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| iowagonzo Member 272 Posts 9/07 | In the heat of fucking your partner and you want to take it to the "next level" of sex due to an increase in lust what do you do to initiate or indicate an interest in say....fucking your girlfriend/ wife's mouth...do you ask if you can fuck their throat or do you start slow and work up in intensity? Or...how do you indicate that rimming is on the "menu" with a relatively new partner...do you say "i want you lick my asshole" or "i want to taste your asshole" or does your partner/you just go down and try it and see if the reaction to it is positive or not? Same goes for hair pulling, ass slapping, smacking a cock on a partners face, or grinding your pussy into someones face, etc. Just curious if a majority of peoples kinky non vanilla interests have been initiated through verbal communication during sex or if those acts just come as a "fluid" like action during heated fucking and if both partners like whats going on they continue with it and if not then the attempt to try it was short lived. Edited by - iowagonzo on Jun 9 2013 Edited by - iowagonzo on Jun 9 2013 Edited by - iowagonzo on Jun 9 2013 [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | If they were a good lay, more than likely they were adventurous. Because people who are adventurous are the types who usually want to do something they enjoy very well. They are usually willing to learn something new about that activity even if it's a personal lesson about themselves. People like that make good play partners. After we establish whether or not they want to try, then I start asking the real questions about what we both might be into. |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | |
| francios Senior Member 1802 Posts 2/05 | "I'd love to smack your Ass" while your lightly slapping it and slowly increase the pressure to make sure it isn't to much. Rubbing her asshole with a wet finger while your fucking or eating her to gauge her response. Nothing like having a girl ask "Are you just going to play with my ass or Fuck It!" |
| davebowman Member 294 Posts 6/09 | |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | |
| scorpiusdeus Member Nice thing about tattoos, I'm spending much less on porn now. 225 Posts 9/11 | The absolute best sex you will ever have in your life is the sex you have with the person you are most open and honest with about everything. The only no no I have gotten yet with my lady is access to a backstage pass. Everything else I just ease into and she generally begs for more and asks what other tricks I have up my sleeve.. or shorts as the case may be. Edited by - scorpiusdeus on 6/24/2013 3:18:01 PM |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | What you should recognize, though, is that reserving an intimate act or body part is indicative of the material nature of the transaction. It says, "You cannot have me, but you can have a part of my body that I can disassociate from my self." If you're fine with that then keep on doing what you're doing. |
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