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All Forums > Sex Talk > Sex Talk Forum Page 34 > I'm 40 years old and I've lost my sex drive :(

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MaxBling66 Member 409 Posts 11/05	Posted - Mar 4 2007 : 1:29AM I have a beautiful girlfriend who lives with me, and we are down to having sex about twice a month. It's 90% my fault. When we first met two years ago, we fucked like rabbits almost every night. It gradually slowed to where it is now. I think she thinks I'm cheating on her because of the lack of sex, but honestly, I have no desire anymore. It's not just with her though. I don't feel like jacking off much either. I used to rub one out about 4 times a week, and even THAT is down to once every 7 to 10 days. I still have the "mental" desire. I appreciate my girlfriend's beauty, and I still surf for good porn online all the time. But when it comes to fucking or masturbating, my brain doesn't seem to be sending the message to my dick. I took an 8 week cycle of steroids (Deca) two years ago. During the cycle, I could not get hard very easily. After I stopped juicing, the hard-ons came back, but the desire never returned to where it was pre-steroids. Therefore, I guess my next step is to visit an endocrinoloist to see if my testosterone levels are where they should be. Any other advice? [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Mar 4 2007 : 1:38AM Start an exercise regimen and follow through with your doctor. [Link]
MaxBling66 Member 409 Posts 11/05	Posted - Mar 4 2007 : 1:50AM Thanks Hardware. I'm at the gym 5 times a week. Weights, cardio, the whole nine yards. I am a bouncer at a nightclub. Most people I meet think I am about 25 or 26. So my physical condition (outwardly) isn't the issue. But again, the mirror can't measure testosterone levels. [Link]
phatbasey Senior Member 1390 Posts 1/05	Posted - Mar 4 2007 : 2:10AM I have been told that Viagra works mentally as well as physically. I am not saying you have trouble getting it up. I did not either but my doctor (years ago gave me some Viagra)maybe you can bring this idea up to your doctor. [Link]
Endorphin Luminary 1185 Posts 3/00	Posted - Mar 4 2007 : 2:27AM You probably should see a doctor, but beyond that... I have somewhat of the thing for orgasm denial..really, it is intense teasing..but anyways I have spent some time on sites devoted to some type of orgasm denial and I have been baffled by the the extremes....but what does this have to do with your situation? I am thinking that you might be able to change the situation with some role play and some endurance of blue balls. My guess is that part of the problem is that you have a large refractory period. Once you release, you just don't have a great urge to release for a very long time. Through teasing you could increase that urge to release on a daily basis as long as you don't release. Try this. Establish an agreement with your girlfriend that she determines when you are allowed to cum, but you must make her cum, even just orally whenever she wants AND she is allowed to tease your cock whenever she wants. By the end of a few days your sex drive will probably be there. You may want to share this with forum members at Orgasm Denial to see if they have suggestions. Molon Labe...Oh! And! FREE THE WEED!!! [Link]

JimGunn Member Where The Teens Are 173 Posts 1/02	Posted - Mar 7 2007 : 6:56PM MaxBling66 wrote: my dick. I took an 8 week cycle of steroids (Deca) two years ago. During the cycle, I could not get hard very easily. After I stopped juicing, the hard-ons came back, but the desire never returned to where it was pre-steroids. Therefore, I guess my next step is to visit an endocrinoloist to see if my testosterone levels are where they should be. Any other advice? Click to expand You have to do what is called post-cycle therapy when you get off a steroid cycle or you can have libido problems. This, coupled with naturally lowering testosterone levels as you age, especially past forty, is likely the cause of your problems. I'm assuming you aren't overweight or a cigarette smoker, but if you are, that will also worsen your situation. Be aware, most endos don't know squat about this stuff, all they want to do is pump out scripts for fat diabetic old people. If you are serious about getting your libido back, you may need to look into seeing a specialist in male health and anti-aging medicine who is an expert in these fields. If your blood levels call for it, you may possibly get started on testosterone replacement therapy and other routines. Here is one forumto start at. Good luck. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Mar 7 2007 : 9:50PM Get into model trains? [Link]
axlsfury Senior Member 1110 Posts 7/04	Posted - Mar 13 2007 : 11:02PM Have you ever been diagnosed or treated for depression? That is a full on dick killer, as can the treatments for it. Maybe you're working too hard also? I've gone through phases like that where I literally am too tired to rub one out. Whatever is going on, I wish you all the best man cause you're young. [Link]
Corben99 Member Deep South Texas 146 Posts 11/06	Posted - Mar 15 2007 : 5:53AM MaxBling66 wrote: I have a beautiful girlfriend who lives with me, and we are down to having sex about twice a month. It's 90% my fault. When we first met two years ago, we fucked like rabbits almost every night. It gradually slowed to where it is now. I think she thinks I'm cheating on her because of the lack of sex, but honestly, I have no desire anymore. It's not just with her though. I don't feel like jacking off much either. I used to rub one out about 4 times a week, and even THAT is down to once every 7 to 10 days. I still have the "mental" desire. I appreciate my girlfriend's beauty, and I still surf for good porn online all the time. But when it comes to fucking or masturbating, my brain doesn't seem to be sending the message to my dick. I took an 8 week cycle of steroids (Deca) two years ago. During the cycle, I could not get hard very easily. After I stopped juicing, the hard-ons came back, but the desire never returned to where it was pre-steroids. Therefore, I guess my next step is to visit an endocrinoloist to see if my testosterone levels are where they should be. Any other advice? Click to expand Just do it like the Nazis did back in World War 2. Where they would show porn to men in a room, but wouldn't let them jack off. They were like tied up, and weren't allowed to do anything but watch porn. We're talking days sitting in a chair, not being able to close your eyes, and not being allowed to jack off. Do a milder version of it with your hot girlfriend. Have her tie you up, and start the procedure. She could jack you off till the point of cumming, and then she can stop. Plus she could massage your prostate. And then challenge your manhood on somekind of phychological level. Also buy some of that European Maxoderm. Get a couple jars of testosterone cream, and rub liberally. Get some sunlight, and fill up a back pack with 70 lbs. worth of weights. And run around the desert during high noon. Take plenty of water. And while you're out there read Cheri, or Fox magazine. But don't touch your dick. Rent Fight Club. And start a fight club. I guarantee after you come home from kicking somebodies ass, you will turn into Steve Holmes/or Eric Everhard, and start pounding away on your chick like rabbits. Or like the Ladies Man always says: JUST DO IT IN THE BUTT. Hope that helps. Oh an make her wear nasty lingerie, and buy some fuck furniture. Stuff like from JT's Stockroom. Maybe even Liberator Dot Comm. [Link]

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