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PornBoy
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 10:37AM
Just wondering because I've been thinking about it since I did it. Did I commit some kind of moral sin?
dumblonde
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 10:58AM
You're asking us?

But seriously, how was it? That's the more important issue.

GaySatyr
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Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat!
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 11:56AM
Don't we all pay for sex in one way or another?

Even when sex is freely given as an expression of love, it is payment and/or reward for attention and support in the emotional sense if not the physical.

Why should placing a monetary value on some aspect of sex in a specific situation make it explicitly immoral?

Enjoy!

~ GaySatyr

Jim-A
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New England
109 Posts
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 1:58PM
I'm all ears
joeblow69
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946 Posts
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 5:27PM
Well, if you believe in all that God stuff, head on over to the Christian Confessor.

You are just a few quick clicks away from being forgiven! Pretty good deal, eh? It sounds like every time you go there, they'll just keep forgiving you... So next time, go all out and have a threesome or something!

 
Dr. Evil
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Posted - Sep 5 2001 : 6:52PM
Only if you didnt enjoy it.
dexplorer
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442 Posts
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Posted - Sep 6 2001 : 12:52PM
ROTFLMAO!

I'll say a couple of things on the assumption you're pretty young and new at this. The main trouble with paid sex, at least in America, is that it usually isn't very good. (And yes it is pretty different some other places, I know mostly by reputation, but somewhat by experience. It seems to depend on a whole range of things, not just the economics but also what life in the hooker subculture is like in different places.)

"Fucks like a whore" is such a ridiculous expression. Maybe it had some reality in this country like a century ago or something. Most whores hardly fuck with a whole lot of abandon. Exceptions of course, and (sometimes) if you pay enough. Or if you get someone who's just starting or is more like a pro-am sort of hooker (that's definitely the best, generally). Not that I've had THAT much experience with paid sex. But some.

So the main problem with going to a whore is that there is some chance it will depress you afterwards. Or make you feel bad about casual sex. Especially if you haven't chosen your hooker real carefully with these considerations in mind, rather than only what she looks like. Or just did it blindly.

No, casual sex doesn't have to be like it often is with hookers. It just helps A LOT to have the other person actually into it. Most hookers in this country try real hard not to be.

Gator
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58 Posts
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Posted - Sep 6 2001 : 4:56PM
Not much wrong with it. I've done it. Not street hookers tho, too risky could be cops. Call girls. Didn't regret it. Didn't think it was anything more than a plain old fashioned fuck.

Gator

astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Tastes so good...
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Posted - Sep 7 2001 : 12:12AM
I guess that depends on if you cheated on somebody when you did it. If you cheated on a SO paying for sex, then I'd say BAD PORNBOY!!!! If not, it's a victimless crime. You saved the time in buying the person a few drinks and just gave them the money instead.
dexplorer
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442 Posts
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Posted - Sep 7 2001 : 12:21AM
Why do porn stars (and presumably sometimes their SO's) get to have non monogomous sex while in relationships (married or not), and people like PornBoy inherantly can't -- in your view?


Edited by - dexplorer on Sep 7 2001

astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Tastes so good...
4187 Posts
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Posted - Sep 7 2001 : 9:04AM
Because I can watch the porn stars do it!!!

But seriously, porn stars are normally in an open relationship where it's understood that they're going to be doing other people. The key word there is "cheating", which I don't consider porn stars as cheating.

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Bobcat
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1490 Posts
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Posted - Oct 24 2010 : 3:33AM
You should only be ashamed if you don't behave like a gentleman, or what the lady percieves to be gentlemanly behaviour! Treat the girls you pay with the same respect as your gf
saratoga120
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Posted - Oct 24 2010 : 7:32PM
Everyone has different sex drives. Society has an interest in seeing things proceed in as orderly, non-conflicting way as it can dupe individuals into believing is right. If you value society over yourself, then, yes, you were in error to exchange anything other than emotionally committed love for sexual thrills. Unfortunately, these two are frequently mutually incompatible. You lose, society!
WardqueenJanine
Member

914 Posts
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Posted - Oct 24 2010 : 8:30PM

ROTFLMAO!
I'll say a couple of things on the assumption you're pretty young and new at this. The main trouble with paid sex, at least in America, is that it usually isn't very good. (And yes it is pretty different some other places, I know mostly by reputation, but somewhat by experience. It seems to depend on a whole range of things, not just the economics but also what life in the hooker subculture is like in different places.)
"Fucks like a whore" is such a ridiculous expression. Maybe it had some reality in this country like a century ago or something. Most whores hardly fuck with a whole lot of abandon. Exceptions of course, and (sometimes) if you pay enough. Or if you get someone who's just starting or is more like a pro-am sort of hooker (that's definitely the best, generally). Not that I've had THAT much experience with paid sex. But some.
So the main problem with going to a whore is that there is some chance it will depress you afterwards. Or make you feel bad about casual sex. Especially if you haven't chosen your hooker real carefully with these considerations in mind, rather than only what she looks like. Or just did it blindly.
No, casual sex doesn't have to be like it often is with hookers. It just helps A LOT to have the other person actually into it. Most hookers in this country try real hard not to be.

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I have to disagree with this n every front. Sex with a paid prvider is like obtaining any other type of service, there are great, good, mediocre and bad. Women who wish to sustain themselves in the profession have a vested interest in providing the client with an enjoyable encounter.
Those who complain have not shopped around. My advice is to take some time and check out sites that rate girls, read reviews of clients, ask the girls questions beforehand. As far as feeling guilty, this is something else you can talk about with the girl. You'd be surprised with the insight most girls have and the conversation you could have might go a long way in dispelling those feelings.
 
lunacyagain
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Somewhere between Heaven & Hell
33 Posts
3/06
Posted - Nov 5 2010 : 5:37AM
No, I don't see anything wrong with it at all. So long as you used protection and had a good time. If a woman chooses to sell her body, you're just utilizing the service she's offering. Relax.
matchmaker
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24914 Posts
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Posted - Nov 6 2010 : 1:54AM
Well, that's a positive spin on prostitution.
BryanKleist
Member

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Posted - Nov 17 2010 : 8:38PM
Heck no. Personally, I don't understand prostitution (if I have to *pay* to eat your pussy it just ain't gonna be that much fun) but as long as it's a transaction between consenting adults I think it's okay. As for it being a "moral sin", I think God has much more pressing concerns and interests than what people are doing in their sex lives. If there is such thing as a moral sin, and I think there is, it's deliberate cruelty towards other living things. Relax - you're okay.
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