Are you implying that these men are "punching above their weight" or are you merely remarking that porn actresses are regular people who don't do 9 to 5, which is what everyone who watches porn should be aware of?
^^ Which someone noted in her thread, and which then prompted her response, "Enough everyone!" . [fixing up-arrows] Edited by - bob on 10/10/2017 2:52:03 AM
^^ I'm merely remarking . . . etc. I don't believe there's such a thing as "punching above one's weight" -- which was my point in starting this topic in the first place. Someone either thinks you're great, or they don't. It's not necessarily any one particular thing that attracts anyone to anyone else. You never know why it is, and you can't manufacture it. . [typos today] Edited by - bob on 10/10/2017 2:57:15 AM
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Posted - Oct 10 2017 : 3:41AM
yes, a dashing fellow actually, the hair cut doesn't do him any favors i suppose... lol i am not sure why fans think porn girls should all fall in love with roided up , fake tanned, caverject juiced, porn types of guys. Looks matter in dating, casual hookups, whatever.. but you want to marry someone and have it last more than a year before it starts to fall apart? Then you have to consider a lot of factors beyond what someone looks like on the outside.
Let's also remember that pornstars read these threads. I've seen one comment on Dani Daniels' thread describing her husband as "ugly". Keep it appropriate everyone.
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Posted - Oct 10 2017 : 1:01PM
As far as I know, Katrina's very lucky. Nigel is a hotwifer who takes pleasure in the fact that his wife has sex with people other than him (both in and out of porn). There are only so many people who don't insist on monogamy, and besides that your personalities have to be complementary in other respects as well. She's hit the jackpot.
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Posted - Oct 10 2017 : 1:19PM
^ Oh, yeah, I remember seeing them on some late night show on Showtime in which that was the subject. (I can't remember the show off the top of my head.)
^^^One of the reasons why they might date these types of guys is that they work with them on a regular basis and that is often how many relationship start in other industries so why would it be different for the porn industry. Edited by - pat362 on 10/10/2017 1:42:32 PM
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Posted - Oct 10 2017 : 1:36PM
^In an interview I saw with Katrina online, she also mentioned that she and her husband had begun to experiment with BDSM. That's another thing that you don't get with just any guy. Edited by - misspornUSA on 10/10/2017 1:42:11 PM Edited by - misspornUSA on 10/10/2017 1:56:31 PM
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Posted - Oct 10 2017 : 1:59PM
sure, but one should not assume it is a shock when they date someone who doesn't look like a porn dude or is perceived to be not as attractive as the girl.
I'm derailing my own topic, but I really never intended it to have much forward momentum anyway. I had just read one too many posts ooohing and aahing over pornstars as if they were from another planet or something. It's silly. But anyway, I'd never heard the term "hotwifer" before, but I guess it's a thing, and a thing separate from being either a "cuckold" or a "swinger". Per sex columnist Dan Savage:You learn something new every day.
^It's related to the idea of "hotwife" as mentioned by Bob in the preceding post; I found the T-shirt amusingly relevant. Dee Siren and husband (Mr. Siren) have built a porn company from hotwifing. The tagline appears onscreen at the end of her scenes: "Dee Siren.....The hotwife you wish you had". She has also done scenes with mainstream porn studios. As far as attainability, I guess her husband is a regular guy; all I've seen of him is his arm and his cock in POV action. Plenty of "fans" have fucked her while husband filmed it, for posting on their paysite.
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Posted - Oct 12 2017 : 6:58PM
Neither of these guys are unhandsome. Nigel is a big guy but that has an appeal all its own.
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Posted - Oct 12 2017 : 7:48PM
Take away the celebrity of porn and the professional hair and makeup staff and you'll find that the average porn performer could get lost in am crowd without a second look. So, I don't know why people are surprised when they'rr with just random guys. OTOH, give me professional hair and make up people put me on a few magazine covers I'm just as good looking as George Clooney
I wasn't intending to insult them. Point was simply that, from the perspective of their personal appearance, they're regular guys. The reasons these "unattainable" pornstars love them -- if love ever has reasons -- are other things. Which is as it should be.
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Posted - Oct 14 2017 : 2:51PM
Just a point of note from one who has met at least 10 porn performers when they are out of character. They are very obtainable as the the person and the character are 2 different people. Get to know some of these girls and you'd be very surprised. Just like a story I read about Snoop Dogg in Old School and also Starsky and Hutch. In Old School, Snoop was 3 hours late for his call time but on Starsky & Hutch he was very prompt. The director asked what gives. Snoop said, "Easy, here you're hiring Calvin the Actor, and there you were hiring Snoop the Rapper."
I think the stereotypical way of thinking about who a pornstar dates or marries is great looking guy or some guy with lots of money because some people tend to think of pornstars as these great looking, sexy, girls who have their pick of guys. But maybe it's less so now but don't many pornstars, strippers, and such usually end up falling for crappy guys? Like guys in bands that don't make any money and/or guys that use them and treat them badly? The bad boy type? I know that's not true of all girls but it seems to happen often enough.
I personally think there is no woman that is unattainable, hell I remember in an interview how Peta Jensen mentioned she met her fiancee on PlentyofFish. Too many times guys build many women up in their minds as these perfect goddess, and it is not just porn but women in general. I think the women in porn are beautiful but let's be honest head to a college campus and you cant find girls just as hot and beautiful, walk around Miami, LA, NYC and you will find women that are just as beautiful and not all of them are dating male models, pro athlete, multi billionaires. If anything with twitter, snapchat, onlyfans, the multitude of interviews that they give guys should know that all these girls have flaws (some major) and many of them have major insecurities so the idea that they are unattainable is crazy so guy stop putting the pussy on a pedestal,
^ No person is unattainable if the other person has what they're looking for. Who knows what that is for any person? The idea that pornstars, in general, are especially desirable women -- more desirable than, say, women who are doctor, lawyers, or Indian chiefs -- is another strange fantasy that some people have. Makes me think of that book Jenna Jameson wrote, "How To Make Love Like a Pornstar". What would that be? Arching your back, swiping your hair out of the way, and playing for the camera? People are people.
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Posted - Oct 16 2017 : 5:43PM
Are Katrina Jane's husband and Bobbi Star's husband porn performers or ex porn performers? Because if they're not I don't really understand why they did marry those women...it's beyond logic, beyond morals, beyond everything. Watching these persons in porn movies is one thing, living with them and marry them is quite another... Really unreasonable O_O
^^ You can probably fill the Grand Canyon with what you don't understand judging from your self-righteous comment. Maybe you would start to understand other people's relationships by coming down from your high horse and NOT using your pompous standards or experiences as a benchmark. Until you acknowledge that different people like different things, you will never stand any chance of understanding why people marry "those women" as you put it. Porn performers are people and are no less deserving of love, being in a relationship/getting married whether that person is in the industry or not. You're incredibly naive to believe that love is logical. If you're going to lecture people about morality, remember that morality is not a constant. Yes, I'm sure watching a porn performer is different to living with or marrying one but that doesn't mean it shouldn't happen nor does it mean they should be looked down on disdainfully because of their career choice.
Katrina Jade is gorgeous, but I definitely wouldn't be comfortable with her carrying on as a pornstar if I was married to her, she's only 25 too. Hey ho, he's a lucky bloke anyway.
^ That's another thing to take into consideration...Pornstars have limited options when it comes to the guys they can be with because most guys can't handle being with a girl who has sex with other guys on a regular basis. That's not saying a girl who chooses to do porn are doing something bad or wrong but the thought of being with a girl they care about banging other men. So in some cases porn girls are willing to look past superficial things like looks and look for guys who are willing to accept their career choices and not try and change her. What I find more interesting is the amount of young porngirls who say they prefer dating older guys. I often wonder if they are talking about real relationships or sugar daddies.
^I agree and I think sugar daddies are a significant step-up from suitcase pimps because with a sugar daddy the performer gets to spend the SD money where has with a SP they are the ones spending the performers money.
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