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shameless
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Moscow
1313 Posts
1/03
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 11:08AM
Lindi, this was not unconsensual!

I am sorry, I did not describe all clear step by step.

Girl first did not want to do DAP, yes. But my brother booked all 3 girls including anal and all for all night. I said that to girl and gave her additional 1000 Rubles (about 32$) and she agreed to let us both go into her ass. I think she actually had anal orgasm, she moved very much and was very exited.

I dont want to discuss all movements. After discussion and additional payment IT WAS CONSENTUAL. My problem just is that I lost wood after just about 1 minute! I always have problems when fucking girl with other guys. I am only interested in ideas how to make my dick fellow my head from professionals. I just want play some porn settings in my real life. Thats all.

vodka tonic
coolest cucumber

who
1243 Posts
11/02
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 1:28PM
Cocaine ?
Once you can get it up, which is not always easy because your mind races in every direction. But once it's ready, it doesn't fluke, sometimes for hours.
Well, I know I'm treading on dangerous grounds here, & risk getting expelled from ADT, but I guess since we're talking prostitution here, and last thing I know that was illegal too, let's go all the way.
Lindi, feel free to censor my answer if needs must be.
Shawny
Member

92 Posts
3/02
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 3:22PM
I doubt you do! Or your cock would stay hard, if I was you I'd forget it, it's trying to tell you something!!!
DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 4:04PM
vodka,

Prostitution is legal in some areas and there have been legal brothels even here in the U.S.

However, I don't know of anywhere that cocaine is legal.

bigdick
Member

777 Posts
12/01
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 4:44PM
got a new girl every month..
 
vanish_062
Member

146 Posts
1/03
Posted - Mar 22 2003 : 5:57PM
if you want to get badly fucked up, and not in a good way, go the cocaine way, but its the dumbest decision you'll make.

my solution=practice!

shameless
Deactivated User

Moscow
1313 Posts
1/03
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 1:11PM
Practice sounds much better than cocaine. I already agreed with that co-fucker of mentioned night that we try it again on other escort girl I will book (and pay).
Surely discussion about more money before DAP did disturb me getting full wood fast again. But main problem still is other male (dick) so close to mine.
I hope it helps that that my brothers business-partner really likes girls asses only. He won some Moscow gymnastic contest and has self-contol sportsman approach. He is better on self-contol than me, but he does not know right escorts for such play. So I can help him there.

So I hope we can practice soon. But I still am looking for other good suggestions how to control dick so it fellows mind.

Thank you.

skronker
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Scopophiliac
9780 Posts
9/02
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 1:19PM
Don't drink or smoke.
futureofporn
Member

658 Posts
1/03
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 2:53PM
Maybe the problems is that your dick is touching your brothers dick. That would be a sure way for me to be limp for life.
shameless
Deactivated User

Moscow
1313 Posts
1/03
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 4:17PM
No way! I never co-operate fucking girl with my brother. We only sometimes share booking price of escorts. Than one of us has his way first with her and passes her on to brother. Its cheaper this way. If we are in mood afterwards we discuss how good she was. But we NEVER ever do her together.

Problem sure is other male dick so close, I think. But there must be way to overcome this problem mentally. Porn actors can do that too. And if I read Steve Holmes he is just human like me or you, no superman.

Saki
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2087 Posts
11/99
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 4:22PM
I don't think it has anything to do with any mental trick. Male porn stars are so rare precisely because very few men can actually pull off having contrived sex on command and on camera. If there was some technique that anyone could use to stay hard in a lot of tough situations, then we wouldn't see ancient guys in every single porno.

I think this is similar to questions asking how you can cum like Peter North -- all the advice, zinc, and desire in the world isn't going to make you shoot like he does...

- Saki [faqs]

Sir Noel Plum
Senior Studmuffin

1001 Posts
2/03
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 4:25PM
Dip it in Liquid Nitrogen every couple of minutes, and make sure nobody is carrying a toffee hammer else you'll be picking up shards of penis out your carpet for weeks

Alternatively,
I find confidence is all. If you can convince yourself you're going to be the business and play that part you won't have a problem.
I've not had a threesome but I can imagine what is going on here: you start the DAP, past experience makes you concerned about going soft, concern takes over and you soften slightly, you try and will yourself harder again and that makes things worse.

It sounds to me that this is just another version of performance anxiety that affects many men at some point in their life (although not usually in this particular circumstance obviously). Initially your problem perhaps was the presence of other men but I suggest that this is no longer the problem; the problem is that you associate failure (loss of wood) with the presence of other men and it is the anxiety of past failures that leads to your present problem (although in the great scheme of things, for a porn fan, this isn't a bad problem to have at least you get the chance to fail at DAPs').

I would reckon that if you can stop worrying about losing your erection in these situations the problem will go. I don't know exactly how to go about this but discussing it with your friend and the woman you book next time, beforehand, may help.

Just by way of a personal example of this performance anxiety. Some years ago (7-8) I dated a girl who during sex after a night drinking stopped after I became a little soft and said "It obviously isn't going to happen tonight, sweetie" or words to that effect. The next time we had sex I had not been drinking but I was concerned that if she was to detect a loss of turgidity in my phallus she would do the same thing again: as a result I lost my erection and we aborted things again. Eventually I tackled her about this and told her that her abruptness (possibly caused because she saw my lack of hardness as reflecting on her performance or looks in some way) was the cause of the problem, nothing else. I suggested that were it to happen again we should just carry on with oral, kissing, whatever until I got hard again. The point is, due to the psychological nature of the issue, this never proved necessary; I now felt more reassured of her response in the event of losing wood and consequently it ceased to be an issue in my brain and the problem instantly went away.

Sir Noel.

sir_cumshooter
Member

uk
96 Posts
10/02
Posted - Mar 23 2003 : 6:18PM
use Viagra

Steve Holmes
Senior Member

1235 Posts
12/02
Posted - Mar 24 2003 : 8:29PM
As far as I know, prostitution is legal in most parts of the world.

Steve Holmes

vodka tonic
coolest cucumber

who
1243 Posts
11/02
Posted - Mar 25 2003 : 7:01AM
In France the law has changed recently & it's totally illegal now (thanx to the government bieng now right-wing in majority)
I honestly thought prostitution was illegal in the US except for Nevada.
My answer was to be taken with a grain of salt (as most of my posts).



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