But seriously, how was it? That's the more important issue.
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| PornBoy Deactivated User 642 Posts 2/00 | Just wondering because I've been thinking about it since I did it. Did I commit some kind of moral sin? [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | |
| GaySatyr Senior Member Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat! 1684 Posts 10/00 | Even when sex is freely given as an expression of love, it is payment and/or reward for attention and support in the emotional sense if not the physical. Why should placing a monetary value on some aspect of sex in a specific situation make it explicitly immoral? Enjoy! ~ GaySatyr |
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| joeblow69 Member 946 Posts 2/00 | You are just a few quick clicks away from being forgiven! Pretty good deal, eh? It sounds like every time you go there, they'll just keep forgiving you... So next time, go all out and have a threesome or something! |
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| dexplorer Member 442 Posts 8/01 | I'll say a couple of things on the assumption you're pretty young and new at this. The main trouble with paid sex, at least in America, is that it usually isn't very good. (And yes it is pretty different some other places, I know mostly by reputation, but somewhat by experience. It seems to depend on a whole range of things, not just the economics but also what life in the hooker subculture is like in different places.) "Fucks like a whore" is such a ridiculous expression. Maybe it had some reality in this country like a century ago or something. Most whores hardly fuck with a whole lot of abandon. Exceptions of course, and (sometimes) if you pay enough. Or if you get someone who's just starting or is more like a pro-am sort of hooker (that's definitely the best, generally). Not that I've had THAT much experience with paid sex. But some. So the main problem with going to a whore is that there is some chance it will depress you afterwards. Or make you feel bad about casual sex. Especially if you haven't chosen your hooker real carefully with these considerations in mind, rather than only what she looks like. Or just did it blindly. No, casual sex doesn't have to be like it often is with hookers. It just helps A LOT to have the other person actually into it. Most hookers in this country try real hard not to be. |
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| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | ROTFLMAO! I'll say a couple of things on the assumption you're pretty young and new at this. The main trouble with paid sex, at least in America, is that it usually isn't very good. (And yes it is pretty different some other places, I know mostly by reputation, but somewhat by experience. It seems to depend on a whole range of things, not just the economics but also what life in the hooker subculture is like in different places.) "Fucks like a whore" is such a ridiculous expression. Maybe it had some reality in this country like a century ago or something. Most whores hardly fuck with a whole lot of abandon. Exceptions of course, and (sometimes) if you pay enough. Or if you get someone who's just starting or is more like a pro-am sort of hooker (that's definitely the best, generally). Not that I've had THAT much experience with paid sex. But some. So the main problem with going to a whore is that there is some chance it will depress you afterwards. Or make you feel bad about casual sex. Especially if you haven't chosen your hooker real carefully with these considerations in mind, rather than only what she looks like. Or just did it blindly. No, casual sex doesn't have to be like it often is with hookers. It just helps A LOT to have the other person actually into it. Most hookers in this country try real hard not to be. [/quote] I have to disagree with this n every front. Sex with a paid prvider is like obtaining any other type of service, there are great, good, mediocre and bad. Women who wish to sustain themselves in the profession have a vested interest in providing the client with an enjoyable encounter. Those who complain have not shopped around. My advice is to take some time and check out sites that rate girls, read reviews of clients, ask the girls questions beforehand. As far as feeling guilty, this is something else you can talk about with the girl. You'd be surprised with the insight most girls have and the conversation you could have might go a long way in dispelling those feelings. |
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