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| sutz Member  beta male 29 Posts 6/13 |  Posted - Jun 24 2013 : 9:21PMI feel turned on by being jealous about my girl, I have seen many guys feel worst. My question is if it is normal to get turned on in this way? If it's not normal how to get out of it? How many guys feel the same way out there? [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jun 25 2013 : 8:37PM Edited by - Dubious_Leftovers on 6/25/2013 8:39:11 PM [Link] |
| sutz Member beta male 29 Posts 6/13 | Posted - Jun 25 2013 : 9:45PM [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jun 25 2013 : 10:10PM Pros and cons? Pros... Well, it seems to be your fetish. If it turns you on, and you have a partner that you ultimately trust and who's totally down for it, then you'd probably enjoy it (as some within the swinger/open relationship dynamic do). Cons... Jealousy could end up being destructive; it straight out doesn't work for everybody, and one might end up feeling ultimately hurt and humiliated by it. Again, it varies, and I think a certain amount of what you know about how you'd react is experiential; it works for some and not for others, basically. Edited by - Dubious_Leftovers on 6/25/2013 10:18:52 PM [Link] |
| sutz Member beta male 29 Posts 6/13 | Posted - Jun 25 2013 : 10:26PM Its human tendency to do the things which other restrict you from doing and the same happened in my last relationship which hurts like anything. What I learnt from that I shouldn't take the ownership of a person be the person is 'she'. So I am trying to move to what you call 'cucky' lifestyle where I would just sit back and watch and sometimes join also. What is scary is the thought of losing again. If this kinda life gives pleasure and make my girl happy I would really go for it. Now worst part is I changed myself now I don't know how the future would be. [Link] |
| scorpiusdeus Member Nice thing about tattoos, I'm spending much less on porn now. 225 Posts 9/11 | Posted - Jun 26 2013 : 3:52PM You got your heart broken and it hurt like hell... That's it, period, end of story. THAT is normal. Wanting to become a cuck to find the silver lining in getting fucked over isn't IMHO! It seems to me that you may have some feelings of inferiority and that needs to be dealt with. No one deserves to be cheated on. [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jun 26 2013 : 7:46PM It takes a certain kind of inner strength to make a thing like this work, and I'm not sure that you're really in the right place for it, long-term from what you've written here. Could end up being destructive. As you're currently dealing with something, you'd need to fully get over it before you're in a position to fully judge if this is the right road for you personally. Getting your heart broken is a total headfuck (has happened to me), and your reactions aren't the same as they would be normally. Time sorts that out, and you return to normal. Doing something destructive may not only prolong it, but also continue to eat away at your self worth. My honest advice? Give it a couple of years until your head's straight. You may feel different about it, and if it's still a fetish, you could probably move into it in a way that'd be ultimately more enjoyable and far less likely to leave you feeling like shit. [Link] |
| sutz Member beta male 29 Posts 6/13 | Posted - Jul 2 2013 : 2:58PM [Link] |
| KantellYu Member 20 Posts 5/13 | Posted - Aug 13 2013 : 7:29AM [Link] |
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