....she's ready for sex. At least, that's according to my cousin I can't believe that it has any basis in reality, though. I've seen girls playing with their hair while simply driving. Does that mean they are ready for sex on a subconscious level? Girls, what's your view on this?
Isn't that the thing? That if they're on a date and they like the guy, women will subconsciously start preening themselves; stroking their hair, throwing their hair around etc because they want to look good for him and entice him with her lovely, freshly-washed hair...
So the cousin is sort of right - it's a definite sign of attraction, though thinking she's ready for sex is a bit of an overreaction
No, twiddling with hair is like chewing on nails. The hair fling in combination with leaning forward might mean she wants you to make a move though. The point is something that highlights what she thinks is attractive about herself.
I run my hands through my hair too, but that is because I generally have longer bangs - to the point of a ponytail once upon a time. It doesn't mean anything specific, but as a guy I wouldn't mind a blowjob and I am ready for sex.
I don't buy the hair thing either, but when girls unconciously close and open their legs while sitting it definitely means they want sex. (Or they might be pleasuring themselves right then and there).
I think it depends on the individual and circumstances. Most of the time it is probably meaningless and unintentional. There are probably occassions when a woman is attracted to a man and nervously begins playing with her hair. On occassion, she might be intentionally sending a signal that she is interested. But me, I'm so oblivious that a woman pretty much has to be playing with MY pubic hair before I get any signals.
I know when I'm being flirted with, despite my natural nescience and 15 years of pussy-signal-numbing marriage but when you make that eye contact that says "yeah, I know you wanna fuck me just as bad as I wanna fuck you but omigod how silly is that I mean we'll never see each other again and even if we do if we pursue any kind of relationship beyond the physical all it will do is fuck our lives up and complicate things and be far too much more trouble than three days of mind-wrenching orgasms is worth (in the long run, we've got to keep things in perspective, after all), so I'll just go home and watch porn that has people in it that look like you while I masturbate and imagine doing all the nasty shit you should've had done to you by me and loving every second of it and begging for more while I.."
Well, you know. Hair's got not much of nothing to do with it.
wouldn't it be more likely that if a man plays with a woman's hair then they're getting ready for sex? unless they're a hairdresser, of course, for obvious reasons.
So when a woman is chewing gum, staring vacuously at nothing, and twirling her hair, does that mean she is ready to do the room? How about when they are on the phone and playing with their hair? Do they want to do the person they are talking to or somebody in the same room? We need clear rules.
Nothing in my post said she didn't. I asked if that is what it meant.
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john thomas Deactivated User
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Posted - Aug 10 2006 : 10:38PM
Some rough guidelines:
If she's playing with her hair while smiling flirtatiously and, in seeming absent-mindedness, gently touching various parts of her interlocutor's anatomy, then she is at least considering the possibility of sex sometime later that evening.
If she's playing with her hair while staring into space, she's got the love eggs in.
If she's rakishly twirling her handlebar moustache, she ready for sex but she's not going to get it.
If she's playing with another girl's hair, she's probably a lesbian.
If she's playing with her armpit hair, she's probably a European.
If she's playing with the hair on your balls, sadly the chances are she's just a pricktease.
If she's playing with the hair on her balls, she does want sex but only so she can get the money to fund the final surgery.
If she's playing with the hair on her ass while waving said ass in your face and making whooping noises, she is definitely ready for sex. Unfortunately she is a gibbon.
If she's playing with the hair on her chest, she's been borrowing Floyd Landis' "medication" and is ready to join the Russian women's shot put team.
If she's distractedly playing with the hair of the guy who's got his face buried between her thighs, she was ready for sex but is starting to get bored with the whole idea.
If she's playing with the hair on her feet, she's ready for sex but only with another hobbit.
If she's playing with the hair on the palms of her hands: Congratulations! you've just found a fellow porn lover - suggest that the pair of you act out your favourite scenes together. (WARNING: make sure she isn't a scat fan first.)
If she's got her legs spread wide, running her fingers through her pubic hair and saying something like "God I'm so wet, I need you inside me NOW", then she may be ready for sex, but don't count on it: you really never can tell with women.
While the forum was unavailable I took the opportunity to engage in some rigorous fieldwork on this question. The discoveries I made (at some personal cost I can tell you) have been accommodated into my earlier guidelines.