 1/15 | Posted - Dec 13 2016 : 5:06PM One of the girls I hung out with in high school went around telling people how her boyfriend asked to watch her pee and she rejected him. She had no idea I was into it too when she told me and my friends. The funny thing was, we all shrugged it off, like whatever. She thought he was a dick though, and she probably wouldn't have told those stories if they had a healthy relationship. I guess that is my point. Good things follow from good relationships. You can ask about kinky sex early or late at your own judgment. Your odds of success are much higher if you and your partner are deeply invested in making each other happy. Of course, you should try to gauge her openness as early as possible. You get a sense of that once you start hooking up though. Edited by - LPee23 on 12/13/2016 5:11:35 PM [Link] |
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